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Lexa, 55

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About Me

I am patiently holding out for - As Jodee Messina sings -A man to stand beside me, not in front of or behind me.My Personality is actually "Hopeless Romantic", "Adventurer", "Intellectual", "Animal Lover", "Athletic", and a few others to a lesser degree. So, I will switch up my profile every now and then. Fall is here now ... with summer temps lingering ... all seasons have their highlights. I love them all!Activities now, road cycling, hiking, outdoor fall prepping of the gardens, walking my dog, short trips, and getting together with friends.I am hoping to link up with the special monogamous match, who, like me, will commit, with sincere and passionate love and devotion, to their one special match; is healthy, is honest, enjoys intelligent discussions, is considerate and helpful to others, does not possess anger management issues, is not looking for a babe 20 years younger than themselves (mid-life crisis / wanna be playboy), and enjoys energetic activities – out in the beautiful nature around us - yet will not put them ahead of family and friends. It is not necessary to enjoy all of the same activities - we each need our personal time and space. Peaceful - quiet times are cherished just as much as these energetic times, and a great appreciation and love of all that nature has to offer is dear to our hearts ...... this of course starts with friendship first! I love and appreciate the arts as well (see under "First Date"), and enjoy fine dining in good and healthy restaurants. This I will cherish with my future partner.I have too many interests and past accomplishments to list here. It is not important to boast or impress this way. I’d love to share this information personally with those who are interested to share our stories. If I add you to my favourites, please contact me if you are interested.I’d love to hear from you.If there is anything that is not true on your profile, such as your age or occupation, please do NOT contact me, unless you explain why in your profile ..... although I will wonder why the age posted on meetville is most often younger than you really are ..... dah!. This would be a waste of your time and my time. Dishonesty that starts there only leads to more dishonesty, which leads to nowhere. .. especially when he sang it up in the space station?: *** I realize that most of the "good men" are in genuine monogamous relationships, but I am hoping to link up with the unique one, like me, who is available for the right unique match that is "right" for both of us!P.P.S.Why do most men on online singles sites want much younger women? Is this a fantasy you want to live?Statistically women still live longer than men, and many women age slower as well.You know that this only gives you the image of being either a play boy or wanna be play boy and/or going through mid life crisis. I, myself, want to remain the healthy person I have always been. I am not looking for many ..... just the one great match for me! And yes, these men seem to entice their women with their wealth and toys! Does "sugar daddy" and "gold digger" answer this? .... having said all this ..... I realize that "true love" may not occur with this contrived way of meeting ...... however with the few matches available, perhaps the chance meeting may come here ......... one never knows ....... A mutual enjoyment.Meeting for a tea / coffee is a good start ....... then if you are interested in cycling, hiking, nordic skiing, skating, snowshoeing, or simply walking, then that would be a great way to share some time together.I do not smoke, and never have. I do not drink coffee, and never have. I am a good natural herbal tea drinker! Blueberry tea anyone? Sorry.The rest will follow if there is a connection. Some future activities after a first meeting: I love attending arts functions as well .... live theatre .... music festivals ....... Seeing musicals such as "Dirty Dancing" ... or Riverdance! ...... .. have the new movie - fabulous! ... Les MIz is back in TO - the initial reviews seem to be good ..... ... Can you guess, that is my favourite musical! .....dancing ..... which includes polkas too! .... and of course any outdoor activity that brings us close to nature ..... deep in nature ... once we get to know each other better! ... of course mixed in with relaxation such as a movie by the ambience and comforts of the wood stove and romantic dinners, etc.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Reilly

