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Shila, 32

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About Me

Well lets see i am 32 and so far I am dealing with it ok..lol I'm a proud single mom of one beautiful little stinker of a 5 year old girl. In the long term, I really want to meet someone amazing to take lifes journey with me! :o) I am fairly easy going but a complex and deep girl. I love too laugh and have been told I am funny....at least I think so! I love having a good convo and I have absolutely no problem keeping it fun and interesting aka I can talk alot! lol I am very confident in who I am! I hope all that reply to this are the same...I dont have a particular list of traits for a partner. I would love to build a strong friendship that naturally progresses into a deep relationship. I really want to take the time to get to know someone flaws and all. I know my flaws and will be the first one to stubbornly admit them lol Defenitely need someone funny or at least that can laugh at themselves and my dumb jokes. lol..Kind sincere and honest..I love to cuddle as you can see from the pics I was built for this so...PDA is a definite must guys! I know big shoes to fill right? But if you wanna give it a shot you just never know what can happen... P.S. two pieces of advice real quick...1)Don't knock it till you try it, and 2)Relax... I am comfy with me if you arent..move along. lol I love me...and oneday someone will too ;o)~ Favorite quote:"Someday, someone will walk into your life and make you realize why it never worked out with anyone else." ~ Author UnknownJust because I am a bigger girl doesn't mean im not active and energetic. I still play softball and chase my daughter at the park and enjoy being outdoors. I'm not desperate nor do I have low self esteem, nor do I expect anyone to try and change me. I enjoy my curves and know my bodies strengths and areas of improvement and if I decide to change it one day it will be for me and me only...but if im with someone and they are supportive and understanding then if I decide to change that input will be appreciated!Also just a suggestion...if you say u wouldnt mind meeting me say hi..I try to message everyone back in a timely manner. Thanks! xoxo Enjoy myself and not do anything that involves the police, ambulance, or your mother. lol And as a parent definitely wanna get to know ya before any children hop in the mix! Lets just enjoy each other...xoxo

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Heaven

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    Who am I? This is always the interesting ....I am country girl at heart who is not afraid to get muddy, a BIG a love for photography and kittens. Ambitious, driven, and looking for a man who is strong is all aspects of life. I am close with my family and I love spending time with my niece and nephew, they ARE my heart. I love a good scary movie or standup comedy. I DONT have a poker face....AT ALL!!! I suck at lying; I love to laugh and try to surround myself with positive people. I have no tattoos and no piercings (other than my ears)... and be grateful for all that I have. I like to get out and be active, but you won't find me in a gym. Even the foggiest of days at the beach can blow away any solid day at the gym. I moved back (it’s SO GOOD to be back in VTA) a few years ago and I am so blessed to be back... surround by my friends and family is the best. I am here because I work often and don’t like the bars. I am pretty much an open book so if you are interested, send me a message I would be happy to answer your questions...and maybe ...we'll meet.Best of luck in finding your special one... Who knows......(but that's the great part)

  • Ada

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I am pretty easy going and get along with most everyone. I am very close to my family & friends, love animals, good food and just enjoying life. I like many different types of music, from Metallica & Godsmack to Jewel & Enya and everything in between....I'm not really a fan of hard core rap or country twang, though I do like some hip hop/R&B, and some more contemporary country! If I had to pick a favorite though it would be good ol Rock & Roll. I love going on Harley rides, trucks, muscle cars, laughing, snuggling, candles, wood burning fireplaces, the smell of leather, good books, nature, ....well, many things! I can be perfectly content snuggling with my cat on a lazy day, rockin out at a concert, hiking through the woods, visiting an interesting exhibit at a museum, hanging out with friends, or working on a project around the house . (I can go on, but I'll spare you!) Definitely a "hands-on, do-it-herself" kind of girl. Not a girly girl by far, but I do know how (& when) to be a lady.....I'm just not high maintenance. Generally a good girl who tries to stick to her morals (I try to be a good Christian & yes I do go to Church every week), but I must admit, I also have a bit of a naughty streak (If you look close you might see me sprout my horns)! I have been known to be a bit sarcastic at times & I have a twisted sense of humor & a dirty mind....so you better be able to keep up!I'm outgoing and like to have fun, but sometimes need a little encouragement to step outside my comfort zone. I can be shy at times, but people who know me don't seem to think so! I am told that I am smart, funny, loyal and a very true person. :)Honesty is very important to me as well as being faithful in a relationship. I truly believe in doing the right things....treating others the way that you would like to be treated. I try to always have a positive outlook on life, everything happens for a reason (even if we don't know what it is). Would love to meet a good guy who can keep a sense of humor about whatever life throws at them! Must love animals, nature and just appreciate life in general. (Note: by good guy I mean someone who would be good to ME, not a goody-good. I'm all for a wild side as long as that doesn't mean that you are inconsiderate, mean, unfaithful or irresponsible) I would prefer a Christian who would be willing to go to Church with me! I am not a Bible thumper or anything (lol) but I do love my Church! :)So send me a message if you want to get to know me better. Something casual where we can meet to see if there is any chemistry.

  • Calandra

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    I love the Beatles A great first date for me will have to be at a science museum or a nice concert 60's or soft rock I like the resistance fair oc fair I like to have fun I am kind of a nerd and proud I'm smart funny and sweet and pretty

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