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Callen, 51
United States, New York, Mastic Beach

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I am seeking, I am striving, I am in it with all my heart. Writing to a stranger in hopes of making a very personal connection. All you have to do is stumble a few times for the whole process to seem flawed and pointless. Don’t give up just yet.Try to think of it differently. Take yourself back a century or so to a time when the written word had a more elegant flair and conveyed a message with meaning. A message that had to resonate for the weeks or months it would take for the next message to arrive. One of the upsides to the electronic age, people are writing again, though not always so eloquently. So pretend to take your pen in hand and send a message in a bottle of sorts. I can’t promise to reply to every note but I will hear what you have to say. Whatever you write will be appreciated. I’m not a romantic fool but I can be romantic with the right chemistry and perfect timing. That’s the real trick, the timing and the chemistry, I’m sure you know, is out of our hands.I don’t think there is just one special person. It’s many people, but timing, geography and luck has to conspire for the right collision to occur. Here's the rough sketch; esthetics, culture, humor, art, travel, good food, engaging conversation, genuine connection, these are the things that make life worthwhile for me. Fitness is also important to me. I stay in shape working out 5 days a week. Though that has become tougher with my latest job.I live and work pretty independently. I enjoy my home in the mountains. I travel plenty for work and more for pleasure. I am professional but my artistic side wishes it could take over. Balance is very important to me. You wouldn’t know it from reading this, but I’m usually rather silly. I’m also dependable, supportive and realistic. To me masculinity is about stepping up, being honorable and helping others when they need a hand.I’d very much like to hear your story but I don‘t want to waste your time either. I’m looking for a woman with style, class and intelligence who appreciates a good conversation. Someone still passionate about life and her future. I wish it didn’t matter to me but you must be attractive, slender and fit. You are independent and really enjoy culture and travel. A love of music and a kind heart are very welcome. This is supposed to be about having fun. So let's see what trouble we can get into together.I think that falling in love is just the beginning. The best relationships involve learning from each other. True partnership only comes if there is respect and a generosity on both sides. I look forward to the surprise of you. Spending time talking in an atmosphere that is conducive to quiet conversation.Eye contact, body language, delicate flirtation, this is the stuff of a memorable first date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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