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Sela, 35
United States, New York, New Paltz

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About Me

Oh how I hate this part. It's so easy for a person to say they are one thing I prefer to prove it. Actions always speak louder but I will give it a shot. I am a hippy at heart but don't play the part. I'd like to say I'm funny I always have my friends laughing and they swear it's with me not at me. Not sure why they point when they laugh "with" me. The attributes of myself I value most would be Fiercely loyal and protective of those close to meI don't exaggerate and am honest (but I am sarcastic)Extremely hard working and dependableHave never and will never cheat (I wouldn't wish that pain on my worst enemy)I try to stay positive and speak from the heart I am a bit shy until I feel comfortable with people but am working on it. I enjoy cooking, gardening good wine and good company. My friends and family are important to me and I will never let someone divide me from them again. I am a good listener and sympathetic but not someone who likes to be vented to. If you want a solution or guidance I'm all ears if you want to complain I won't put the energy into it. I listen to a lot of music and my tastes are across the board. You won't meet to many people more easy going than me not much phases me or gets me upset. Always game to do about anything as long as I have the time.Looking for someone upbeat and positive who isn't afraid to communicate. Someone who understands a relationship is a partnership of supporting and pushing each other to be the best they can and not one sided. Someone who appreciates romance and chivalry yet doesn't require constant attention. “Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.” ? Rumi

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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