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Robert, 55
United States, Pennsylvania, North East

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I’ve been a widow now for a little over 4 years. Quite simply I no longer want to be alone. I’m ready to share the companionship and intimacy of a quality relationship. I want to live the love songs once again.I enjoy simple things...believing that true pleasure is found in who you share with rather than what you do. I like to laugh, and I especially enjoy making you laugh. I enjoy sharing a warming fire, watching it’s mesmerizing dance; evenings watching the stars sparkle; the roll of thunder and the amazing power of lightning in the distance. I love the smell of freshly cut grass and Stargazer Lilies.I love road trips…the highway is in my blood! I like to do almost anything that involves water...boating, swimming, hot tubs, and kayaking (only done this once and thoroughly enjoyed it). I would much rather swim than sweat!I enjoy cooking for someone that loves food. I enjoy watching musicians perform their craft. I DON’T play games!!! I would ask the same in return. Being emotionally available is essential. Any enduring relationship begins with at least a few common interests, chemistry, and friendship. These are the avenues we investigate through dating, communicating, and spending time together. If a long term relationship develops its a wonderful thing. If not, at least we have found a friend worth having in our lives.Becoming a widow has taught me to never take anything...and especially anyone...for granted. Every day, every smile, every glance is a gift to be appreciated and treasured.I believe in sweet secrets and sweeter surprises.Chemistry is essential. If the kiss doesn’t fit, neither will anything else! Again...I believe in passion, tenderness and communication. I love romance and candlelight and the simple yet profound message conveyed by a caress. I have NO taste for champagne. I cannot live without my quad latte. Chocolate is a necessity of life.I like my wine cold. I don’t do beer.I hate cleaning bathrooms!!!..and I love sleeping through it. I enjoy camping out in the pines (preferably near water). I especially love the sound of the breeze as it passes through the branches, the scent of the forest and the peacefulness it brings to my spirit. Few things delight the senses like the smell of a campfire. Please note: I DON’T DO TENTS!!I would rather share conversation over dinner, coffee or a glass of wine *** a movie, and prefer watching that movie all tangled up together on the couch.My friends tell me I am a “special” woman. I sometimes wonder just exactly what THAT is supposed to mean?!! I think I have a pretty good sense of humor; sometimes clever. Usually intelligent and believe myself to be articulate enough to carry my end of the conversation.I appreciate the hand holding and stolen kisses of a living romance…the tender touches and meaningful glances of shared affection. I am a woman with a tender heart, true intent, integrity, character, passion and fire. I am a woman of worth. I AM Gemini.I am looking for a man of balance, integrity and strong character. A man of skill and talent. A man that has a desire and the ability to live in harmony despite the challenges. A man who can love and accept me for who I am (and who I am yet to become) without a need to change me. In reality, the only one we can change is ourselves.I seek someone that has no need or desire to control or govern me, who is tolerant of my flaws and is patient as we explore, learn and help each other to grow throughout the many lessons that life still holds for us.I am seeking that special someone to share the many joys available to us in this existence and live the love songs together. I look forward to the adventure of learning one another...and who we are together.If you’ve managed to read this far I must thank you for your time and interest. Intrigued? Questions? Send me a message. Perhaps we can get acquainted. A simple meeting that allows us to be comfortable, converse and get acquainted further. I'm open to suggestions

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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