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Vivan, 53
United States, Pennsylvania, Northampton

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About Me

Ugh!! This is the worst part, but here goes! I am compassionate, witty, and passionate......I still believe that chivalry is NOT dead! I am a real "girly-girl", but also love my sneakers and comfy flannel PJ's! You can dress me up and take me out to the classiest places, but don't be surprised when you realize I love to joke around and be goofy and playful, too (NOT in the classy restaurant, of course!! ) I am divorced with an 8 year old son and value family highly.....I am blessed to still have my parents around. Since I do have a young child, I would expect and will appreciate anyone I meet to be understanding when it comes to the challenges single moms sometimes have when dating. I teach special education through private agencies and love what I do.......I pride myself on my ability to be sensitive and establish good relationships with the parents I work with who have special needs children. I love infants and the elderly....they're both so precious in their own ways!! Of course, communication and trust are important, but even at this age, I think chemistry is also a must! A relationship without appreciation and passion just doesn't feel right. I am a good listener, a loyal friend, and love to make people laugh! I have a quick wit and usually laugh when I'm nervous! Making people laugh has always served as my "safety valve" since I am actually quite shy. Truthfully, I am looking for a solid relationship, as well as a man of exceptional values who will nurture my son as well as our relationship. Sure....I love the beach, and dining out, and working out, as well as candlelight and a nice glass of wine! I feel the best when I dance, although I don't really dance anywhere other than my living room anymore!! I am a classically trained musician, (my bachelor degree is in music education) but absolutely love latin, R&B, soul, and classic disco. Not looking for 'games' or causal dating. Please.....have a good sense of humor, and don't be wrapped too tight!! Thanks for reading, and good luck in your own search :)Never say never!! Timing is everything!! Perhaps a coffee (or a Dunkin' frozen hot chocolate!!) or someplace where we both feel comfortable meeting for a drink.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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