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Detra, 31

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About Me

I'm an artist, art therapist, and music lover. Spiritual but not religious, Virgo, cat person, introvert, social, and intuitive. The rest we can talk about later! I wouldn't say that I'm open to going wherever the wind will take me (that was more in my 20's) but I am open to thinking about it, planning it, and THEN doing it. Yep, I used to pick up and leave whenever I wanted. Now I am kind of looking for a way to be grounded, successful, and free-spirited. I've been an independent person since the day I was born, sometimes to a fault. I don't like being told what or how to do anything. Well, if it's something that I care about. If it's computers, please DO tell me how. Most of all, I want to help. That might sound cliche, but I see it as a way of life, not just my career. What I'm looking for: someone who is HONEST WITH HIMSELF.Someone who has the ability to express what he FEELS, needs, and wants.Someone who values inner growth and embraces change. Msg me if the above resonates with you. First date should be magical, right? Hopefully it would supercede anything I'd write right here..

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Myrtis

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    It's about follow through, men. Words and actions must match, communication must be present, and connections must be made. I only show interest to those people with whom I intend on following through; and if I am no longer interested, I will say so. I will not say one thing and do another, I will attempt to effectively communicate, and I do hold integrity at a very high value. I expect the same! If this is not who you are or what you are looking for, we may just not be on the same page or compatible...With that said... I used to teach 6th and 8th grade science and have a passion for working with teens in a counseling environment. I also used to play and coach competitive volleyball, so I am a sports type of girl. I will be back in the Valley in December.I am looking for an educated (military, entrepreneur, college grad, or life/self built) passionate man who is tall, dark, well-spoken, and driven. I am at a turning point in my life, and I am simply not looking for something casual. I have no idea if I ever want to be married or have kids, but I know for sure that I want to spend my nights and weekends with the love of my life. I am tall and have a curvy figure, although I enjoy and make an integral party of my weekly routine lifting, cardio and pilates as often as my back/spinal injury will allow. To relax, I am the type of girl who loves a sports bar during college basketball season, beer and wings, and serious flirting with a cute guy (on a date of course). Otherwise, I am drawn to my wine bars and more intimate settings when I am not working, doing research, writing, or nannying (which I do part-time while in graduate school). I am a complete sucker for classic comedies with true comedians like John Candy, and any tasteful dry/sarcastic comedy like office space is amazing for incessant movie quotes with someone who shares my sense of humor (laughing from the gut about silly/stupid/inane/classic things). Finally, I do enjoy my off time, my "me" time, and independence away from another individual is a necessity for everyone's sanity. Who can't agree with that??!!!??? :) There are 3 non-negotiables when it comes to relationships on which I will never budge...if you do not meet all 3 of these, we will not ever be compatible for dating or more. I have had too many men continue to contact me regardless of these 3 basic requirements, and I ask that you please meet all 3 prior to contacting me.1. You must respect and honor our military, as I come from a strong military family2. You must not pay money for sex in any fashion, i.e. strip clubs or any other venue where women degrade themselves by selling their bodies. 3. You must not do drugs or be a smoker (yes, that includes pot).Otherwise, let's talk via phone once some level of interest is there on both parts (texting is not always the best option) and we can go from there! I look forward to meeting you :) Let's do something totally chill and fun... No matter what we do, there will be laughter, sarcasm, making fun of "whatever," and silliness.

  • Georgie

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    I\'m currently single and I have no children, but would like children in the future. Overall, I\'m looking for that certain someone who will complement my personality, make me laugh.

  • Maxene

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    Spend a decent amount of time with my family, mainly my sister (her hubs and 2 boys), and I have a standing Saturday date with my feisty 92 year old grandmother.I enjoy traveling and seeing new things. Wish I had more money and time for more adventures. I'm a total book nerd that's constantly reading. Nothing smart or enlightening, but fluff. Languages: I can talk in movie quotes. Granted it's girly movie quotes mainly, but still. There are some movies I have memorized and can subconsciously repeat the whole movie while watching. It can be annoying. I'm also fluent in sarcasm. AND!! I can speak German. I haven't really used it conversationally in 10 years, so it's a bit rough. I try to watch/read things to keep it a little active.I enjoy all sorts of movies. Oldies, 80s, some action, musicals, comedies. However, I tend to not enjoy watching things that are over the top in profanity/vulgarity, yet I tend to talk like a sailor (go figure). I also have a love/hate with horror movies, I'm a jumper and sometimes a screamer.I like a wide range of music from oldies, 80's, alt rock, indie, folk, one hit wonders.I love laughing. My humor tends to be a bit juvenile and dirty at times. I hate clowns, zombies, creepy dolls, snakes, scorpions, spiders, mushrooms and tomatoes.Like most people, I'm a shy extrovert. In new situations it takes me a bit to warm up. Once I'm comfy, I can be very out going.In college I did a testimonial for an informercial! Haha. I never saw it on TV though.

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