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Ayla, 34

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About Me

The birth of my amazing son led me back to NJ. My life has changed dramatically since then and all for the better. I try to expect the unexpected and be happy because you never know what life has for you right around the corner. I feel truly blessed with what I have done with my life and the things I have experienced. My son has grounded me in an extraordinary way and for the first time I am content with being in one place and making it work here. I have a great job and really enjoy what I do. I have a ton of drive and want to excel at what I do. I am a hard worker and cannot tolerate lazy people or those who don't take pride in themselves or what they do. I am a big thinker, enjoy writing, traveling, the outdoors, boating, and laughing, talking, and meeting new people. Couch potatoes beware! I am not a drama queen and prefer to look at the good qualities in people *** talking bad about them. I have been in love, been in great relationships that I was not fully in love, and everything in between. I am a realist and sometimes tend to overthink things, but have been told I am a remarkable person and at the end of the day, I try to live true to that. Ciao~ I think that by far the best answer i have ever seen here was that the first date should come after an initial meeting. If you think we should meet and I feel the same, lets do it. Quick coffee, drink, whatever, just meet in person, see if there is a connection and plan an awesome date for next time.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Alda

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    I've got the best of both worlds...I'm the kind of girl who can take down a man and lift him back up again. My style is quite selective and my mind is rather reckless....TURN OFFS....stupidity, narcissism, dull conversation, douche bags, self absorbance, arrogance, jealousy, insecurity, ridiculous piercings, psycho exes, shaved legs on men, skinny jeans, looking as if you possibly were just released from prison or have spent considerable time there, drugs, chauvanists, self taken pics flexing in the mirror, MARRIED MEN (and yes that means not legally divorced), bad grammar (there is a thing called Spell check), etc

  • Flower

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    New to online dating. Just looking to see what's out there.

  • Mã„Dchen

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    Hi, I'm Christie. Here are the basics... I'm 33 years old, no kids, and never been married. I have a decent job and consider myself pretty independent... but I'm also ready to settle down and start a life together with someone. But I know this takes time - getting to know someone and making sure you are right for each other. I'm not the type of person that thinks a relationship can just happen overnight.I like hanging out with friends, going out for a drink once in awhile, or just hanging out at home with dinner and a movie and maybe a bottle of wine, being outdoors, watching football, camping, biking, hiking, bonfires, checking out new or different places, riding on the back of a motorcycle, traveling, and seeing different places and trying new things. There really is soooo much to do around the metro area, but it's a lot more fun to have someone to share those experiences with :) I also just like having a low-key weekend and spending time with that special someone :)I wouldn't consider myself the high maintenance type. I'm not interested in playing games or playing with your emotions. Think of me as someone who is very drama-free! I hate drama and it's hard to even be around it if any friends of mine are going through stupid drama. I sometimes tend to be blunt and I'll call it how I see it. But I also know when I just need to keep my mouth shut too :) There is a time and a place for everything.In an ideal match, I'd just like to find someone that shares some similar interests. I realize we can't have everything in common because in a healthy relationship we all need time to do our own things too. I'd like to meet someone that is also ready for a serious long-term relationship with the possibility of it developing into more. Someone who is caring, passionate, loyal, knows how to treat a lady, funny, kind, adventurous and wants to experience all of the great things life has to offer. I know there are more things I could list here, but I think we're all after generally the same thing... someone you can enjoy being with and maybe even to share your life with :) I don't have anything against being with someone who has kids, but I would like to have my own too. I think (ideally) it's be nice to share that first experience with someone who hasn't already been there. But I also realize we've all had past relationships. If I send you a short e-mail, it's only because I'd like to at least make sure there is a mutual interest before spending a lot of time introducing myself. That's what my profile is for, right? :) A few other random things about me.. I own my own townhouse. I've had roommates on and off the last few years, but I now have the place back to myself again. It's nice to have all of my own space back, but it does get lonely too! I like to cook breakfast on the weekends. I like to cook other meals too, but I'm not the most creative with it, and it's just not much fun cooking for one. I'd love to be able to have someone I can cook for, or with, or both :) I like to relax with a glass of wine. I like to explore different areas of nature. Almost everything tastes better with cheese on it. I'm typically the type that likes to have things planned and somewhat organized ahead of time. But I'm also up for random and spontaneous activities too :) There is always more I could list, but if you're still reading and I've captured your interest this long, please drop me a line and lets see if we hit it off :)Also - I'm not a fan of the "meet me" feature, if I could turn it off, I would. If you really want to meet me, please take a few seconds to send a message rather than clicking the "yes" button. For a first date I think a simple dinner or a HH with an appetizer and a beer and good conversation would be a good place to start. It's hard meeting a perfect stranger, but I believe if its right, nature will take its course in the right direction.

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