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About Me

I'm a firm believer that life is too short and you should appreciate all that you have. I'm very close with my family and friends and I have absolutely no regrets in my life. I love trying new things and I also love traveling once a year if my schedule allows it. I love working out running,boxing, Vball and anything that involves biometrics. I especially like being outside for exercise, near the water of I can. I'm a very laid back person so I don't like any negativity, granted things happen but I surround myself with honest and real people and this is what I'm looking for. I was I the army for none years and I do t use it as something to brag about. Being in the military is what made me want to become a nurse and I'm very lucky to say that I enjoy my job every day. First date I would like to do something casual with my date not where there is too much pressure I either person something comfortable so that conversation is easy to have. I don't have a specific perfect first date, I'm very flexible

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Tilda

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    Hi! I a m looking for someone who wants a long term relationship. I'm not into playing games or being led on. I'm fun, loving and an all around good person.

  • Jacey

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I am a mom to an awesome 4 year old. I am not looking for a step dad for my kid but you must like kids, that is kind of a prerequisite, though you won't be meeting her for at least many months, otherwise that would be creepy (notice the lack of pictures of her on my profile).I am a student, I am on my way to getting my certificate in radiologic technology (that means I'll be taking x-rays). School takes up a huge amount of my time but I absolutely love what I have chosen as my career path (finally). I am a city girl but I do like a good hike now and then. I like taking my daughter to the park on nice days or out to fairs. We get A LOT of ice cream. I am pretty boring most of the time on a week night, I pretty much just hang out with my kid. We do stuff, we play, get more ice cream, in the winter we make snow men. I'm trying to get her into crafts.I waitress. It sucks. I hate it. It makes dating incredibly difficult because I have the exact opposite schedule from most people. But it ways the bills while I'm in school so it serves its purpose for now.I can cook a decent meal. I wouldn't say I enjoy cooking. If I had the money I'd probably eat sushi, Indian or Mexican food every day. I'm pretty adventurous when it comes to cuisine. Falafel is awesome.I'm a beer snob. I'm also a music snob. Descendents, Refused, Fugazi, Death Cab, Modest Mouse, Wilco...if you haven't heard of them it's ok as long as you don't like country or exclusively hard core rap.I'm pretty funny and I'm pretty smart. That sounds totally conceited, sorry/not sorry. I like to make people laugh and I like someone who can make me laugh. I prefer dark, dry, witty and totally un PC. I like Bill hicks. I like art. Most art. I'd probably enjoy a trip to the art museum over a hike. True story. I am also incredibly low maintenance, I get my hair cut about twice a year. I wear strictly flip flops in the summer unless I dress up to go out. I have amazing friends "they say friends are the new family of the 21st century". Talking with friends over a few drinks is the perfect time. If there's a guitar and a fire pit it's even better.Let's see...about the person I'm looking for. You must be able to not only speak but write a full sentence using appropriate punctuation, spelling, grammar and capitals. An lol here and there is ok, but don't over do it (knowing the difference between your and you're will make it or break it).I need someone to match wits with me. Someone smart and funny. Someone who can help to drive the conversation. It can't go one way or the other, we both must be engaged. I am very liberal but my perspective mate is allowed their own opinion as long as they can back it up. A heated debate is welcome as long as it does not turn into arguing. I would rather someone sticks by their morals, values and opinions even if I disagree with them. But compromise must of course be at the end.I am not into sports, if you are that's ok. If you're checking the score on your phone every 5 seconds we probably won't gel. I missed that meeting.I do not want a bad boy. Not even a reformed bad boy. You are probably not reformed. They never are. I would like someone sensitive and caring, who thinks of others first. I'm damn independent but I'm not gonna complain if you hold the door for me.I will probably (most likely) not message you back if you have any pictures on your profile of you not wearing a shirt, or pictures taken in a bathroom mirror, especially a public bathroom mirror (gross) or throwing gang signs or with duck face (possibly grosser on a dude than a picture taken in a public bathroom). Also, I'm not trying to date anyone who lives more than a half hour away from me. It's just not logical. Paint ball. Cause I've always wanted to go.

