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Darian, 52
United States, Pennsylvania, Northampton

Offline, last seen Mon, 22 Dec 2025 18:04:10

About Me

I'll preface my profile by stating despite the look in some pics, I am NOT high maintenance. In younger years, I've done a bit of modeling. (mostly eyes) That said:There is a big chunk of my life left waiting to be played out with you. I'm young at heart with lots to offer. The question is "Does a combo package of attractiveness and INTELLIGENCE appeal to you?" I am an interesting mix of fun, brains, and just enough glitz to make things exciting. I am willing to try new things, but you'll never convince me that bowling (I once bowled a 3) or the opera (I fell asleep) are enjoyable. I could also use some serious coaching in tennis and baseball. "Camping" you say? Tried it once, but my idea of "camping out" is more like sitting in my car in a parking lot (coffee in hand) waiting for the mall to open. Although I have a science background, most people place me in the arts.( It's the fashion factor.) Family and friends are a vital part of my life, but I am also very comfortable spending the day with just myself. I am confident enough to give you your space and not be all-consuming or needy. I am curvaceous and some say I have the body of a 25 year old. (The mind is another issue.) I have sex appeal, (not to be confused with promiscuity.) The biggest thing on me is my heart. It's been broken and mended a few times and there's room in it for you. I love to play dress-up for my man. (I don't go anywhere without my high heels!) I can also be as casual as the rest of them.On weekends, it's no makeup and overalls.You might find me doing house repairs, at the gym or at bootcamp (tough, but no crying aloud), gardening, bargain shopping, listening to music (oldies freak) or cooking. Italian meals are my specialty. I am of Italian heritage. Dad was a chef and I learned from the best! I also spend time working with special needs (mainly autistic) children.My perfect mate is attractive,well groomed and physically fit.Teeth and hair (adorning the head) are a plus. He is confident, but never arrogant or pompous. He is comfortable going out on the town or just spending a day at home watching a movie classic or suffering through an occasional chic flick. Mr. Right is honest, considerate, generous (I don't mesh with cheap), and of high moral character. The relationship will be a give and take and should evolve naturally. I've learned from past experience that when you have to work too hard at any relationship, it's not worth having. I do not want to become a professional dater and have meetville become a way of life, but rather a means to a happy beginning. It is so incredibly easy to become jaded on a dating site; So many broken promises and people who lack sincerity. I'm still optimistic that you are out there and that odds are now favorable to meet a man who embraces the total me - outside and inside package. It would be soooo refreshing to meet just a nice, genuine guy. A final note - If we connect and communicate, call me old fashioned, but I prefer the phone. I also prefer to be contacted by those who truly want a relationship. Gentlemen: NOT POSTING A PICTURE IS A RED FLAG FOR ME! I DON"T RESPOND! I DELETE! Thanks for stopping by. The most comfortable first date would be for coffee or a drink. Let's keep it short and sweet. I know immediately (and so do you) whether there are sparks. Hopefully, for both of us, the "new catch" didn't post a photo that was 50 pounds or ten years ago. (And we've all been there!) There is nothing worse than enduring a long dinner or event when you know your only mindset is to excuse yourself, run to the nearest bathroom, and jump out the window to escape Aunt Bea or Gramps.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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