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CharaOffline
Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 28-38
I'm newly separated from my husband after 13 years, and looking to rejoin the social scene. I have 2 children, ages 9 and 3, I work, I go to school full time, and my kids and I are in a musical, so my time is limited and my schedule is hectic, but I'd like to meet a nice guy to hang around with. Nothing serious. Definitely not looking to jump right into another relationship, but I've never really been single, and I know NOTHING about the dating scene. In all honesty, I'm quite socially akward, but getting better, I think. I like to go out (but don't often get the chance) or stay in. I like a good movie, especially suspense, cheesy horror, and comedy. I'm a "reader." My favorite author is Steven King, and if you've read Dark Tower, you're already leaps and bounds above the "competition," so let me know! I love just about any kind of music, but lean toward rock/hard rock/alternative. I went through about a decade long goth phase, so you can assume I like most of those cliche's (velvet and lace, dark music/movies/books, vampires [not Twlight!], halloween,etc.) though I was never much for trendy. I was already an outcast, and halloween was my favorite time of year, so after dying the hair black for a haunted house job, it just kind of worked out that way.I'm an open book, and tend to overdiscuss things. I like to know what people are thinking about everything at every given point. The hardest part of my transition into the social scene has been this concept of "going with the flow." I may not be looking for a relationship, but I would like to know that a person I'm spending time with appreciates my company. If you can't make an effort to let me know either in word or action, please don't bother messaging me. I don't need constant reassurance, but I certainly don't want to waste my time bugging someone who doesn't want to be bugged. On that note, I am persistant, but generally assume the worst if I don't know what's going on. (Thus the overdiscussing)Now that I've probably scared everyone away, on to lighter things: I like theater and musicals, I love stand-up comedy and cult classics. I don't have pets, but I'd like a kitten. I'm a bleeding-heart liberal who can admit that our govt. has gotten out of hand. I have an associates in Criminal Justice and am working toward my bachelors, but I'm no longer sure what I want to do with my degree. I'm a barista/bartender at a great place in a small town. I don't make nearly enough money. I'd love to travel, but never really have. I LOVE road trips! I like to be spontaneous, but it's especially tough with a kid in school. I'm horribly indecisive, but once I make a decision, I stick with it. I have no problem admitting I'm wrong, but I'll argue till I'm out of breath if I think I'm right. My family is the most important thing to me. My children come first in every decision. The rest of my family is all in town too. I'm a small-town girl through and through, though I enjoy the buzz of the city.My goal for now is just to find a nice guy to spend time with. Someone who appreciates honesty and communication, and isn't into playing mind games. A sense of humor and adventure are important, and remember, sleep is for the weak. Something very casual. Coffee in the park or a few drinks out. A museum would be lovely if you're so inclined. Somewhere we can talk and get to know each other a bit. Movie dates stink.
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TonaOffline
Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 29-39
Fun and witty girl who likes to watch sports, loves dogs, be outside but also likes to watch a movie or curl up with a good book. My family and friends are very important to me. I have a job that challenges me daily but I love it and the community of people I work with. I'm up for anything!
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CelestinaOffline
Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 28-38
I just bought my first house. It's pretty awesome. I currently have three cats. Just rescued a new kitty and now there are three. The third i am fostering until december for some friends who cannot afford to have him in their apartment. When they move out of that apartment in december they'll be taking the little one. Please understand that I will always want cats. I have nothing against dogs. I just never had a dog. I wouldn't know what to do to raise one. If I could have a dog, I'd probably get an Irish terrier. They are so pretty and energetic. I'm down with having all kinds of animals if it works out. Also the house doesn't currently have a fence so can't really have a dog right now. All the neighborhood dogs like to come visiting though which is funny and sweet. They will come just onto the grass and bark at me a bunch and then wander away after I start barking back at them. What? I am certain someday we will break the animal language barrier. See first interest. :)I love to bake and decorate cakes. Decorating appeals to my creative side. I'd love to make this a full time career someday. I also embroider, quilt and paint when I can. One of my favorite things to do is swim. I swam competitively for 12 years growing up. I like working out but, obviously, don't do it as often as I should. It not that I'm lazy but I don't see the point in getting all skinny so some man can objectify me as a sex object. I prefer lifting to cardio (because cardio is boring and doesnt burn as many calories once you stop as lifting) unless the cardio is swimming. Swimming is awesome.Right now I work at a printing company. I'm an assistant manager. I love the people I am working with and the work that I do. I also work for my dad at a small manufacturing company my grandpa started in the 60s. I'm an independent sort of woman. The traditional ideas of romance just don't do it for me. I may scream pretty loud at that big bug but i'll still kill it with my hockey stick. What I am looking for in a man is kindness, strength, confidence and stability. I don't play games and neither should you. Unless it's a board, tabletop, or video game. If you are one of those men who is convinced that men are the superior sex, well you're wrong and it's not gonna work out between us. I'm a sucker for blue eyes. I've got a couple of tats. I guess that's important to some people. I have a unicorn leaping over a moon on my shoulder and a red dragon on my calf. One good thing about this site is the plethora of animal pics. Other things I've noticed about this site: everyone is funny and sarcastic to a fault. I am also sarcastic and can usually give as good as i get. And loves to travel!! I like road trips. I don't have a passport. There are ***national parks, monuments, and forests in this fair country and I want to see them all. If I visit one a year, I'm gonna live forever!75% of you are "awesome". Which is just silly. We can't all be awesome. 99% of the bald men wear hats in their profile pics. 10% never take the hat off. There are indeed a large amount of mirror pics. I'm a little disturb as to how y'all know how many of the other men post mirror pics. What's up with that?Oh and 50% of the men on here reference some kind of brownie points for knowing what movie/tv show the headline is from. Really? Is this still high school where we can make up our grade point average by doing extra credit? Oh and brownie points for whomever can tell me the origin of my headline. BTW, 86% of statistics are made up on the spot. Of the men who don't date BBW, and actually say so in their profiles, most are under the impression that if a woman is fat she doesn't take pride in herself, is lazy or doesn't care about her health. Thin/skinny/average/athletic does not necessarily equate healthy. If fact more often than not, it doesn't. Too often people, male and female, believe if they exercise then that can eat whatever they want. This is simply not the case. You can be not attracted to Big Beautiful Women legitimately without assuming how they got to be that way. All you have to put is, "I'm sorry, I'm not into BBW." Period, no qualifiers. BTW, i am likely to message you if there is something in your profile I have never heard of before. for example, what the heck is kcco? Okay now I know that it means "Keep Calm Chive On". So why are we talking about garnishes? **actually show up. I've been stood up twice. Pretty ridiculous. Woo! State fair is happening right meow! A good first date in the summer would be to go somewhere with A/C. The old stand by of a nice dinner and a movie works great for summer. I prefer action movies to romcoms. In the winter it would be to go somewhere outside, assuming it actually gets cold. Neat restaurants, art or science museums, something interactive.Oh, I hate sushi. My first year of college I was a marine biology major. There are some things you just can't get out of your head.