  • Amya

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    Hobbies:-Photography, Chess, Reading NAT GEO, NY TIMES, Zen and books on Tea, Painting, Antiques, ***'s movies and music, wine tasting, sports events, hockey, horseback riding,working out, poetry, hopeless romantic LOLGoals and Aspirations- I am currently a student at RISD for Graphic Design Degree for 2 years. I will be graduating in ***. It was the right career change to make at this time. I have no regrets just determination, drive and most of all a 100% talent that I have what it takes to achieve greatness and make a mark in this world of artists. I have a lot of great love of my family around me to inspire me and encourage me. I want to get married have kids and a career job before I am 40. I guess I am in school so that is the career job, I am a full time nanny for my nephew yes i get paid well and it gives me experience. I love my nephew and would definitely be by far the best mother. I am on here to find a guy who can be a great date but also has goals and has the excitement to settle down as well. " If someone is not treating you with love and respect, it is a gift if they walk away from you. If that person doesn't walk away, you will surely endure many years of suffering with him or her. Walking away may hurt for awhile, but your heart will eventually heal. "- By Me :)"Everytime you meet someone you give a piece of your life and take a piece of theirs."--Andi Condy It was the greatest pleasure of my life to have the opportunity to meet and shake the hands of a great spiritual leader. What I got out of it was a sense of more balance, energy and a connection with my inner spirit.-- Meeting the Dalai Lama"There is this saying in Tibetan. "Tragedy should be utilized as a source of strength." No matter what sort of difficulties, how painful experiences is, if we lose our hope, that's our real disaster.- Dalai Lama"There is only one important point you must keep in your mind and let it be your guide. No matter what people call you, you are just who you are. Keep to this truth. You must ask yourself how is it you want to live your life. We live we die. This is the truth that we can only face alone. No one can help us, not even Buddha. So consider carefully, what prevents you from living the life you want to live."-Dalai Lama"We are not what we know but what we are willing to learn."-;We taste and feel and see the truth. We do not reason ourselves into it."-;To live a creative life, we must lose our fear of being wrong."-; "-;May you have warm words on a cold evening, a full moon on a dark night and a smooth road all the way to your door."- Irish ProverbMy taste in music "If I were not a physicist, I would probably be a musician.I often think in music. I live in my daydreams in music. I see my life in terms of music...I get most joy in life out of music".--Smoker Obstacles in life that are uncontrollableI cast a lasso to the moon and wait for a signGoing day by day without any thoughtTime is what you have day by dayStriving for the sake of hopeLiving your life but losing focusLife is one big riverEven when the logs are hitting against the wallEventually the logs go straightThough you are scared of the unknown It comes through shining brightWe are all walking a thin wire lineIn hopes that we remember everything that was taughtAnd hope that the ones you love stayEven if it is beyond hard to copeAnd you feel every day is a locusBut you can't quiverAnd you can't stallBut only waitFor the right toneIn darkness is lightWhich will shineAnd everything that you thought was impossible became possible.( Hope For Dad) Dx with Non Smoker Lung Cancer May ***and still doing strong. I am original and would like the guy to think out side the box in setting up a date for him and I. I want to be inspired and go somewhere that is his favorite place to go. To a place that he has never taken anyone before. I prefer dinner and a sporting event over meeting for coffee which is so cliche. P.S I am not on this dating site to be viewed or I hope no women are viewed in a degrading kind of way. There should be nothing on my profile that says anything remotely like that. If so let me know if not then ****off and either be a gentleman and want to be with someone whole heartedly or just get off. I am searching for someone who really values their worth and can values someone else's worth. I love music it is my soul. I don't care being a girl who likes to jam out once in awhile and yes my fingers aren't smooth they are rough and I like it that way. I love the way when I hold my guitar and zone out the feeling and vibrations on my fingers it is soul music. :)

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