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Everyone is on this website for different reasons, simply stated I am serious about finding the perfect guy for me! Does he have to be perfect? Heck no! I am not perfect either. We just need to be perfect for each other in all the important ways that count. I don't need a man in my life, but, I want a man in my life. I want a partner because of all the things I enjoy doing, I enjoy that much more if I have the man I love by my side.I want honesty, trust and loyalty in my mate first and foremost. I do not want to play games. At 52, I know what I want and my mate has to know what he wants. I am not interested in anyone who is recently separated or recently coming off of a long term relationship in which they were seriously hurt and still not over it. I am not interested in any man who is looking for a woman to help him forget his last love. He should come a new relationship free and clear of any past emotions for anyone else. He needs to be ready willing and able to love someone new. That is who I am. I come to a relationship with no unfinished business LOL.When I love someone, I love with my whole heart. I will give 200% to a relationship. I am a one man woman and want a one woman man. I work part time for the same company for over 22 years and I have a lot of free time and flexibility. My 24 year old child lives with me, but, is working full time so I am free to come and go as I please, as is he (LOL).- lol), will let me plan an evening out or a vacation, but, who will surprise me with a date night out or a trip, or show tickets, etc.I like to be social and love conversation so I would love to meet someone like myself who is a good communicator. I love to hold hands, hug, kiss even PDA's! If this sounds like you and what you are looking for, then drop me a note and lets see what happens from there. Physical chemistry is important, but, sometimes its not always love at first sight. I meet people with an open mind and sometimes I may not be physically attracted at first, but, may fall in love with you as I get to know you and then find that you are the most gorgeous man in the world to me. I believe that beauty is in the eye of the beholder.I can tell you this, if I fall in love with you, you will be the luckiest man alive because I have a lot of love to give. But, it has to be reciprocated.I am an accountant, but, also a bit crafty and artistic. I recently downsized from a 3 bedroom home to a 2 bedroom condo. I moved four months ago and just had a housewarming party. My friends and family said it looks like I have lived here for years. Everything is renovated and decorated and I was told by everyone that everything looks beautiful. Home decorator in my future for my next career maybe. I was going to gym 3 times a week but until the move, now the gym is too far away. However, just found out they are opening up a new location much closer next month, so its back to the gym for me. Yikes, I think I said too much already.Interested in having "the time of your life"? Write to me First meet up - at a local bar/cafe for a drink, conversation and maybe a bite to eat. If all goes well, we can move on to..........Our first real date - then you can pick me up, take me to dinner at a nice restaurant, someplace maybe by the shore or a quaint town. Preferably someplace that isn't too loud so we can have some really good conversation and be able to flirt with eachother across the table. Afterwards maybe go for a walk by the beach (weather permitting) and then to a bar or club where we can do some dancing. I am not a great dancer, but, I love to move to the music and I believe that if two people can dance together with a great rythym then the kissing can also be great. A good kiss is like a dance - the man has to be in charge, but if you don't dance well together, it doesn't work. .

  • Lurlene

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Hi! Thank you for taking the time to read some things about me.These are things that are important to me and will not change.I have a lot of energy and passionate about staying fit. I challenge myself to improve all the time. It would be great to meet someone who enjoys some of the same activities, but not a requirement. Typically I go to the gym or CrossFit 6 days a week. My 3 dogs are spoiled rotten! Two are elderly and a very energetic Pit. Everyone was a rescue and needed a home.Live music venues are a lot of fun and there is a lot to choose from in this area. I usually will get together with a group of friends and we have a great time! I have been to wine tastings recently & learning a bit more about the different wines. The beach is my favorite place to be ;) A little sun and sand can cure most anything! I love to dive when I can. My daughter and I tried zip lining for Mother's Day and had a blast! We got hooked and tried the more challenging lines later in the day! I am open to trying almost anything new and adventurous :) Needless to say... I am not a couch potato! I am employed and have a great job. Occasionally I do contract work for several businesses.Sorry to add this in...however it has become an issue.... Please do not send nude photos to me or ask me to send to you! I am NOT interested in a text message or ***??? Thanks for reading & best of luck in your search! Casually meeting for coffee or a drink is a good way to see if there is interest in spending more time getting to know one another. No pressure and who knows..... May end up with a friend if nothing else!

  • Rhea

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I was on this site for a short while last summer. I would like to add..... Sorry guys im not a 'couger' only interested in my own age group. Give or take a few years, and i mean only a few lol Drinks or coffee. Whatever we decide.

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