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About Me

Before I say anything, let me just say: make me laugh and I'm yours. I strive to find a man that can keep me entertained in that regard. Ok, here goes:My self-summary:Self-professed nerd with a heart of gold. Ok, maybe not solid gold, but would you believe gold plated? I'm typically very honest and up front about everything. I don't like keeping things inside; that's what my body parts are for :)Originally from So Cal, I like to laugh and learn and love and am doing my best to just enjoy life, despite crap that may get thrown my way.What I’m doing with my life:Livin' it! I don't know how to answer this one. Ummmm, well I'm trying to enjoy my life? Does that work? Are they asking for a five year plan here, or what?I’m really good at:Making people laugh. And laughing. Oh yeah, and graphic/web design. But mostly the laughing part.Work-wise, I am a freelance graphic & web designer with a marketing background that specializes in software user interface design. The economy has made it more difficult to keep the "freelance" aspect of my work as steady as it has been at its height, but I have been laid off from enough liquidating dot-com companies to realize that I have no desire to work for "the man" that has no vested interest in me. Being self-employed has allowed me to work on my self-discipline as well as allowed me to teach myself new aspects of my business I wouldn't have learned as an employee elsewhere. The one part of sole-proprietorship I will never like and never get used to is collections. I hate making collection calls; I wish everyone would just pay for the work they commissioned :(Anyway! Enough about my work! I like what I do, but this is not something that I focus on all the time. I AM able to separate business from pleasure.The first things people usually notice about me:I'm tall, and I smile a lot. Other than that, you'll have to ask them.Music: Arcade Fire, Sia, Massive Attack, Radiohead, Rachael Yamagata, Air, Adele, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Blonde Redhead, Death Cab for Cutie, Goldfrapp, DJ Shadow, Junkie XL, Beastie Boys, Pogo, Ulrich Schnauss, The Flaming Lips, Frédé I pretty much like everything except country and heavy metal. 1, Star Wars (older episodes only - (Mostly everything else I read is online. I can't help it, I'm of the digital age and have a short attention span, so news sites and blogs are what I'm about at the moment. Oh, and please PLEASE don't *** you liked Atlas Shrugged. Please. Just. Don't. Do. It. Okay?Food: Sushi, a great steak, Thai food... and I'm good with pretty much everything else except Indian food and super spicy foods.The six things I could never do without:-laughter-my supportive and loving family-;-my laptop/phone/technology in general-great sex-- not having a car makes getting around difficult. But after THAT then I like to go out. Nothing crazy, but drinks with friends or a dinner out is always fun. I am also not averse to a night at home with a good movie and/or good company. I'm easy when it comes to these things.I’m looking for:Ages ***Near me (I'm serious.)Who are singleFor long-term datingYou should message me if:-You found humor in this profile.-You think you might like to know more about me.-You are going to space and need a cool nerd-girl to accompany you.A few other things:-I've come to the realization that I am an extremely affectionate person, and need someone equally as affectionate for a mate. It works out best for both parties, trust me.-I prefer passionate/aggressive men that know when to be tender. I said "aggressive men", not "***holes". Know the difference.-Chivalry is a huge turn on. Huge. Many a points are scored when my date is chivalrous.- I'm tall and I'm curvy and I love how I look, and if you don't feel the same about me, then good luck finding someone willing to put up with your superficiality. I'm a healthy human being and am not interested in being judged by the likes of you or anyone else for that matter.-Also, please don't message me if you are extremely religious or a Republican because I can tell you right now that it will not work out between us. Trust me, I've tried.***Oh yes, and one other thing... I'm starting to come to the unfortunate conclusion that the majority of men on here are either complete trolls or totally full of shit. I hate to burst your bubble, boys, but I'm not interested in a one night stand, and I'm not looking for some ***hole that thinks it's fun to try (operative word being "try") to take advantage of a nice girl. I realize I live in La La Land, but I have no interest in playing these ridiculous mind games boys seem to love playing. I am a real person and would appreciate being treated with respect. If that doesn't sound like your cup of tea, then feel free to move on to the next one, mmkay? Ideally drinks out or a somewhat quiet dinner somewhere quaint. I don't think that going to a movie or a concert on a first date is ideal. I'd like to get to know you, and don't think I can in such a loud setting. Also, I don't think that getting coffee is a good first date, either. I've been on a few of those and walked away feeling like I had been on an interview, not on a first date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Garnett

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    Call me crazy but i am not into dudes that r under 6 foot tall so if ur contacting me cuz u r attracted to me and happen to b under six foot tall please have skmethingb substantive to say lmao. thick is not how u say it . DISCLAIMER: I AM incredibly Spiritual and a very very very free spirit.! :) GOOD LUCK THOUGH! my advice: find happiness within yourself and don't depend on anyone or thing to fulfill that feeling except for your own thoughts. I AM JUST LOOKING FOR LIKE MINDED ALTERNATIVE LAID BACK PHILOSOPHICAL MUSICIANS & AWARE Individuals. WE ARE LIVING IN A WORLD WHERE THERE ARE THOSE WHO ARE AWAKE &THOSE WHO ARE ASLEEP. --IM AN INSOMNIAC. I LOVE LEMONS & FASTING. I like people who are CONSCIOUS and RESPECT THEIR BODIES as DIVINE in NATURE. I AM NOT NORMAL. I MAY LOOK IT> BUT FAR FAR FROM IT>I DO NOT EAT AT ANY CHAIN RESTAURANTSI VOTE WITH MY DOLLAR IM AS OLD SCHOOL AS THEY COME. A REBEL..with a CAUSE lolI am me :) and very happy to be. I am a Musician that has been in denial for awhile so I'm working on nurturing that element. lol i am not a professional by any means but i have something rare..i do play by ear and can read music but choose to go no paper . I habitually smoke marijuana cigarettes. not really but i do medicate, frequently so if your not a fellow sufferer of society's ills we may not chill so copasetically. i am not really looking for a serious relationship or a sexual one for that matter. I am really shy around troubled individuals (in this society there are many) due to my inability to handle the capacity of my empathetic abilities. I AM AN INDIGO CHILD. if you don't know what that is..well look it up! lol I travel ALOT. so im in and out of the NOrcal area i am actually looking to go travel overseas soon.I graduated from sac state BA in INTERNATIONAL RELATIONS so i can carry a conversation to say the least, however i like to approach life from an observer standpoint although I do take initiative and action when necessary. I watched the documentary Thrive and my life hasnt been the same since. I AM VERY VERY RADICAL with my Political Views im in the return to nature mode. I AM IN THE PROCESS OF Creating a catalyst for elevating awareness IAM AN ARTIST. would like to connect with other ARTISTS. I WANT to meet peeps on my level of ACTION and ACTIVITY, i don't roll too slowly in this world tryin to blow me every which way...I determine where and how long it is I stay:) Im an old soul. they just lost one. :) I LOVE ALL MUSIC! If you are cool I will share my *** media/music:) just ask :) if u r creepy.... Nada lol IM AWARE OF OSMOSIS ! CHOOSE WISELY WHO YOU SURROUND YOURSELF WITH! :) i don't know if im down to really call it a date. im not into labels.

  • Ceola

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    Hi, I'm just taking a look on here. Bars and work are not the best places to find someone for me, so I decided to give this a shot for fun.Well, I'm 32, Christian, outgoing, in shape, I am a bit of a goofball and have some sass -(but in a spunky, can stand up for myself way, not a mean way). I'm very head strong but I know the importance of give and take.I'm attracted to tall, in shape/fit, white guys,(sorry if that offends, but that's my taste.), that can be silly with me, have a sense of humor, and have their "stuff" together. Parents as "roomates" and having kids are no-goes for me. Also knowing the difference between your and you're, there, their and they're goes a long way.:)But if you fit this, and think we'd click, please feel free to say hello and I'll say hi back if I think we'd click too. :)

  • Ada

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I am pretty easy going and get along with most everyone. I am very close to my family & friends, love animals, good food and just enjoying life. I like many different types of music, from Metallica & Godsmack to Jewel & Enya and everything in between....I'm not really a fan of hard core rap or country twang, though I do like some hip hop/R&B, and some more contemporary country! If I had to pick a favorite though it would be good ol Rock & Roll. I love going on Harley rides, trucks, muscle cars, laughing, snuggling, candles, wood burning fireplaces, the smell of leather, good books, nature, ....well, many things! I can be perfectly content snuggling with my cat on a lazy day, rockin out at a concert, hiking through the woods, visiting an interesting exhibit at a museum, hanging out with friends, or working on a project around the house . (I can go on, but I'll spare you!) Definitely a "hands-on, do-it-herself" kind of girl. Not a girly girl by far, but I do know how (& when) to be a lady.....I'm just not high maintenance. Generally a good girl who tries to stick to her morals (I try to be a good Christian & yes I do go to Church every week), but I must admit, I also have a bit of a naughty streak (If you look close you might see me sprout my horns)! I have been known to be a bit sarcastic at times & I have a twisted sense of humor & a dirty mind....so you better be able to keep up!I'm outgoing and like to have fun, but sometimes need a little encouragement to step outside my comfort zone. I can be shy at times, but people who know me don't seem to think so! I am told that I am smart, funny, loyal and a very true person. :)Honesty is very important to me as well as being faithful in a relationship. I truly believe in doing the right things....treating others the way that you would like to be treated. I try to always have a positive outlook on life, everything happens for a reason (even if we don't know what it is). Would love to meet a good guy who can keep a sense of humor about whatever life throws at them! Must love animals, nature and just appreciate life in general. (Note: by good guy I mean someone who would be good to ME, not a goody-good. I'm all for a wild side as long as that doesn't mean that you are inconsiderate, mean, unfaithful or irresponsible) I would prefer a Christian who would be willing to go to Church with me! I am not a Bible thumper or anything (lol) but I do love my Church! :)So send me a message if you want to get to know me better. Something casual where we can meet to see if there is any chemistry.

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