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Rolland, 33
United States, New York, Oswego

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About Me

I'm ready for something serious. I've always been the type of guy to enjoy my independance and freedom. I feel like I've seen all types of possible senarios when dating, and I know finally what I want. In every relationship you have in life, you grow in some way and learn more about yourself. What you like, what you don't, what you will accept and not, and I feel its imparative these attributes are known when entering a new relationship. Trust and respect are most important to me. I know from the past once either of these are broken or lost in a relationship, its the begining of the end.I am very motivated, independant, organized, and fun-loving. I work hard for what I have, and I would never take handouts. Life is a series of tests, and you need to be able to rely on yourself first and foremost. I enjoy theater, and occasionally act. It's a pastime which has proven to be a very heathly outlet from the stresses of life. I enjoy travelling and have seen many of the islands, and am always looking for an oppourtunity to 'getaway'. Movies, the arts, and dinning are also high on my enjoyments in life. Now for one of my qualities that may potentially scare you off. I am a neat freak! I am sightly compulsive when it comes to keeping my home clean and items organized. Although I don't feel as if I go 'overboard', I do enjoy a clean house. I have lived with messey people in the past, and have learned to adapt slightly to their habits, I would much more prefer someone who shares my same expectations. I love my friends, and they are all in my life for a reason. They are not aquaintances, and I know I can count on them. They have seen me through some of my most difficult times.I currently work in the biotech industry, and also maintain a small practice as a massage therpaist working in a chiropractic office. I carry a strong work ethic, and am not lazy. I look for the same in others. I am happy with my career, and look forward to further growth and oportunities. Nothing fancy, dinner and drinks, or coffee. Just enough time to briefly get to know one another

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electronic Music
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