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Dick, 34
United States, New York, Oswego

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About Me

You can typically find me working, at the gym, at church, jogging when the weather is nice, playing my guitar/writing music, laughing with my amazing friends, watching TV (reality TV mostly), cleaning..a little obsessed, and dreaming of what to do next to make life better.I believe that I have a very optimistic outgoing personality and enjoy others that do. Some may label me complicated, but I prefer 3 dimensional. Life is more than just working, working out, and going out. Now, don't get me wrong I like all of those things, but there is more to life. I hope to influence and change the world around me. Balance is key. I'm a very driven person and usually have many goals/aspirations at one time. I want to constantly improve. I have a hard time hanging out on the surface and love deep meaningful relationships. I appreciate someone that is honest, authentic, funny (very important), giving, smart, passionate, driven, social, active, and a genuinely good person. Someone that can dine at a hole in the wall restaurant but who can also enjoy a elegant charity event. Someone that wants to help others and is truly compassionate. Someone that appreciates nice things but is not defined by them. A spiritual person is a must. And humor is a non-negotiable.FYI. I'm a Taurus (not Capricorn as it says). And I'm 33. It won't let me change that.Also, for full disclosure and since this is an important factor in terms of compatibility in the gay arena: I'm HIV negative. I'm primarily a top but vers. I can be a little more versatile in a committed relationship. I'm not into open relationships or anything along those lines. And not into any type of drugs. While my natural tendency is dive in head first...I've learned that you have to take things slow to really get to know someone. So dating is a great concept.I love being spontaneous, so I'm open to a variety of different dating options. Dinner, coffee, going to a show, hanging out at the beach, etc. I love being creative.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Country Metal Punk Japanese Spanish Vietnamese
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