Total users: 58,883,054 Online users: 212,279
Arlena, 53

Offline, last seen Tue, 09 Sep 2025 21:41:29

About Me

Hello gentlemen, let me start by saying I am looking for one man to spend the rest of my life with. I do not enjoy serial dating or one night stands. Intimacy on the first date is unacceptable....no matter how much wine you buy me..... so please don't put me in the position to have to tell you no. Even though I am fun loving, flirtatious, adventurous and spontaneous, I am also a lady and expect to be treated as such. If you are not interested in pursuing a serious relationship please just pass on by. I am all the things I hope to find in someone else, loving, gentle, genuine, honest, caring, funny, sexy, attentive, open minded, forgiving, compassionate, sweet natured, kind, passionate, financially stable, smart, attractive, educated, strong, well preserved, respectful, and you will always know where you stand with me. I don't put on phony airs and graces and detest drama of any kind. I am very confident and don't play games. If we don't hit it off so be it, at least we got out there and tried, but please don't string me along, as I don't do well in the "runner up" position. If you know there is no connection I would rather find out sooner than later so I can continue on my search for the one. I am convinced that my man is out there, searching as hard for me as I am for him....so if you think you might be my one and only please contact me............ because I can't wait to be in your arms. :) I would love my first date to be somewhere quiet and comfortable for both of us. A place where we can talk and get to know each other. It really doesn't matter where, just a place that allows the conversation to flow.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Megan

    Offline

    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-36

    Hi! My name is Megan. I am never married catholic caucasian woman with kids from Plymouth Meeting, Pennsylvania, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Tresa

    Offline

    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Looking for someone who is outgoing, easy to talk to, and embraces life. Someone who sees the glass as half full. Likes to travel. Someone I can hang out with and who is comfortable in their own skin. meet someplace where we can talk and get to know each other. Nothing too fancy, maybe lunch or a drink to see if we connect.

  • Lexa

    Offline

    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I am patiently holding out for - As Jodee Messina sings -A man to stand beside me, not in front of or behind me.My Personality is actually "Hopeless Romantic", "Adventurer", "Intellectual", "Animal Lover", "Athletic", and a few others to a lesser degree. So, I will switch up my profile every now and then. Fall is here now ... with summer temps lingering ... all seasons have their highlights. I love them all!Activities now, road cycling, hiking, outdoor fall prepping of the gardens, walking my dog, short trips, and getting together with friends.I am hoping to link up with the special monogamous match, who, like me, will commit, with sincere and passionate love and devotion, to their one special match; is healthy, is honest, enjoys intelligent discussions, is considerate and helpful to others, does not possess anger management issues, is not looking for a babe 20 years younger than themselves (mid-life crisis / wanna be playboy), and enjoys energetic activities – out in the beautiful nature around us - yet will not put them ahead of family and friends. It is not necessary to enjoy all of the same activities - we each need our personal time and space. Peaceful - quiet times are cherished just as much as these energetic times, and a great appreciation and love of all that nature has to offer is dear to our hearts ...... this of course starts with friendship first! I love and appreciate the arts as well (see under "First Date"), and enjoy fine dining in good and healthy restaurants. This I will cherish with my future partner.I have too many interests and past accomplishments to list here. It is not important to boast or impress this way. I’d love to share this information personally with those who are interested to share our stories. If I add you to my favourites, please contact me if you are interested.I’d love to hear from you.If there is anything that is not true on your profile, such as your age or occupation, please do NOT contact me, unless you explain why in your profile ..... although I will wonder why the age posted on meetville is most often younger than you really are ..... dah!. This would be a waste of your time and my time. Dishonesty that starts there only leads to more dishonesty, which leads to nowhere. .. especially when he sang it up in the space station?: *** I realize that most of the "good men" are in genuine monogamous relationships, but I am hoping to link up with the unique one, like me, who is available for the right unique match that is "right" for both of us!P.P.S.Why do most men on online singles sites want much younger women? Is this a fantasy you want to live?Statistically women still live longer than men, and many women age slower as well.You know that this only gives you the image of being either a play boy or wanna be play boy and/or going through mid life crisis. I, myself, want to remain the healthy person I have always been. I am not looking for many ..... just the one great match for me! And yes, these men seem to entice their women with their wealth and toys! Does "sugar daddy" and "gold digger" answer this? .... having said all this ..... I realize that "true love" may not occur with this contrived way of meeting ...... however with the few matches available, perhaps the chance meeting may come here ......... one never knows ....... A mutual enjoyment.Meeting for a tea / coffee is a good start ....... then if you are interested in cycling, hiking, nordic skiing, skating, snowshoeing, or simply walking, then that would be a great way to share some time together.I do not smoke, and never have. I do not drink coffee, and never have. I am a good natural herbal tea drinker! Blueberry tea anyone? Sorry.The rest will follow if there is a connection. Some future activities after a first meeting: I love attending arts functions as well .... live theatre .... music festivals ....... Seeing musicals such as "Dirty Dancing" ... or Riverdance! ...... .. have the new movie - fabulous! ... Les MIz is back in TO - the initial reviews seem to be good ..... ... Can you guess, that is my favourite musical! .....dancing ..... which includes polkas too! .... and of course any outdoor activity that brings us close to nature ..... deep in nature ... once we get to know each other better! ... of course mixed in with relaxation such as a movie by the ambience and comforts of the wood stove and romantic dinners, etc.

Follow Us: