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Elgar, 55
United States, South Dakota, Madison

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A LITTLE ABOUT MEI'm humorous, warm and affectionate. I'm an outgoing "people" person who is a great conversationalist, intelligent, a giver like my mother, have had a lot of varied life experience and have a lot of different interests. I love dancing!I'm academically oriented, analytical, innovative and creative. I love exercise and take a vital interest in nutrition and alternative medicine. I'm learning to cook! LOL Not too bad on steaks, salads and beans.NOTABLE EXPERIENCES* Worked 23 years for RCA TV as a tech in engineering.* Have owned my own business.* I have three children, soon to be 20, 23, 26. See pix. She is a very, very important part of my life. Come meet her, you'll love her too!** In the past, I have been a team coach for 8- I have experience in Okanawan Shuri Rui and Jui Jitsu. Did I mention that I love to dance? John Fogerty is my favorite rocker.MY GOALSI'm an aspiring writer of novels, poems, love poems, short stories and Country Music lyricsFix up houseDateAvoid Miss Wrong and Find Miss RightI'M NOT LOOKING FOR...* Permanent Damaged Goods. My daughter has had major medical issues her whole life and I'm not looking for more of the same. Sorry. Maybe there's an exception out there. I don't know. You see where I'm coming from right?VIP 1) Looking for closure if things don't work out so just tell me. It's not a confrontation but courtesy and decency to tell me there's no romantic match.2) PLEASE READ THIS MESSAGE IN ITS ENTIRETY!!!!! [ADDED ***] SORRY, but GENERALLY if you're over thirty-five pounds ***lbs.) overweight, I'm not interested in a serious boy-girl relationship. I just don't want a woman who is obese and doesn't take care of herself. BONE DENSITY, MUSCLE MASS and BREAST SIZE all have importance and may mean that though you are over 35 pounds and obese on weight/type charts, YOU ARE NOT in practical terms obese! Women with a little extra weight and size 50EE breasts for example are not obese if the rest of the body is in decent shape. Also, OBESITY has to do with normal daily living functions. Obese people cannot do what normal do or cannot do it without unnecessary stress on the body. Another factor is are you taking measures to reduce excessive weight? I'm about 15 pounds overweight myself so I don't expect perfection. I'm working on my weight. Are you? See below.3) VIP!! IF your profile does not say that you only want to *** in fact you want a relationship (same as I do) or want to date, I only want to *** a month at most at which time I'd like to have a telephone #. If we hit it off on the phone I would expect to see you in person shortly thereafter. Otherwise, the relationship is not real and a waste of time. Wouldn't you agree? Is that asking too much?5) In general, I think the first date, a meet-n-greet, should be on a "go dutch" basis, i.e. each person pays for their own drink or dinner. Shared emotional risk should generally entail shared financial risk.ADDENDUM: A note: If you're a heavy set woman, Please don't be offended by my lack of romantic desire. It's not my intention to offend. A person's value as a human being does not depend on their health or looks but that they are a special creation of God. I have to ask myself with every potential lady, do I want to wake up next to that woman for the next however many years I have? Fair enough? Let's talk about it on the phone. Ask me for my number if you're interested.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Italian Spanish Thai Animation Biography Family & Kids Sci-Fi Western Dirt Bike Racing Snowboarding Soccer / Football
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