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You have heard of the crazy cat lady, yes? I'm the crazy dog lady. I rescue, rehabilitate, and rehome pit bulls and mastiff breeds. I have five dogs currently in my home, and I'm also a dog trainer by profession. I love dogs. But sometimes I like to be in a dog-free zone and communicate with actual humans. As much as I love dogs, they don't take me dancing; and they are lousy dinner company.I live in a century- I don't care for either. When I'm not slaying poisonous spiders, I can often be found dancing, singing, hiking, wakeboarding (poorly), or otherwise finding some reason to be out in the sun. I love trips to the city and trips to the mountains or the beach.I value intelligence, education, and fitness. I don't care about your degree, but I care that you are always learning. A man who is an avid reader and who challenges my opinions with his own rational thought turns me on. I stay very fit, and I appreciate the same in my date. I want to climb a mountain with you or dance the night away.I am hiking boots and stilettos, tactical pants and little black dresses, au naturale and all dolled up. I am emotional but make decisions based on logic. I love exceptional artistry and analytical brilliance. I am cerebral and physical.UPDATE: Here are a few handy tips for those who wish to write me. These will, of course, entertain all those to whom they do not apply and will not be read by those to whom they do.1. Grammar and spelling count. If you have huge typos in the first and only sentence you have ever written to me, I will question your intelligence. A few typos are fine. You will probably find some in this list.2. No terms of endearment in your first ***, please. They are creepy, not flattering.3. Taking a photo of yourself shirtless in your bathroom mirror is not cool.4. Taking a photo of yourself flexing in your bathroom mirror is even less cool. I love great abs. I don't love idiots.5. If you have photos of pit bulls or mastiff breeds sporting huge chains around their necks, we are not compatible... unless you are open to learning about tracheal scarring and the benefits of positive reinforcement training and a quality martingale collar. Otherwise, I rescue these dogs from people like you.6. If you say you have an athletic body type, your recent photos need to reflect athleticism and/or a fit body (which can be done while wearing clothing). If you have a beer gut, you need to list your body type as "average" or "a few extra pounds." Err on the side of underselling. I don't need a dude with a perfect body. But I do need a dude who is honest with me and with himself.7. If I can tell you haven't read my profile, I won't bother to read yours or respond to your *** ideal first date would be a hike up to Cleo's Bath in mid summer when the water is still high enough to fill the natural pools but slow enough to safely dip our feet. After a hike filled with stimulating conversation, silly stumbles, and great laughter; we decide the day couldn't possibly be over yet, so we head home to get cleaned up and dressed for dinner, drinks, and dancing.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Dominica

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    First of all thank you for taking the time to read this second if you are looking to get laid keep searching because I'm not that woman, not what I'm looking for I am looking for a real man who respects woman!! I don't play games never cheated never will respect is everything.I am a woman who wants to be loved and give my love!! To live life with to make memories good and bad I am one of a kind woman with a big heart who loves to laugh and live life, i love the out doors taking road trips trips to the ocean feel the wind in my face sound if the waves peaceful or sit at home and watch movies after long day at work and cuddle ;) will not change for anyone I am not perfect I have flaws like everyone else I have made mistakes in my life I'm sure ill make more but that defines who I am life is short what we make of it so please no drama nor games if u are fake keep pushin be yourself an be real loyalty is everything!!!!! Whatever comes to mind to be spontaneous not looking for just sex so don't leave a message asking not that woman !!!!

  • Ziba

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    I'm adventurous and love trying new things. I like to spend my free time outdoors and am really looking to meet someone who is willing to be spontaneous and live a little. About seven years ago I quit my job in L.A., sold my car, and started traveling around the world. I made it as far as Thailand and stayed for close to two years teaching English while immersing myself in the traditional Thai culture and also partying all over Asia. The way I view life and the world was forever changed from the traveling I did, and I would love to meet someone who is equally excited about seeing the world! I really enjoy traveling (obviously, I guess), drinking good wine, being active, laughing and would like to meet someone who is down to earth and open-minded. I am not a fan of drama or games. I decided to give this online dating thing a shot after most of my friends got married and started popping out kids. I guess I am kind of skeptical about meeting guys online, but I am always down to meet new people and try new things. If there is a spark with someone that would be awesome, if not, then I am sure there will be plenty of stories! I like creative and fun dates. I also like to have a drink on a date, not get drunk, but a drink is nice.

  • Shila

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    Well lets see i am 32 and so far I am dealing with it ok..lol I'm a proud single mom of one beautiful little stinker of a 5 year old girl. In the long term, I really want to meet someone amazing to take lifes journey with me! :o) I am fairly easy going but a complex and deep girl. I love too laugh and have been told I am funny....at least I think so! I love having a good convo and I have absolutely no problem keeping it fun and interesting aka I can talk alot! lol I am very confident in who I am! I hope all that reply to this are the same...I dont have a particular list of traits for a partner. I would love to build a strong friendship that naturally progresses into a deep relationship. I really want to take the time to get to know someone flaws and all. I know my flaws and will be the first one to stubbornly admit them lol Defenitely need someone funny or at least that can laugh at themselves and my dumb jokes. lol..Kind sincere and honest..I love to cuddle as you can see from the pics I was built for this so...PDA is a definite must guys! I know big shoes to fill right? But if you wanna give it a shot you just never know what can happen... P.S. two pieces of advice real quick...1)Don't knock it till you try it, and 2)Relax... I am comfy with me if you arent..move along. lol I love me...and oneday someone will too ;o)~ Favorite quote:"Someday, someone will walk into your life and make you realize why it never worked out with anyone else." ~ Author UnknownJust because I am a bigger girl doesn't mean im not active and energetic. I still play softball and chase my daughter at the park and enjoy being outdoors. I'm not desperate nor do I have low self esteem, nor do I expect anyone to try and change me. I enjoy my curves and know my bodies strengths and areas of improvement and if I decide to change it one day it will be for me and me only...but if im with someone and they are supportive and understanding then if I decide to change that input will be appreciated!Also just a suggestion...if you say u wouldnt mind meeting me say hi..I try to message everyone back in a timely manner. Thanks! xoxo Enjoy myself and not do anything that involves the police, ambulance, or your mother. lol And as a parent definitely wanna get to know ya before any children hop in the mix! Lets just enjoy each other...xoxo

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