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Alysa, 32
United States, Pennsylvania, Rochester

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About Me

Stressed out single mom realizing there are no men out there that can deal with older kids, they can't handle their attitude and hormones, think you can???~MY DREAMS BELOW~I am sweet, caring, loving, nurturing woman who smiles a lot, loves to laugh, is very loyal (would NEVER cheat), open-minded, non religious, independent and honest. I love to do things to surprise the person I'm with and let them know they are on my mind. I'd have to say my favorite thing is to cuddle up and watch movies (as long as they aren't horror movies! I don't really like snow and cold and tend to hibernate in winter, I don't watch many TV shows but have recently became hooked on the new show "Beauty and the Beast" and will watch Chopped almost anytime it is on! I am looking for a sweet man that loves to smile and laugh! I want to make new friends, find some sparks, have some fun, and hopefully find someone special during the journey. Making me happy is as simple as spending time with me when you can, and letting me know you are thinking about me when you can't, and if you give a good back rub, you will get a ton of extra bonus points! I don't smoke, don't do drugs and only have a drink or two here and there, not much of a party animal or night owl at all and am looking for someone who isn't at the bars or drinking all the time and who does not smoke or do ANY kind of drugs (including 420!)I have my kids 90 percent of the time, so enjoying kids is a must for anyone I date as well as a love of animals (since I have 2 cats and 2 baby geckos as well as a love for dogs!) I have a huge heart and love to help people, and am looking for a man that has the same. If you like talking history, religion, politics and current events, or pushing your opinions on people, I am not a good person to be friends with! I am very open minded and don't mind hearing your opinion, but you aren't likely to change mine!), that loves kids and pets, gives compliments and MEANS them, and that shares some of my interests. Attraction is key in a relationship, but I will be more attracted to your personality then your looks, so if your profile pictures don't show much personality, I'm not likely to respond (ie, have several pics and be SMILING in most of them!). I won't care much about your past as long as you are honest with me and unless it effects your future, people make mistakes, and people learn from them. I don't care what kind of car you drive or if you have a big house, but will be happy if you HAVE a car that runs and your own place. You can't buy my love with gifts but sweet gestures will make me smile for days. It may take me a few dates to warm up to you and relax, but I promise I am a ton of fun, just can be a tad shy at first.While I do want to get remarried someday and have more children,I am not looking to jump into those things, but I'm also not looking for a relationship based on sex, I am looking for it all... passion, fun, laughter, respect, loyalty, honesty and eventually love. I figure I'll know what I want when I find it, for now I would love to have some new friends to spend time with and talk to. I am up for doing anything, except going out for coffee since I don't drink coffee...the traditional dinner and a movie, going out for ice cream, a walk in the park, bowling, darts or pool at a bar or anything really as long as I have good company.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Pop Camping / Hiking British Chinese French Irish
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