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Scottie, 51
United States, Wisconsin, Hartford

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I'm very easy going and laid back, but raise the bar when it comes certain standards; like, loving the outdoors (my church of choice) good dining, intellectual conversations (even stimulating), and have reliable transportation. Thankfully, I have a great crew who can take over whenever I need a little time off to re-discover my passion for the outdoors, (as my desk chair seems to have shrunk a bit over the last few years). I won't waste your time by telling you how remarkably gorgeous I am, what a fantastic body I have and that I am your dream come true (lol). Sorry if that sounds cynical, but finding truth in a forum like this, is very often beyond rare. Truth is back in the day, I wasn't ugly, really athletic, and feel that I'm still the same person I was then (a little older, and heavier), but my standards haven't changed. I've never been married, and am amazed how easily marriage comes to most people. I'm pretty picky and haven't found that "one wonderful guy", who I can connect with on almost every level, and I'm not in a hurry to get into a relationship that's full of expectations. I find friendship is a solid foundation to start with, and that if all goes as hoped it's the most solid to build from. I was engaged once, when God blessed me with my daughter. Thankfully, being pregnant showed me the true life value of my fiancé, whom I quickly showed the door because "if I'm going to do this alone, I would rather be alone doing it". I won't compromise on commitment. It's a life your promising to share based on truth and trust. I'm OK being alone. I'm comfortable in who I am, and love all that life has to offer. You never learn less, but that doesn't mean I'm not lonely sometimes. I’m still longing to find that "Mr. Man", who is my hearts partner and friend. Here are some examples of what 'solid' means to me: No smoking, means someone who won't smoke in front of me, or try to step out and sneak one in, then lie about their need to smoke "only once a week hoping that I could work around it”. I'm sorry, I can't. I don't mind picking up the check or driving long distances to meet you, etc., but while we're together in whatever venue, that your there and present. Not texting, reading *** trying to pick up the help - but involved in communicating and sharing. Connecting with who I am, enjoying learning about what makes each other tick, no judgment, just open and honest. Did I say open? Yeah, open. Leave yourself open to possibilities, as I am so interested in doing the same without expectation(s).Must love animals. I have one**** My goal is make enough money with the company to find property close to a river somewhere where I can have horses again and enjoy being outside with my extended family. In my mind, animals are people with fur, and the likelihood of changing my perspective on this is minimal. Hunting is one thing, but not respecting life on any and every level is a deal breaker for me. Will they come first? No, my daughter will, but they are right behind her.I love good movies, plays and books. Nothing like losing yourself in "what if's" Music is important too, but not if it gives someone in the next car reason to check their pace maker. I like my hearing, and yes, rap is a form of music (if you ask my 15 year old daughter), but so is acoustic guitars, symphonies, and nature (my preference). It’s amazing how beautiful a bird sounds from inside a forest where I believe 'surround sound' was invented (haha). I'm open to learning as much about you as I can, and hope the above hasn't offended you. I'm super easy to get along with, and would love to talk with you more. Perhaps, the "Who know's what could happen" can turn into "who knew it could be so great!". No expectations, but a lot of hope. Keep yourself open, and play it by ear. Have fun, talk, talk, talk and oh yea, laugh! I love to laugh, I love humor, I love someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously and has a dry wit, whose open to the possibilities, but not expecting sex right out of the gate. Kisses are great (really great), but give it some time.- and you'll be thankful you took it slow (did that sound like an expectation?). Sorry. ;-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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