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Jeffie, 54

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About Me

I am a pretty independent female who is looking for a man to share everything life has to offer - I would like to find someone who is emotionally available and is not afraid to commit; a man who can compliment and add to my life. I am pretty comfortable in my own skin and do not need someone to "complete me". I am a pretty happy, optimistic person and am looking for the same in my mate. I like a man who can communicate and is not afraid to show his emotions, who is confident, and is not afraid to take the lead. I appreciate a man with a good sense of humor since I love to laugh - good belly laughs are the best!!!. Above all, I am looking for someone who is honest and does not play games...life is too short for that. I would like to find a man who keeps himself in shape as exercise is very important to me. Mutual attraction wouldn't hurt either! When it comes to me I am very easygoing and down to earth. Most of my friends will say that I am very personable, attractive, and in great shape. Also that I am fun, energetic, thoughtful, generous, compassionate, empathetic, and a good listener. I also pride myself on accepting you for who you are and do not judge. My friends would also say that I am VERY picky when it comes to men! I am not looking for perfection, just the right man for me. So, are you up for the challenge? I hope so! I would like a casual first date to see if we are mutually attracted to each other. Meeting for coffee in a public place rates high with me!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ellyn

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Looking for a keep it simple, no pressure, good conversation, plenty of laughter friendship for casual dating and fun. Long term? Absolutely.... with the right person. But it does (or should) start with a friendship. Emotionally grounded & available (meaning: all past relationships are done, dead and buried) I am open to fall in love, however... not in a hurry, don't have an agenda.It's all about timing. Yours, mine, ours? About me: I'm a normal, unpretentious, caring woman with above average communication skills, quick wit, a curious mind and an eternity focused heart. I don't have to "choose" to be happy.... I already am. I'm also intuitive and self aware. I’ve learned how and when to be quiet (can there be such a woman?) .. and when to speak my truth. You know there's Type A personality, and type B personality.... I say mine is L-M-N-O-P. Real easy going, don't sweat the small stuff. I'm a realist and a logical thinker. Always open to a hearty laugh (as they are soul healing).... I can be fun and funny. You won't have to twist my arm too hard to have some impromptu or planned fun. I've learned that in order to find the right person... you must be the right person. I have done my due diligence. My relationship skills are sharp... just like my quick wit (heehee). It's all about the journey. Good thing.... cuz I haven't arrived anywhere yet.I prefer you to have activities you enjoy by yourself and activities we enjoy together. My main love sign is quality time shared, so when we are together you will discover I am attentive, thoughtful, communicative, desiress. On the flip side of that I enjoy my alone time. It (relationship) is all about balance and compromise and finding what works best between us. Hopefully at this point in life we've at least got that one worked out, right?You look at pictures... as do I... You know what you like when you see it. My interests are normal and simple (hiking, movies, dining, travels, etc...) I have no need to jump out of airplanes. I've been exercising daily for ***years so I don't consider that an activity, it's just what I do.. kinda like brushing my teeth... it's part of the routine. Like it or not... we are all aging. My intention is to do it with grace. Note of importance: I do have a spiritual faith in Christianity. I am seeking a like hearted man.~~~~~Hate to limit myself to perspective mates... however dating outside the north county area doesn't make sense. It seems many of us are established in our home geography and more than likely do not plan on moving anywhere anytime soon. Speaking for myself... I do not have the resources to make commuting part of the relationship.~~~~~Sorry ... don't do 'separated'. You must be completely divorced. If you already had the 'rebound' relationship that would be even better (just sayin)~~~~~My pictures are accurate representations of me from dressing up for a wedding (blue dress).. to laying out in the sun with beach hair/ no makeup. No glamour shots. No cleavage shots. No cleavage? No shots? To be determined...... ~~~~~It is difficult to seek/find/reachout/be *** one likes it..but sadly it's an online reality. If you contact me and I do not respond it is because I don't see us as a match. Alternately, if you choose not to respond to me... I can figure it out (this if not rocket science) Your not interested. It's equally hard to say no thank you as it is to read no thank you. I agree... it's messed up. .Someone once said:"If plan A doesn't work there's always plan B. If plan B doesn't work, there's serendipity". Welcome to Serendipity Doesn't really matter what we decide to do... what does matter is you are what your profile says you are.

  • Adelyna

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I am one of the most unique people on the planet.. lol . I love my job and plan on staying here till I retire or get fired. hiking, working out. I miss the companionship of a man. Its okay to be by yourself but it also gets lonely, its not in the grand plan . I love to be held and cuddled, cuddling on the couch with a good movie and popcorn, Not into the bar scene stuff. Like to go out to the movies. .I have 2 sons and a grand daughter that live in ND, My family means a lot to me I try to go visit them as much as I can. I love Jesus and every day try to be a better Christian . meet and greet, type of happening! Ie; coffee or park, then take it from there. PS if you are married or have a significant other . Move on. I will not tolerate that kind of behavior. Thanks

  • Sydnie

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I've just come out of a very bad three year relationship and I'm looking for someone to help me believe in love again. I am not looking to just hook-up or to have phone sex. Im an attractive BBW,who loves with my whole heart,but rarely receives what I deserve in return. I am tall,funny,smart (except when it comes to men lol) and love to have fun. Status update ***: I broke my ankle two weeks ago and had to have surgery. I am in a cast and a wheel-chair until November 5. I am absolutely forbidden to walk so that precludes me going anywhere to meet people. Also,I'm staying with family because of the injury,so I can't invite strangers over. If you want to meet me you will have to wait a couple weeks. If you can't wait (even though I'm fabulous),I understand and happy fishing. : )

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