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Fidelia, 31

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About Me

Hi there.I'm a sweet, smart, fun--and SANE--professional. :-D Single, never married, no kids, employed. Pretty drama- and baggage- Lots of laughs. No major expectations other than to have a nice time getting to know someone new, though my ultimate wish is to find *him.* :)Admittedly, I have weight to lose and am working on it, but I am very curvy and femininely-shaped. I know my "ultra-curviness" isn't everyone's cup o' tea, but I hope to be just the drink that someone's looking for. :-DWhile in my everyday professional life, I am considered competent, confident, and composed, beneath it all, I don't take myself super seriously. I love to have fun, be silly, and laugh. I have the maturity and social awareness to act like an adult for the most part, though. The whole grown-up-yet-still-lighthearted combo is appreciated in guys as well!Specifically:* I'm educated and articulate and definitely like guys who can articulately and grammatically express themselves, both in speech and writing.* I am very warm and like giving and receiving affection in its many forms--compliments, touching, romance, random acts of kindness, etc. :)* While I never initially meet anyone expecting or assuming that we'll end up in a relationship (the whole no major expectations thing I mentioned initially), I ultimately want to get married and have a family. HOWEVER, I am not so desperate for a ring and a baby that I'll try to force or jump into just anything. Ha ha. My point is that I'm at least open to more developing if the chemistry and connection are there and would like him to have a similar view. For those guys who need me to be very clear: I am not on here looking for a friend with benefits or random one-nighters. There are plenty of other sites out there for that sort of thing, and they require fewer words. :)* I'm not a flake. I'm even-keeled, dependable, reliable, do what I say I'm going to do, and try very hard not to waste anyone else's time. Flakiness is one of my biggest pet peeves. I'm looking for someone similarly grounded and down-to-earth.* Manners are important. I don't think people should leave behind their trash in public places for others to clean up--like at a sporting event, a movie theater, wherever. And I appreciate traditional chivalrous acts--even small stuff that a lot of people wouldn't notice, like waiting for the girl to drive away first. (And I know this shouldn't be a big deal...but what is with people not knowing how to properly hold silverware? LOL)* I like guys who are energetic and who are willing to try new things. But...sometimes I just wanna sit on my amply-sized butt and have a Netflix night. So yeah...I like a go-getter, but I also like someone who can let the wheels stop turning and actually enjoy downtime and relaxation.* I like guys who, if not on the same page, are at least in the same book as me politically-speaking. I consider myself a mix of conservative and libertarian with some conspiratorial underpinnings. :-D* Above all else, I like guys who still know what it means to be a *man.* Someone who has values and a sense of justice. And someone who is kind...to me, to children, to animals, etc. I'm usually easy-going, so I'll leave this to him to decide.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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