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Carmela, 32

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About Me

First of all many of you men don't know what you want, or should i say put on this thing is accurate. If you're not ready, then don't do it. Be honest please with what you want and just say it. I can actually appreciate the honesty of some who have casual dating/no commitment, not looking for serious relationship and friends only listed as what they are looking for. I'm not an idiot (and would like to think most girls aren't, though I've run into a few doozies) and know what that means and that's fine, that's what your looking for. Just don't *** if you are ready, then put yourself out there and put your guard down when meeting someone. Don't hide behind some preference because you don't want to believe you might actually meet someone on a dating site. For all you idiots have the word "drama" in their profile, like, "drama free please" or "Im not looking for drama"...well no sh*t Sherlock, nobody else is either and you sound like a complete douchebag for saying it. And for all you old creepy farts, I understand time is running up. Just don't spend that time *** and thinking that you might actually have a chance at reciprocation. I am sure there are a lot of post menopausal gals out their looking spark up their insides once again. That goes with all bathroom mirror pics with your hand stuck down your crotch as to give us a slight peek of what you think you have to offer. About me...I am currently living on the beautiful Emerald Coast and am originally from WI (Go Packers!!). I love to travel, volunteer, ride horses, surfing, softball, ultimate frisbee, hiking, camping, dancing and relaxing days at the beach. I have a good job and great opportunities ahead of me. I am very driven and know what I want out of life. I am definitely a romantic and would want to meet someone with a kind heart, that is genuine and wants the same things as I do....someone who is a little rough around the edges yet can clean up well.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Louella

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I don't play games. I run from drama. I'm not just a hook up. I don't want to take care of you like your momma, I have a child lol. I don't expect you to take care of me. I work hard and put 100% into everything I do. I'm a kid at heart and I love to play and be silly :). If you want to start as friends first and see what happens, message me. I want fun. Dinner and a movie is ok, but I prefer random: the zoo, mini golf, bowling (though I stink at it), the park, cooking together, painting pottery, a festival.... anything relaxing and fun... FYI shopping isn't relaxing or fun. Lol

  • Rhiannon

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    Ok so I've learned a few things from going on a couple dates. First off I smoke. I love music like others love breathing. All kinds preferably loud. Nothing is sexier then man that will dance. (well maybe one or two things). Right or wrong I'm in your corner. Make me laugh and I'm yours. If we meet and there is an attraction, COOL. Slow down it is not a race to the finish line. Im all about finding a real man. One that knows I'm worth the getting to know before you get me. Lets see what else, I love tattoos, racists need not apply, I can take care of me, I don't care where you work but please work somewhere. I wanna be a part of someone else's life, but jealousy is a huge turn off. It doesn't have to be fancy. Meet ya at the beach for a walk. I'm not rich and you don't have to be either.

  • Lavender

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    Life is an adventure to me. I'm not content with average because I believe it's in my makeup to push the limits of excellence. Which is why I think a sense of humor is a must in life. To me, there is nothing better than something as simple as a great conversation over coffee, going rollerblading on a bright, sunny day, or playing a board game with some close friends. I'm genuine, loyal, and above all truthful in my efforts because I have an old fashioned moral compass and value my time as well as those I meet. I love a good challenge, and find those that feel the same to be the best at making me a better person. However, I am also the kind of woman who loves to give whenever I have the ability to whether it's time, money, experience, etc.. I love to help. I'm the kind of girl who thinks that honesty is still worth something. And I want a man who feels the same. I love kids, and would welcome the opportunity, but if it doesn't happen I'm not terribly upset because I have a heart for all kids.I'm very much a goal oriented person, and am currently pursuing my college degree in Computer Science in the hope of completing my dream of a career in software design. Finding a guy with motivation and goals has always stood out to me, and I believe it creates passion. So even the worst of situations can present an opportunity to turn bad into good..loss into gain. For this reason, I love to learn, and keep an open mind and heart to all things so I don't miss something significant like my best friend. But, I have always loved the dreamer's, the innovators, risk takers and those that live passionately and without regret.I enjoy all types of sports..football and basketball being my favorites. My music tastes range from Josh Groban and Rascal Flatts to Thousand Foot Krutch and even Nickelback. The classic rockers like Queen, AC/DC, etc.. I was definitely born in the wrong era which is probably why I like live theater as well. Things like writing, drawing animation, making jewelry, reading..they're all therapeutic for me. While animation brings out the kid in me, the act of creating something is what makes it all worth the effort.There are many paths, options, and choices that can lead to that sometimes elusive thing called love. An accidental meeting, seeing someone long past with new eyes, etc... I think love can find a person in so many ways that we have to expect anything. But, a man who takes the time to know a woman's heart whether he understands every detail or not is still priceless.

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