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Arlena, 53
United States, Wisconsin, Hartford

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About Me

I am a very positive person & my goal in life is to always create (or allow) the highest good in every situation. There is a part of me that is a nature-loving, tree-hugger kind of a gal. I have spent much happy playtime in the Sierras & I also enjoy art and oil painting was a hobby of mine for a number of years. Although I have followed many spiritual paths, my spiritual practice now involves being in the present moment, being clear, expressive, keeping an open heart and knowing that I am connected to the vast, loving presence of the universe. I enjoy many different kinds of music & love free form dance (& partner dance). I am currently relearning how to play the piano. I enjoy cooking (especially cooking with someone else who enjoys good food) & entertaining. I have high standards for healthy food & have a vegetable garden. I occasionally write poetry (although lately I have only written refrigerator magnet poetry}. I enjoy a good book; and, in recent years, have been reading nonfiction pretty exclusively.; I have just ordered "Spontaneous Evolution," by Dr.; seeing him in a recent film about the future. I recently bought a house & have done extensive remodeling & am enjoying the house & garden. I am basically looking for someone who can see the goddess in me & in whom I can see the god. Favorite things to do on a first date: Go to an art museum & discuss the work afterwards. Take a walk in a beautiful, natural setting & discuss great books/ideas or spirituality afterwards. Have a good meal at a great (healthy) restaurant & while discovering our common interests & shared passions.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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