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Alysdare, 31

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About Me

I spend most of my time doing handcrafts (knitting, crocheting and the like). I also enjoy hiking through the woods, driving around for no reason, and reading (art, philosophy and social theory, mostly). I play a lot of board and trivia games. Of course, I also do the "traditional" things like go to bars to hang out with friends and such. I'm a sociable nerd. I've been blessed enough to have worked at four bookstores so far in my life (one of which was Giovanni's Room, one of the oldest LGBT bookstores in the world), and dream of running my own one day. I'm also considering going back to school for an Master's in Library Science. I think it's just that I really enjoy connecting people with the knowledge that they need (nerd alert!). As far as music is concerned, I like a little bit of everything. Lately, it's been a lot of folk and rock, but I like hip hop, experimental, shoegazing, classical, noise rock, and indie rock (and an admittedly soft spot for the female singer/songwriter). I just want to meet someone to spend time with, someone to laugh with/at. I'd like to meet someone with radically different interests than mine. Learning new things from new people is one of the greatest gifts in life. That being said, it would be helpful if we had at least something in common. We could spend the day at the art museum, or go hiking through the woods somewhere. Dinner is always nice (even if the conversation fails, the food usually doesn't). I'm fairly adaptable, and horribly indecisive, so it doesn't really matter.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Mathew

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    Man. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    Well I'm a good hearted person who loves to meet new people. Don't be shy and say hello ill never leave a hello hanging even if I think your ugly as sin. J/k :0)I had weight loss surgery back in July and since then I'm a 100lbs. lighter and couldn't be happier and looking to stay that way. So if your looking for a gym partner or someone you'd like to mold into your project I'm all for it. I like to go out and have a good time but I also know how awesome it is to sit at home and share time with someone ya care about. I believe in "To each their own" politically or religiously. But if your Ultra conservative or believe your dead relatives/friends spirits are floating in your house watching over you then were probably not a good match. But other then that I have no beef. That's all 8) Doesn't matter I believe no matter where you are or what you do you'll make anything a fun/good time. But since their asking ill say nothing wrong with dinner/drinks it's a good start I hear.

  • Cannon

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    Man. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    Love to go out and have a good time, dancing, eating out, hang with friends, watch movies, play games, listen to music, enjoy the outdoors, etc. I'm really into music - went to college to be a music teacher - love to sing - want to be a singer...or at least music teacher if anything I may be a little shy at first but break out of my shell after a little bit, kinda sarcastic once I get to know you, good sense of humor, good listener, honest, not too confident (self esteem is pretty low but trying to build that up), etc....listen to just about everything...Want to start working out and getting in shape - just need some advice...trainer? gym buddy?Hit me up if ya wanna know anything else! ...Hmm....I'm a pretty simple guy.....may do dinner and a movie...beach and boardwalk in the summer...go out with a group and have fun...I'm up for prety much anything...but a good convo is needed to get to know each other

  • Lovel

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    Man. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    So, first thing I should mention, is that even though I'm for the most part extremely organized, I'm horrible at updating information online, so I'm going to point out that this profile was last updated on March 29th, ***. So if you're reading this and it's like Christmas ***or later, can you send me a quick message telling me to get off my lazy butt and update my profile? because I'm sure by then I will have discovered new tv shows, stopped watching old ones, developed new philosophies about different things or expanded on the philosophies I currently have. My most recent picture on here is the one in the white t-shirt (not the one with my old phone; the other one). The one with my phone is from about a year ago (or maybe 2 years? I'm not very good at estimating time and I have a horrible memory) and the other one that's all blurry-ish is from like 8 or 9 years ago (I just keep it up here because I think it's the best picture I ever took, plus it inspires me to diet to be thin again like that again).It's always hard to describe yourself in words, but I'll try to be detailed as I can, so you can get an idea of my personality. I want to go to grad school after I get my bachelors degree at Southern. My dream is to one day have my own private clinical psychology practice and to teach one class a semester at the college level in any topic that is in the mental health field. If all goes according to plan, I should have my bachelors by the end of the summer ***, and my doctorate sometime around ***. I take my college education very seriously, so I spend a lot of time studying, writing papers, researching, learning, classes, etc., which is paying off because I have a 3.93 GPA. Since I spend so much time on this, I mostly communicate with my friends by texting them and hanging out one night a week, sometimes two, depending on the week. I wanted to point that out just in case someone is reading this and is the "clingy" type and is looking for a friend or boyfriend that spends every day or a lot of time with that person. I actually prefer clingy guys, and would love it if someone was interested in spending most or all their free time with me, but I just wanted to point out that during a lot of that time spent together, I might be studying. It would actually be nice to have a friend or boyfriend who wanted to spend time with me helping me study and learning all that I learn, since the field of psychology is such a fascinating subject.; even more so than law or med school, the reason being that psychology is one of the most popular majors for both undergrad and grad school).Another aspect of my personality that's very important to me is that I'm a born again Christian. This does not mean that I am going to attempt to force my beliefs on you or to force you to change your beliefs and for this reason: it is impossible for me to force anyone to believe that Jesus is the Son of God and that His death and Resurrection on the cross can bring you eternal life if you put your faith in Him. People can chose to believe what I believe, or chose to reject what I believe. It is not possible for me to make someone believe one belief or other, regardless of what that belief is; it is that persons choice what they chose or chose not to believe. But that doesn't mean I'm not excited about my faith and want to share it with others so that they can understand my reasoning and logic, my philosophy, of why I believe what I believe. I find Christianity fascinating, and would love to share what I learn with everyone I can, just as you would want to share something fascinating that you learned with as many people as you can. I enjoy debating world religions, and would be interested in hearing why you have decided to be whatever your religion is, whether it be Muslim, Jewish, Atheist, or any other number of religions. I would be curious as to why you believe what you believe, just as I'm sure you would be curious why I believe what I believe.A third aspect of my personality is my joy of reading. I've been told by one of my best friends that he has never met anyone before who reads more than me. Some people may find reading boring and tedious, but I find it relaxing and enjoyable. For the most part, I read non fiction. I enjoy any books related to the Bible, religions of the world, science of any type, but especially theoretical science (the existence of extraterrestrials, time travel, travel beyond the speed of light) and science related to stars, planets, nebula, etc. I love learning new things about Presidential history.A fourth aspect of my personality is that I'm a news junkie. Part of my interest in the news is that I'm very into politics. I would label myself as somewhere in between Independent and Libertarian. I try vote on each candidate or issue independently of others, but I find myself feeling that the Democratic candidate or Democratic viewpoint tends to be better than the Republican candidate or viewpoint 9 times out of 10. On the more controversial issues, I am against (k so apparently there is a text limit on this site and it cut me off a few sentences after the last one, so if you want to read the rest of what I wrote about myself, just ask me and ill *** rest of what i wrote because it cut me off at less than half of what i wrote) It doesn't matter where the first date is, as long as the guy I'm on a date with is very talkative, and asks me lots of questions, and answers all the questions I ask him with long detailed answers, then that would be an awesome date, because it would be the best way to get to know each other. But if I had to pick a preference for a first date, I would say dinner somewhere. No movie on the first date (every time I go to a movie on a first date, I end up thinking "When is this movie going to be over so I can have a conversation with this person I'm sitting next to that I know barely anything about?")

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