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QianaOffline
Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 48-58
I am a divorced lady with no children. I am still friendly with my ex, and now feel ready to get back into the social scene. I work for a large travel agency and would love to have someone to travel with! I have two cats, whom I love, and I plan to add a dog to my home very soon, so you MUST be an animal lover! I don't care about age, as long as it's not too huge a gap either way. I am looking for someone easygoing, stable, and calm, who enjoys going out but also likes to stay home and veg once in a while. Anyone I'm with has to be at least somewhat liberal, yet also not hate country music!This poem is a favorite of mine. If it speaks to you also, please contact me!The DanceI have sent you my invitation,the note inscribed on the palm of my hand by the fire of living.Don’t jump up and shout, “Yes, this is what I want! Let’s do it!”Just stand up quietly and dance with me.Show me how you follow your deepest desires,spiraling down into the ache within the ache,and I will show you how I reach inward and open outwardto feel the kiss of the Mystery, sweet lips on my own, every day.Don’t tell me you want to hold the whole world in your heart.Show me how you turn away from making another wrong without abandoning yourself whenyou are hurt and afraid of being unloved.Tell me a story of who you are,and see who I am in the stories I live.And together we will remember that each of us always has a choice.Don’t tell me how wonderful things will be . . . some day.Show me you can risk being completely at peace,truly okay with the way things are right now in this moment,and again in the next and the next and the next. . .I have heard enough warrior stories of heroic daring.Tell me how you crumble when you hit the wall,the place you cannot go beyond by the strength of your own will.What carries you to the other side of that wall, to the fragile beauty of your own humanness?And after we have shown each other how we have set and kept the clear, healthy boundaries thathelp us live side by side with each other, let us risk remembering that we never stop silentlylovingthose we once loved out loud.Take me to the places on the earth that teach you how to dance,the places where you can risk letting the world break your heart.And I will take you to the places where the earth beneath my feet and the stars overhead makemy heart whole again and again.Show me how you take care of businesswithout letting business determine who you are.When the children are fed but still the voices within and around us shout that soul’s desires havetoo high a price,let us remind each other that it is never about the money.Show me how you offer to your people and the worldthe stories and the songsyou want our children’s children to remember.And I will show you how I struggle not to change the world,but to love it.Sit beside me in long moments of shared solitude,knowing both our absolute aloneness and our undeniable belonging.Dance with me in the silence and in the sound of small daily words,holding neither against me at the end of the day.And when the sound of all the declarations of our sincerestintentions has died away on the wind,dance with me in the infinite pause before the next great inhaleof the breath that is breathing us all into being,not filling the emptiness from the outside or from within.Don’t say, “Yes!”Just take my hand and dance with me.© Oriah Mountain Dreamer, from the book The Dance, HarperONE, SanFrancisco, ***I like to keep the first meeting pretty casual -- a cup of coffee or maybe a glass of wine, conversation, see what comes from that . . .
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AleahOffline
Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 48-58
I am a blue eyed blonde country girl. Looking for a man with a good heart and now's how to treat and accept a good woman. Wouldlike friends first then put on cruise control. I love country music and outlaw country. Bob fires dirt tacks and iron horses. No games allowed as I don't play them. Stay tuned for rest of the story. Oh a little.bit of redneck would be good on man too. I think the first date should be casual like a mud run or going to hear a good country band. And get to know each other. I don't have sex on first date cuz I want that to be meaningful and specialSo I am not a hook up
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MackenzieOffline
Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 50-60
I enjoy winter evenings in front of the fireplace and summer in the pool. I like going out to dinner and dancing. Currently I have no pets but I love animals. I love to laugh and do it as often as I can. A good sense of humor is a requirement. Men in their 50's tell me I'm good looking. Looking for someone to laugh with. Also looking for someone to go to dinner and enjoy a glass of wine with. Want to know more? Send me a message and find out. Meet for coffee or a drink at a mutual place.