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DiamandaOffline
Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 48-58
I\'m a happy person and I like to surround myself with positive people. No I do not live in a bubble, although sometimes I like to pretend I do. I\'m here looking to meet someone I can connect with.
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QianaOffline
Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 48-58
I am a divorced lady with no children. I am still friendly with my ex, and now feel ready to get back into the social scene. I work for a large travel agency and would love to have someone to travel with! I have two cats, whom I love, and I plan to add a dog to my home very soon, so you MUST be an animal lover! I don't care about age, as long as it's not too huge a gap either way. I am looking for someone easygoing, stable, and calm, who enjoys going out but also likes to stay home and veg once in a while. Anyone I'm with has to be at least somewhat liberal, yet also not hate country music!This poem is a favorite of mine. If it speaks to you also, please contact me!The DanceI have sent you my invitation,the note inscribed on the palm of my hand by the fire of living.Don’t jump up and shout, “Yes, this is what I want! Let’s do it!”Just stand up quietly and dance with me.Show me how you follow your deepest desires,spiraling down into the ache within the ache,and I will show you how I reach inward and open outwardto feel the kiss of the Mystery, sweet lips on my own, every day.Don’t tell me you want to hold the whole world in your heart.Show me how you turn away from making another wrong without abandoning yourself whenyou are hurt and afraid of being unloved.Tell me a story of who you are,and see who I am in the stories I live.And together we will remember that each of us always has a choice.Don’t tell me how wonderful things will be . . . some day.Show me you can risk being completely at peace,truly okay with the way things are right now in this moment,and again in the next and the next and the next. . .I have heard enough warrior stories of heroic daring.Tell me how you crumble when you hit the wall,the place you cannot go beyond by the strength of your own will.What carries you to the other side of that wall, to the fragile beauty of your own humanness?And after we have shown each other how we have set and kept the clear, healthy boundaries thathelp us live side by side with each other, let us risk remembering that we never stop silentlylovingthose we once loved out loud.Take me to the places on the earth that teach you how to dance,the places where you can risk letting the world break your heart.And I will take you to the places where the earth beneath my feet and the stars overhead makemy heart whole again and again.Show me how you take care of businesswithout letting business determine who you are.When the children are fed but still the voices within and around us shout that soul’s desires havetoo high a price,let us remind each other that it is never about the money.Show me how you offer to your people and the worldthe stories and the songsyou want our children’s children to remember.And I will show you how I struggle not to change the world,but to love it.Sit beside me in long moments of shared solitude,knowing both our absolute aloneness and our undeniable belonging.Dance with me in the silence and in the sound of small daily words,holding neither against me at the end of the day.And when the sound of all the declarations of our sincerestintentions has died away on the wind,dance with me in the infinite pause before the next great inhaleof the breath that is breathing us all into being,not filling the emptiness from the outside or from within.Don’t say, “Yes!”Just take my hand and dance with me.© Oriah Mountain Dreamer, from the book The Dance, HarperONE, SanFrancisco, ***I like to keep the first meeting pretty casual -- a cup of coffee or maybe a glass of wine, conversation, see what comes from that . . .
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JayleenOffline
Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 49-59
I love to meet new people and learn about their lives. I’ve been accused of knowing someone every place I go. I collect friends,attempt to make people feel at ease and I’m told that I’m easy to talk to. I am a take charge, hard-working professional. I stay busy, am very much a leader and self-confident person. I like to entertain casually but I can throw a formal event if required. I enjoy plays and theater but I can fit any anywhere. In fact, I recently played BINGO with some senior citizens and had a great time. I can have a nice glass of wine, a good bottle of beer, a good cup of coffee or cold glass of water. It doesn’t matter. Road trips are fun but doing things around town are fine too. I don't have to spend money to have fun because I believe happiness comes from within. I have been lots of places but there's lots more to see.My perfect match is someone that enjoys being with me, hanging out with friends and entertaining while sometimes just sitting at home and being alone. That someone should be my best friend, someone that we both provide comfort, laughter, happiness and support to each other. Trust is a must. As well that someone should feel comfortable taking charge while being respectful of my independence and ideas. That someone should also be confident, friendly, easy to talk to, be loyal, reliable and honest. I find being able to laugh "with each other" always helps. I believe the basis a great relationship begins with friendship so we need to have common interests and beliefs. Family should be important because through time we'd extend our time to include our families with each other.Because I do enjoy making friends, I am not opposed to hanging out and I am always open to making new friends. However, ideally what's been missing in my life is my one true love and soul-mate. Call me a hopeless romantic but I do believe that true love exists and there's a difference between good friends and that soul mate. Is that called passion? I'm pretty flexible but it would be a place where we could spend quiet time getting to talk with each other but an activity to break the ice.....walking at a park, picnic, etc is always nice.