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Gretel, 55

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About Me

It's the beginning of a whole new year! I am looking for a partner who enjoys making fond memories, ones that may last a lifetime. I am searching for that special man that I can tease, please, and make him laugh...maybe until he snorts! Minimum drama, just fun, companionship, should be ready and able with healthy passion, mutual respect, and let's see where it goes. You must have a true sense of humor, and bring it with you at all times. I will be checking! I adore massaging your back until you melt, but reciprocation is appreciated. I am very low maintenance, and not a goldigger. You can go to Rush St. or suburban hot spots for those ladies to abuse your credit card balances. OK, I am secretly holding my breath for some roses from Jewel, Dominicks or sent from ProFlowers. I am not loooking for a multitude of responses, just the right one, a special one, and I hope very soon so don't procrastinate. No pen pals, you must be willing to chat on the phone at length and have a free schedule to meet and date in a short time frame. I am not impatient, just goal oriented. Let's get the party started! Life should be a sit-com not a drama. I need a leading man. Physical appearances fade with age, so you must have a heart of gold which shines without much polishing... reply immediately! My date just needs the basics: sincere, caring, well mannered and courteous, good conversationalist, and have free time to be together regularly. You can be "whacky" If you are a "whack job" which is a noun meaning mentally unbalanced, dysfunctional, disagreeable with a temper, an addict of any kind, or an ex-basher...thanks but no thanks. Bailing you out of jail is not my idea of a good date! Be quick to smile, slow to take offense. A little patience and understanding go a long way. I am open to coffee or a drink for a meet and greet, but if we click like to go right into appetizers or a light meal to keep the momentum going. A meeting must be preceded by a phone conversation to rule out incompatibility. Grabbing a quick burger at Five Guys can be fun, if you are the type of guy to be brave and have all the toppings! Motorcycle rides, boating, fishing, or target shooting if you are the outdoorsy type and the weather cooperates. I most enjoy all live music venues, perhaps The Cube at Rivers or Blue Man Group or comedy clubs.. Hugging and holding hands are fine, but can you act out scenes or quote lines from one of my favorite movies like "" I'll bet a few of you can do that meticulously! Please, if you say you are on this site to date and meet, then please have enough free time to do that. I do not IM, e-mail only. I will generally respond to all coherent inquiries.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Leida

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Hello gentlemen, fasten your seat belts, here it comes:Like a good German car I'm built for speed and efficiency while hugging the road. European bred and raised, almost 5'7" with a trim, athletic build. I fit into my teenage daughter's ripped jeans. Occasionally I wear little black dresses. I own stilettos.I feel great love for humanity and all of life. I'm not cynical or jaded about life or men. I like men, especially in vulnerable positions on my examination table...Sometimes I'm told I look young for my age. Personally, I blame it on arrested development.I'm not looking for a quick fling but not for monogamy either. I'm interested in an ongoing but open relationship full of richness and trust and enough fire to melt our souls.Younger men are welcome. I won't pressure you into marriage and kids or spending all of your time with me. I like my freedom and respect yours. Older ones are welcome too, just stop proposing to me after the third date dammit, or I'll be on meetville forever ;)One thing, I don't drink alcohol virtually at all, it makes me feel sick, so I'm a cheap date, but a strong smell of alcohol on a man's breath can make me lose my cookies. This has actually happened, just as he said "That was a great date, you're so lovely, when can I see you again?" and I had to run and puke behind a tree! I'm not into drugs, either. If you smoke cannabis for any reason I'm probably not the one for you. I'm into health and fitness, take care of myself and expect the same in a partner. Good manners will attract my attention any day. So wil propperr speling ,,,punctuation and gramer. Unless you're French, Italian or Hungarian, in which case you can just whisper into my ear...I'm curious and adventurous and up for almost anything in all areas of life. If one of my friends invites me to do something I usually say yes, often without having all the facts. Next thing you know I'm on a nude beach. Oh well, at least I didn't forget my bathing suit.On the tamer side I like off-beat comedy, silly banter and creative expression like writing, gardening, painting and renos as well as most pysical activities. I like to play badminton, pool and darts, love to dance, swim and bike. Love to read. I also enjoy good movies, especially foreign ones, often watching them several times to analyze plot lines and character development.About you:I'm looking for someone playful, alive and engaging. I'm very playful and want someone who is relaxed and willing to play, day or night, someone who is authentic, imaginative and could really lose himself with me. A man who is comfortable in his own skin and takes good care of himself. The right man is reasonably grounded and self-aware and wants to grow emotionally and spiritually in life. I have an open heart and am ready for a deep connection at this point in my life. That doesn't mean I don't want to have fun while exploring and letting things evolve in their own way. I am not particularly needy, clingy, possessive or jealous and don't like those traits in a man either. I believe in honesty, trust and freedom and in radical, unconditional love. I'm willing to get hurt for my ideals, what's the point of living without them? That's called a 'Near Life Experience'. And the pain is just the ego wincing, it'll get over it in a few days.I get along well with entrepreneurs, artists, creatives, independent thinkers and the odd slave, oh yes. By all means, do my laundry if it turns you on! Please note that I'm looking for someone reasonably local unless you're willing to do all the traveling. Thanks for reading my thesis, er, profile and happy fishing! How about a game of pool? I might wear something clingy...

