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Violette, 54

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About Me

I am quite content in my life. I like who I am and where I am. I do not chase the illusive dream of perfection....not in you , not in me...it simply does not exist . Need and Wants.....two very different things . In essence I NEED nothing ,not your home , not your car, not your money ........I have all that . What I WANT is companionship with a man who has his space and place ....as I have mine . I want someone I can pamper when I so desire , to cook a special meal for/with...to curl up on the couch or just hang out .. I want to experience the pheromones that exude from your presence . Like most 50 something's I have experienced heartache and great disappointment , but I will not allow these experiences to dictate and limit what is yet to come. I expect you to harbour no resentment towards those who came before. Affection , Integrity, and Compassion are in my opinion fundamental components in any relationship.If one values their integrity then honesty and virtue are a given . If one's soul encompasses affection , then endearment and kindness ensue. And if one speaks and acts with compassion , then consideration and empathy are at the root of all actions.I am confident yet modest . I am shy but have been known to speak my mind. I am quick witted but take seriousness as such."if she is amazing she won't be easy . If she is easy she won't be amazing . If she's worth it you won't give up, If you give up you're not worthy."Bob Marley.Unfortunately it appears I must make it clear that I am not interested in Married or attached men . Nor is my purpose here simply to be another notch in your bed post.I value who I am and hopefully so do you . a brief casual meeting free of expectation and stress....mutually decided upon of course....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Shanene

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Hi,I enjoy doing many things, easy going, love to laugh. The cup is half full kinda woman. My children are on their own and now it is moms time lol.I am looking for someone with the same values in life as I have, who loves family and friends [including 4 legged family]. My best friend!I am a caring and compassionate person who believe that being kind to others is something we all should be doing. One never knows when we might need a shoulder or a caring gesture. Treat others as you would want to be treated.I have not camped in years but would love to get back to doing this and someone who would also like to would be nice[camping I am thinking trailor not tent lol]. Stock car racing is something I like to go too or the horse races... I have many interest!I love to cook and like to keep a clean house. I added a picture of a outdoorcouch I built this year out of pallets. I guess I would say I am very handy, but in a good way lol. Staying home, cooking dinner and watching a movie together I enjoy, I also love to going out to dinner, Going to the drive-in [yes there is one left on the Island] beach! I am pretty open to most things. I am spontaneous and do not require more than 30 minutes notice to be ready to go [Yes that is showered, dressed,makeup & hair done lol].If you are just looking for someone to jump into bed with you then I am not the one for you, but am sure you will find someone on here who will if that is all you are looking for lol. Also not interested in lies and or half truths.....If you are open, honest and not a player looking for someone to spend time with, drop me a note and say hi! :) Nice Dinner and maybe a walk where we can chat and get to know each other...Please no coffee shop dates lol

  • Ziba

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Love to travel, quiet times and spending time with someone I connect with. I spend alot of time at Horsetooth with boating friends. ALWAYS a good time there! Wanting to find someone who has the same morals, standards and expectations that I do. I do have high expectations. I am an avid Bronco fan and absolutely love the Nuggets! This site has been quite the experience. If you're not status available, please move on and dont waste time. I have met some great people on here and have met some great friends but this pond isnt exaclty what it appears to be - still waters run deep with alot of wierd fish at the bottom off the pond!! Spontanaety. Everyone and every person/situation would be different. What I would like with one, may not be the same for someone else.

  • Dagny

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Love to go out sat night , cook , and cuddle

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