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About Me

I try not to take life too seriously, but do when I need to. I'm great at sculpting to my surroundings, but most of the time I like to see if I can get away with being myself. I love to laugh, and be around people that can make me laugh. I am openminded, adventurous, fun-loving, out-going, and social. I know when it's time to work and when it's time to play, which is a fine line I've learned to walk over the years.I was married young and have been divorced for about 5 years now. At first I was happy to have my independence and definitely have had my share of good times, but I'm starting to realize that I miss love... I never thought I'd admit that! It's so hard to find and sucks when it falls apart but hey... Better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. Do i expect to find love here? Not really, but you never know and at the very least it's entertaining. I'm hoping I might stumble across a guy that is on my level. Someone comfortable in their own skin. Someone who wants to spend time with me but can let me do my own thing sometimes. Lemme know if you're into any of my loves below... That should give us something to talk about!****ing up and learning from it, working hard, playing harder, believing in karma, learning about other cultures, creepy conversations about paranormal phenomena, national geographic, 80 degree weather, being active, hibernating in winter, movies, Sunday night network shows, massages, snuggling, hoodie footie pjs, a clean, comfy home. I'm open to just about anything but if you're looking for a quick hookup I already have people I can call for that... :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Delora

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    Who am I??? Well most of my friends would say I am a world traveler who doesn't know how to stay put (but I am trying). I am someone who always pushes the envelope (which can be good and bad) and usually gets the desired outcome. I lead my life with no regrets, and always find a way to make the most of situations. I am dedicated to friends and will always go out of my way to see them, wherever they are. I guess a round about statement to describe me is "I am simple, but yet completely complex".I have been living and traveling overseas for the last two and half years (mostly in Australia), so being back in the States is a change for me. While away I had the pleasure to experience many countries/cultures in that time and loved every minute of it. It has changed who I am as a person, and I would like to think for the better. I have crossed many places off my list, but as a true traveler I have in turn added twice as many that I want to go to. So who am I looking for? Good question. What I do want is someone that can keep up with me in all aspects of life, whether it is conversations, writing, doing adventurous things, or traveling. I am full of energy and like to fly by the seat of my pants a lot of the time. I want someone who is just as comfortable lying around watching movies as they are to pick up and jump on a plane and go somewhere exotic or fun for the weekend. I need someone who is a people person and is just as passionate about meeting new people as they are about having new experiences in life. I find myself to be fairly articulate in speaking and writing and hope to find someone equally as well spoken and versed. I love intelligence. I find it sexy when a man challenges me with new facts or knowledge. I definitely have an opinion and you must too. That doesn't mean you are rude and say things that are inappropriate, it just means you know what you want and don't want and how to express it. Another huge criteria for me is manners-MUST have them. There are enough rude and selfish people out there-I don't want to date one. I still value a gentleman who knows how to open doors and such:)These are just a few quirks and details about me and what I like and don't like. Of course, I also like a great smile, good body, robust sense of humor, brilliant open mind, friendly demeanor, and ambitious attitude as well. But that's just being downright picky I suppose. I am open to meeting people as friends or possibly something more-either way I am a no pressure girl.Also, there are two things that I hate that I have to mention but they keep reoccurring. 1. Please live in the city or very nearby. 2. Please respect my age limits that I have selected for dating ***least***most). Example - If I was just born when you were graduating college, it is not going to fly. I think you catch my drift. Thanks:) A fun date for me is one in which we are both comfortable and being ourselves (as much as you can be on a first date). I prefer a pub to a five star restaurant (not really my thing) and like creativity, but it can be also be simple if the chemistry is right:)

  • Tien

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    Let's see...things I like include, but are not limited to, the following: dive bars, beach days, softball Sundays, quality time with my dog and a good book (I LOVE reading- bonus points if you can tell me where my headline comes from), camping with a big group of friends, and concerts. I'm incredibly selective when it comes to music (if you like Nickleback, it's a deal-breaker). I guess what I listen to can be best described as indie dance rock, although I'm not entirely sure that it's a real category. I get really excited when I watch hockey and football...it usually leads to me swearing at the tv.My family is pretty much amazing, and my friends are fantastic. I consider myself very lucky to have them in my life.I love traveling, but haven't seen nearly enough of the world. It's my dream to take a summer off and go backpacking in Europe.I just finished my last semester of graduate courses, and am currently working on my thesis...this means that my time is somewhat limited.What I value/look for: intelligence and razor sharp wit are tops on my list. honesty, integrity, ambition, and a certain level of geekiness...also good things. someone who won't get his knickers in a bunch if I can't hang out for a week due to reading/research...school comes first. I should also throw it out there that if you begin your message with "what's up sexy?" or a variation of that, or have terrible spelling/grammar you probably won't get a response out of me. In addition, if you have pictures of yourself flexing your muscles, you should know that it's not attractive...it's ridiculous. cocktails and conversation.

  • Emelia

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I'm a very loyal person and I wear my heart on my sleeve I love doing things for other people that I know will make them happy. I treat people the way I want to be treated, honesty is the best policy I live my life that way with the hopes I don't hurt myself or any one else I care for.I enjoy going out to meeting new people trying new things, I can also go to the same handful of places where in the end I know ill have a great time. I'm a casual kind of girl and occasionally enjoy a good night out on the town. I'm not into clubs have to be in the mood or for those special occasions when the time calls for it . I enjoy spending the afternoons out when I can take a walk in the park. I love the fall as the leaves change color winter I could do without! I am looking for someone that can make me laugh, someone I can be myself around spend time sitting around having endless conversation I hope to one day find my best friend who I can love unconditionally! Grab a coffee... Meet take a nice walk see how it goes and decided on what's next

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