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About Me

As I was surfing the Meet Me's, I saw a some profiles with marital status: Separated. It made me wonder, Hmmmm, what's the story there??My status is "separated" and I realize that I should disclose more info about that. My ex and I are planning to finalize our split later this year. Joint financial matters and (free) health insurance for spouses are the reasons we haven't made it official. We split 2 yrs ago, very amicably. A 20 yr marriage where the sizzle had fizzled :-)I feel there is no ONE mand for ONE woman; Aas we travel our life's path, we may be lucky to meet several soul mates. The people you just connect with; and you know it pretty early on. It's not a love-at-first-sight thing, that's so Hallmark and trite. But a real connection that you feel in your solar plexus. Its unmistakeable.Not sure about online dating. Honestly, it doesn't resonate. Photographs are so one dimensional and the descriptions we write about ourselves are obviously subjective. But I did meet an interesting and talented man the first week I signed on to meetville, travel distance and opposite work schedules made it a frustrating connection; we stopped dating after 3 months.Hobbies: I like outdoors stuff, but not particularly athletic. Starting bicycling and yoga for fitness and fun. Love reading....). I love to laugh, and make others laugh; humor ir very important to me.Goals and aspirations: I'm on a quest to be a better human being. Working on bachelor's degree. I plan on living near a coast some day; probably the E. coast of FL.I'm a no BS woman. Don't like drama and will not participate in others' drama. I'm fairly straightforward, without being mean. Diplomatic but honest. I'm smart and have a good sense of humor. A good sense of humor trumps most other traits/qualities in my male and female friends. I've delayed participating in these dating websites. I'm not interested in men who move from ***after a first meeting or two. I'm interested in someone who is funny, smart, attractive, physically fit (doesn't have to be perfect), who likes similar music. I'm looking for substance and someone who is genuine. If you need constant reassurance and validation; I'm not your woman. Confident men are sexy. Needy men are of no interest to me.I almost listed music in the Talk About Hobbies section, but realized it has it own.Music is very important in my life. I love hearing live bands. Left on a desolate island with only one genre of music; metal (and most of its sub genres! Not fond of rap or hip hop. Coffee somewhere. Either we hit it off, and you know that kinda thing right away, or we don't. Conversation over a nice cup of coffee/tea is enough time to assess.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Eusebia

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Hi, so far so good.I am confident and funny. I tell a great joke, and don't take life too seriously. I enjoy watching a good game while whipping up an awesome dinner. I hope you like to cook, maybe you're a grill ninja- either way, you’re happy to help with the dishes. I love ethnic food, sushi, a great grilled burger or steak, a nice piece of fresh fish ***salads, whatever. I eat healthy most days so I can have that pressed Cuban now and then. OK- that covers food quite nicely. Snuggling on the couch with popcorn and a movie or concert is fun too. I own my share of little dresses and strappy heels, and am told I wear them well. My photos are indicative of what you’ll see in person, I hope yours are, too. What I lack in height, I make up for in ballarina’s posture.I enjoy most music, classic rock, our old standards, lots of harmonies (I hold my own at karaoke***not so much country or rap, Nickel Creek is a new favorite, so BlueGrass, it appears. I have a tolerant ear, and know when to say I’m ready to head out. I’m active and up for trying new things – I like going to sporting events (GO GATORS!) or off for a weekend backroad trip to a little town, a new beach or historical site. I also have a current passport and some pretty great stories of world adventures. If you want to see if you're compatible, travel together. I’m into biking, walking, a bit of running, snorkeling, sailing and fishing- it’s all great fun. My yoga practice is big for me, it keeps me centered and out of trouble, for the most part;)I'm looking for a confident, happy man- someone who challenges and encourages me. He listens as well as he expresses himself, and feels uplifted when I'm near. He is proud of his accomplishments, the life he’s built, and his relationships with family and friends. He’s learned from his mistakes and has a great outlook for a bright future. I've been on my own long enough to know how to fix things and take care of myself, but it sure would be nice to have a strong pair of hands around the house and around my heart. That's pretty much it...well, that and world peace ;) If you like what you read, say HI. Meeting for a coffee on a weekend morning, no pressure. Hanging in a park, watching the world, kids and dogs, the funny and the sweet, Goofing on the goofy. I've found that first impressions are huge, and should be heeded.

  • Henrietta

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Thank you for taking the time to read my profile. I am loving, kind, honest, passionate caring woman with high moral values and a big heart. I love my family and am very proud of my 3 boys. I'm looking to find someone who has a good heart, will love my children, is honest, kind, genuine, not a player but a romantic. I am looking forward to meeting the love of the rest of my life. That someone who makes me melt and see fireworks. That special man to experience new or old thing together, my best friend, lover, someone to cherish and be cherished by. Who better to experience new places, sports events, new foods, antique shopping, family time, walking on the beach or on a trail in the mountains, cuddling, laughing till it hurts with. I love to dress up or down, staying comfy on cold or rainy days to cuddle works for me too.Happiness is important as is my faith. I am a Christian and hope to find a Christian man. I'm a very open person and will always speak from the heart. Looking for a monogamous relationship. One I can feel safe and secure in. Be able to confide my deepest secrets and know he will honor me in keeping them secret. I've read many profiles as I'm sure you have also and seems most men are looking for perfection and will not accept anything less. I suppose that is all in the eye of the beholder. I'm not looking for perfect in the least, only the one that is perfect for me! Romantic surprises, cuddling, intimate conversations, sunsets, special little actions of love, special looks, candle light, walks on the beach, holding hands, or just being held close, wonderful dinners or BBQ's. There is so much I still want to do and see in my lifetime and would love to share it with you. Through the years I've learned to appreciate a variety of things. When your with the right person it just doesn't matter...it's all better. Let me know if you might be the right man for me and want to share that "last first kiss". I think a first date should be somewhere we would both be comfortable. I'd prefer somewhere that's not romantic but somewhere we could communicate with each other, laugh and just be ourselves, maybe have a little fun?

  • Karin

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I have strong Christian Values. Honesty is a must with me(so not even cheating on your income tax). I am not perfect and don't expect perfect. But I do have standard I refuse to change. I have a sense of humour and love to laugh. Love people and conversation. Not an emotional or drama queen. Am often late 5 to 10 mins (trying to change that, but its not working very well, ha ha).I love ***rock, some 80's rock and all country music, I go to dry dances, not usually bars. Love to dance. Look at the bright side of life most of the time. I do not smoke and absolutely disagree with drugs.I don't watch sports, so this could be my free time, as I like to be alone sometimes.Don't want someone around me, needing to be with me 24 hours a day or following me around the house like my dog does. Looking for friendship for now and see if it leads anywhere (slowly). I'm that down to earth, honest women, with a good heart all the men says they are looking for. MUST HAVE PICTURE IN DESCRIPTION, for me to respond to messages. No off island contacts, sorry. Two people getting to know each other who may hit it off and want to spend more time together for coffee, a walk, a concert, a movie. Not rushing into anything. I'm independent and pay my own way.

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