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Hi there! I would love to meet the right somebody who has... a sense of humour (a must), is in fairly good shape, at least my h***given I usually wear shoes) and not carrying any baggage from the last relationship. Hey, 5'10" at least would be absolutely great (like in a catalogue if only I could pick huh?) lol I'm interested in meeting someone who actually has a great sense of humor and has at least "good" communication skills. One of the biggest tools in a relationship is the ability to share ideas, thoughts and concerns to the other party. I do believe that communication skills are critical and hopefully people can communicate past an *** Anyway, I do have a sense of humor, I talk freely about all things and hopefully there is a person out there who, when they disagree with whatever I am saying, can and will share their thoughts and opinions to me. In my opinion, this is an effective dialogue (no, not an argument but rather a sharing of thoughts and maybe, not necessarily, one might change their mind about said topic! Or Not!)! No big deal but at least we both know the other's opinion on that said topic. Sound like communication?? Yes, I do think that people do NOT have to agree on everything at all times but one definitely should communicate about all things. As far as I know, most people do not have ESP! So... more about me - I have traveled a fair amount and done more than a fair amount of adventures and achievements. I have participated in most sports although lately, as a newcomer here, I haven't done much sport at all. I attend a gym regularly. I enjoy great food, great wine and/or other drinks and most of all great company and laughs! If you would care to cut to the chase and meet for a chat, drop me a line. Let's NOT do the bullsh*t chat online for weeks on end to finally decide to meet-up only to find there is no chemistry. Chemistry really is a rather important ingredient to a relationoship, right?! So... lets just meet like we all used to (way back ... when?) and decide from there. :-) CheersFrankly I don't think one word can describe anyone so just for clarification, i am not particularly crafty but I do some things .... that take me forever to finish... :) Listen, please be Canadian because although I do live right next to the border, I am seriously not interested in dating an American. Nothing personal but not into the immigration bullsh*t if anything came of the relationship! No Really! Be Canadian or don't ***, kind of an upfront personal opinion in case you are wonndering... I prefer a clean shaven man rather than the hairy faced man. Just a personal preference.... We all have our preferences and I simply prefer clean shaven. Hope that doesn't offend anyone. Never mind "First Date". I prefer to call it a first meeting and simply and casually over a cup of coffee or a drink. Nothing more. No stress. Oh.. and for first date, depending on where the ole first date is... I may even "put on my face" and maybe even dress up too but for first meeting, you only get me, the real me. Any problems with that? If so, let me know right off, cause if you want me to put on my face and dress up for the first meet, I would expect the same from you and yes I do mean you donn the makeup and nylons, high heels etc and I will too! The day I see that, that really would be great! Good for a great night of laughs to be sure!!! Oh and I have seen a lot of men dressed up like that, straight friends of mine who have done this for fund raising etc runs (Hash House Harriers if you are familiar with them) and trust me, they look great! As runners, they have very nice asses, look great in high heels and stockings, their thighs and everything else are firm and really .... when you think about it... in shape men would look better than women any day dressed like that. Women should be in trousers as they naturally have a much higher fat content than even a lazy man. OK, so I am getting carried away here... :) Photos add 10 pounds they say so like I said, I prefer to meet rather than chat because more often than not, the person you meet is nicer in person. Cheers!Can anyone tell me why soooo many men wear muscle shirts?? and baseball caps??? I know there is a reason to wear the baseball cap when it is sunny outside but it seems like those things are actually part of the head for most men on here. Are they? Do you wear them inside too? Just a question. The muscle shirts though really should be illegal.... like fat women wearing lycra tights, very attractive!!!Humour? I think it's more like humour with a touch of reality in it!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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