  • Justin

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Well I have been on this site for about 4 months now. It seems I need to change a few things in my introduction. First and foremost I am looking for someone that is high up on the apple tree not the ones that fall off and they are rotten to the core. I am ready for someone that does not play chess games with life and change the rules mid stream. I do not want a hookup if that is what you are looking for keep fishing. I am more interested in the substance of a man. I will listen to your words however your actions will resinate with me more. I have learned a relationship takes two giving 100%. Love each other more in the hard times. Now I will tell you a little about me: I don't compete with societies idea of what pretty means. I am a bit of a princess when it comes to things but I can put on a big t-shirt and put my hair up on my head without combing it. I believe that well behaved women rarely make history. I really like to look at old vintage pictures and wonder about their lives. I am liberal in some ways especially when it comes to civil, constitutional and women's rights. I love history when nursing school got tough I would always want to change my major to political science. But I made it through and I have been a Neonatal Nurse for 22 years and I love it. I obtained my American Citizenship in ***. I have been single for 2 years now after being in a long term relationship for 7. I tend too be a loner at times. I am working on that aspect of me. I have always taken care of myself so I am sometimes to independent for my own good. After a long process I have come to the realization that these are the fundamental qualities I need from a partner.1. Mutual Respect and Trust2. Understanding and chemistry 3. A good communicator 4. Lots of sex5. Friendship6. Family oriented7. Passionate and fun8. confidence / with a little bit of arrogance9. Someone that likes to flirt with me because I like to flirt with my love one.If any of this interest you please drop me a line and get to know me because to know me is to love me. Good dinner company glass of wine.

  • Annice

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Looking for companionship and a relationship. ...someone to share fun times, laughs, travel . Must be honest, loyal, caring , kind hearted with a sense of humor. I am looking forward to meeting my best friend. Love to cycle, go to the gym, long walks/hikes, swimming, gardening, movies, keeping activeI am a very quiet lady with lots of love to share. Like to cuddle up and watch a good movie on a rainy Sunday. If the sun is shining you will find me outside enjoying the bike or the beach.I am honest, caring and kind. I don't smoke(although I did at one time) and prefer not to be around it. I drink but not to excess and prefer not to be around loud intoxicated people. I am not a lazy person by any means but you can find me pool side on a hot summer day or paddling out on the water.I like most music except heavy metal, rap and country.Thanks for reading my profile. Happy fishing. I hope we all find that special someone. A nice walk along the water, a drink in a quiet place, coffee or something fun . We can decide this together.

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