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I am a happy person. I believe in laughing so hard that it feels like a mini-vacation. I'm a glass is half full kind of girl. I always try to find a positive, even in bad situations. I'm a hard worker and love my job. I'm a nurse and wouldn't have any other career. My musical taste r mixed. Country, rock, pop.. a lil bit of everything. I am by far one of the least judgmental people you will ever meet. I love to talk. I love getting to know people. I have big goals in life. I want to go back to school. I consider myself a lifetime learner. I believe once you stop learning, changing and striving to make yourself better you might as well throw in the towel. I like to be spoiled but enjoy to spoil as well. I'm not looking for a one night hook- up. I like getting to know ppl. I'm choosy about who I let into my world so if your not willing to hang around long enough to get to know me then I'm not interested. I want to find that one man who loves being with me and whom I could think of nothing else I'd rather do than to make him happy. That man that takes my breath away. I want to be with a man that wants to be a team in life and the goal is to make each others wildest dreams come true. That being said... I'm a package deal. I have three young ladies to raise... they are part of my dream always! You must be self sufficient. A job and transportation are a must. You must be able to take care of me from time to time. All other times I'm able to take care of myself lol. ;0)And plz only positive ppl. I am tired of negative depressed ppl. Im sorry if your life sucks... go out and change it, you make it different!!! You have the power to do that just as much as I do :-DNOW... lets see who is still curious....time for my baggage.... here it goes! I state my status as seperated... that is true for the most part... I am still married.Divorce is in the works. I live in the same house as my husband, although seperate bedrooms. I do date. He knows it. We simply have a easier life if we parent our kids together right now. We don't hate eachother and neither of us have found anyone to give us reason to change the situation. I WOULD LOVE TO FIND THAT PERSON. I'm an honest woman and won't hide anything from anyone. I am tired of explaining this situation to everyone that I talk to so this fixes that. That being said... I am over the end of the relationship with my husband. Its been over 2years since things went bad. I have worked thru it and have healed. If you are very recently out of a relationship and things are still up on the air if its over don't come to me. I want someone that is truly able to take next steps in life.. not someone that Im really gonna like only to have them go back to someone else. Thx. I understand that I am an amazing, one of a kind woman. I have thoughts of my own, I am logical, I hold myself to the same standards as everyone else. I am willing to admit when I am wrong. I am a comforter. I love with every part of my being. Because of this I have had my heart broken a bit too much. I want that man that chooses me above everyone else and has a healthy fear of losing me. I refuse to settle for anything short of breathtaking because that is what I can be. Somewhere to talk and get to know one another. ;-) I love a great conversation. I love to have intellectual conversations as well as ones full of random nothingness. Good food, free refills and smiles r required. Lol.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    Hello, I am getting much more mail than I thought I would get and I can't even read it all!! I am really truly looking for my forever best friend and soul mate if that even exists. I am trying to navigate through this mail and it's really difficult. So please don't write me if you are much older than me, if you are not making a serious effort to find someone, or if you are trying to find someone to trade dirty pics with. Do not write me if you are already with someone or one of those people that talks to chicks constantly and are a self proclaimed player. I just want to find the one to spend the rest of my life with and build a happy family. I am NOT in FL right now. I am in ME, but want to move back to FL soon. I have children so I am looking for a family orientated man who wants to share a life together. Sometimes I get depressed and tired because I am alone and I hate it, but I am not going to settle until I find the right one for me. And please don't write me if you are going to be rude or mean. Thank you. I am fun, intelligent, creative, artistic and easy going. I love to laugh and have fun. If you can actually make me laugh, that is a big plus ;) I am REAL and am going to tell you how it is. I think it is not so much where you go and what you do that makes something most memorable, it is the person that you are doing it with. With someone awesome like me you can make something like a simple walk into your own little adventure, or with someone lame you could make something fun like going to an amusement park into an excruciatingly lame and time wasting experience. I don't care how much money you have or what little toys you have to show me. I hold HONESTY and LOYALTY very high. Ride or Die or don't bother. I want to find that love like no other. I am going to put out there what I want, because otherwise I am sure as hell not going to find it. I tend to find guys that I am either crazy attracted to, but I cannot talk to on an intellectual level, or guys that I can talk to all day, but I want to stay at least five feet away from at all times. I tend to be attracted to guys that are black or mixed, I don't know why, but it must be ingrained into the strands of my DNA. The tall guys that can pick me up and carry me around :) The ones that can make me laugh and giggle and smile nonstop. The guys that are pretty laid back. I do not like to fight, nor do I like drama. Cool and Collected, Successful, Sexy and Funny. Is that really too much to ask? If you think you have what I'm looking for, and I got what you need ;) Then jump on down the rabbit hole. And if you read this whole thing, that's pretty impressive in itself. :D Ummm Hellooo..... Video Chat so that I know you are who you say that you are....Like Totally Duh!! ;D

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    Hello! I'm newly single and looking for true love. It's been a rough journey for me when it comes to finding true love but I don't give up. I know there is a man out there for me, who wants to love me lol. Love Orange County.I try not to take myself so seriously. I like to laugh and have a good time with everyone. I enjoy going to the beach, watching movies, going to Angels games, outdoor activities, and staying home and cuddling. I'm looking for a man who knows what he wants. A man who has a job and takes care of his responsibilities. A man who lives on his own or working on it lol.I'm not looking to hook up so please don't bother me if you are. Anyone can get laid. Hopefully I will find what I'm looking for.

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    I am very loving and devoted to my family and friends; I would do anything for them and I hope they'd do the same for me. I am independent, sarcastic, silly, feisty, and passionate. I'm up for almost anything, as long as someone else makes the plans. I enjoy gardening and taking care of my house. I love trying new things. I'm a high school teacher - it's exhausting but rewarding. I want romance and I am looking for a meaningful relationship. I want a family. Faith is important to me. One of my biggest pet peeves is poor grammar; especially knowing the difference between your and you're. Also, really, how much longer does it take to write "you" *** "u"? Coffee or drinks. It's important to get to know each other without too much pressure.

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