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Tamson, 54

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About Me

Hello and thank you for stopping by. Me, well, I prefer to see the glass as half full, even if we are talking condensation droplets. I love to laugh, be happy, work, and engage myself in life. I have never been afraid to work hard. As a paralegal, so much of my work day consists of stress and drama, so, while I am always happy to be there for friends and family, I try to keep my personal life positive and look for the joy which each day holds for us, if we are open to it. My divorce is long over, all of the baggage has been neatly dealt with and I am happy to say I have a happy, pleasant relationship with my daughter's father.Interestingly, after being married for the better part of my adult life, I now find it interesting deciding what I like and what I (perhaps) only enjoyed because I was doing it with my family and friends. Odd fact about me (not sure what it means to others, but), I do not understand why people find the need to post suggestive pictures of themselves. I also find it disheartening how many people believe that somehow being slim and fit equates to who a person truly is - especially when it comes to women. Why? The size of the person doesn't define their respect for themselves ... at all. I have to ask, how many of you who based your past relationship picks on what your eyes liked, and if you did, did those picks prove to be long-lasting, consiting of true happiness?I am not sure this is true 100% of the time, but have you found that those people who have worried about how they look on the outside, were lacking on how they were on the inside?I do not believe our mistakes define us, but rather how we deal with them most certainly does define our character. I love all types of music - I will even listen to some RAP and wish that I could move like the young people in the videos do. I hope to find somebody to enjoy life with, and share in making new memories. I miss having somebody to share the things that you share only with the special someone. Good luck to all of you. For my first date, I would like to do something simple and emotionally safe for both of us. Something that promotes relaxation and allows for communication, so there isn't really one specific idea that I can share, because it isn't all about me and my comfort zone, but also the person who is trying to connect along with me.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Dandrenor

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I am currently staying at my folks helping them out. (my father has cancer) Not sure what the future hold for me as to where my butt will be planted for the long term but today I am here and I know I will be tomorrow.; 24. I love the arts and seeing all the ways others express themself through their work. I truly enjoy jam'n on some keyboards, pick'n my guitar a bit, good movies, laugh'n alot, playing games (board games that is!), nice walks n talks, camping by a creek and spending time with my family. I would like to meet a friend or two that has similar interest and would like to make a good friend. Am I looking for that perfect mate? Not really. I was always told that when I stop looking that is when he would appear. So I stopped. And now I wait but I always have room for another good timing friend. There is so much to do and see in the world and to be able to share those times with another makes it that much better. I am a very honest, caring, compassionate, loyal woman that loves to have a really good time and laugh alot. No expectations, no pressure, no games. I believe that we should treat another as we would like to be treated. I am open to chat'n alot, getting to know one another on here and then taking it from there. This internet way of meeting people can be a bit scarry, but I am a risk taker and not into the bar scene (alone) so I will just keep checking on here and seeing what alittle faith and patience can bring me!! I lost my dad to his cancer on March 3, ***and my life hasn't been the same since. He was my #1 Man, my best friend and mentor and I just am feeling alittle lost without him. But I pray everday to continue to find my way. I miss him terribly but I am very thankful that I was able to spend months of quality time with him and I was able to say good-bye. I ended up staying up here to support my oldest daughter while she was going through a difficult time and then I found out I was going to be a grandma so of course I had to stay for that. I don't get to see him very much and I have a pretty hard time with that so I also pray about that everyday. I was ready weeks ago. And the weather up here seems to just get darker, grayer and wetter and it sucks!!!! (excuse my language) But enough is enough.! Well that pretty much wraps it up. It is 11pm and I am about ready to call it a day. Play my guitar alittle, pray and hit the sheets!!! (well, couch, (I am staying at my daughter's)Oh and I am looking for someone I can find a common ground with, laugh with, share with, explore with. Someone who respects individuality, loves music, walking, animals, family time (of course fishing!) and believes in God. Time is going so fast and it seems to really get faster as we get older. My life line is a moving and I have a huge "Bucket List". Take care Let's see-a first date. Well the word "Date" makes me alittle uneasy. Probably due to the fact that the last time I went on a date was about 25 yrs ago and it was a blind date it was terrible! So yes it makes me alittle nervous but IF I were to go on one I would probably like a day time activity to start with. Maybe an art festival or outdoor concert. Possibly a trip to a zoo or museum. Nice lunch somewhere, good conversation and a small ice cream cone for the ride home. But then again, all that could change and I certainly am open to suggestions and always willing listen to your ideas. Just casual, no pressure, good time and a new good friend.

  • Laryn

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I'm an easy going woman living a balanced life, as much as possible. I enjoy traveling, movies, beaches, big cities, embarking on new adventures and so much more. I usually have a good laugh every day, many times unintentionally. On the weekends, I manage to squeeze in a few hours of beach volleyball. Do you play?Originally from the east coast and still possess east coast values such as family, friends and commitments being very important to me. I find the architecture of old buildings and bridges amazing! I can wander around an old city and marvel at them for hours and hours.I'm looking for a man with a similar lifestyle and values.

  • Elinore

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I am a vivacious, energetic, people-person with many different skills that I have acquired over the years. I am an accomplished figure skater, modern and jazz dancer, and singer. I am a former classroom teacherand I have certificates as a paralegal and a mediator. Now that I've gotten the resume out of the way, I can tell you that I am frequently looking for ways to interject humor into conversations. Bawdy humor is a favorite. I am very comfortable in my own skin and have a healthy libido. I'm going to meet someone who will be the one I will look forward to seeing. I will think about him throughout the day and I will swoon when I think out our last date. He will be much like me in his accomplishments and demeanor. However he'll be a little smarter than me and a little more adventurous, which will keep me very interested. We won't be inseparable, but we will want to be together even though we are independent minded. I relate best to men who are very educated. That means at least a bachelors degree. I have had relationships with men who did not finish college, but in the end, there was a gap between us. Not that I am super intellectual really. I just know what has worked for me best. This site may not be the best venue for the search, but I am willing to give it a try to find a really good match. This special man will be good looking in a unconventional way, but not too "out there". He will be equally physical (healthy and relatively fit) as he is cerebral, creative as he is practical, and sincere as he is playful. I'm looking forward to meet him because he sensitive, slow to anger and sees the magic in the world.If you think you are this person, I'm so glad you're reading this! You won't regret contacting me. People have told me I look better in person. Surprise me... I am open to suggestion.

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