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Patsy, 54

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About Me

Plain and simple, I want to meet someone, fall in love and spend the rest of my life with you.......I just want to be inspired by someone. I have everything I need, just not everything I want. In my past life I was a musician, played the trumpet, guitar and piano since I was 5 yrs. old. Stopped when I was 25....totally regret it now.I am a very sensitive person but have "broad shoulders". I am caring to others feelings, have a deep, articulate voice. I love to laugh and live to love, just waiting, again. I love long slow kisses that last 3 days, touching the small of a woman's back, soft whispers and gentle touches, just because. I am very romantic and open to anything.I am an animal lover of all. I feed the neighborhood dogs daily. I would do anything for my friends and to those I don't really know. It's the "shirt off the back" thing. I have never hated anyone and disliked only a few. I have never met a stranger. I've only had a few regrets in my life. One is never having children. The other few I will tell later. I am old fashioned, caring, kind, and if we meet, you'll see the rest. I can still turn a few heads. I don't need anyone, but I do want someone. Should have kept the one that got away, but that was a while ago. This is getting long winded......I am brutally honest, so what you see is what you get. I don't sweat the small stuff. I take each day as if it were my last. Appreciate what you have and don't be envious of what you don't. The simple pleasures of life are the best....a good meal, a hot shower, a good pet, a nice bed and don't walk by a flower without taking a sniff. A nice pair of good fitting jeans, a cold beer on a Friday night, and good music. I believe that people don't fall in love with what they see, but what they hear and experince. Although there should be a mutual attraction at first, people can grow on each other. I tend to see the inner beauty in all people. It's what's inside that matters most anyway. We are all going to lose our looks some day, then what's left? See what I mean? Just sayin'.Anyhoo, that's only a small part of me. if you would like to get to know me better, just drop me a note and if you've read this far, thanks for looking. Me.............. Some place quiet and relaxing where we could actually talk.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Khan

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    Man. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 25-40

    I am buisness owner in westchester area. Fun, adventurous, ready for someone 2 keep love lots of fun distraction just go with the flow! Been told I'm different. Look for and adventurous person who likes to take risks. Our life won’t be boring.

  • Demarcus

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    Man. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 50-60

    Just looking to meet someone to enjoy life with. Not looking for drama. Just wanting to have fun and enjoy what life has to offer. Not looking to play games or be a player. Life is too short for that. Sense of humor is a must. Chemistry is a must. Typically, one meeting will let you know if it is there or not. If these are the things you are looking for then let's meet where we can enjoy each other’s conversation and see where things go.A few more things about me: I've been told I'm a confident, caring, genuine man who is fun to be around. Always looking at the brighter side of life. Glass is half full, not half empty. Definitely not a writer, as you can see. At my best in person and definitely a people person. Comfortable at a dinner party or completely comfortable one on one by the fire pit with some great conversation. Well, enough rambling.Oh, if you are looking for “Ken”. Keep looking, you won’t find him here. You will find a guy that the more you get to know me, the more attractive I become. I’ve been told I have a great smile (in person, not for the camera). But, I am the guy who will make you laugh, make you feel secure, the one you will want to have my arm around you. You know…that guy… I’m also the guy who will still open the door for you or give you my coat if you are cold. Chivalry isn’t dead, it just got lost on the way somewhere. I wish you all the luck possible in your search. I know there is a great match out there for everyone. A glass of wine in a quiet setting where we can get to know each other better.

  • Gianni

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    Man. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 49-59

    **Sep ***How is it possible to go away from this site and come back and see the exact same people? :) :) :) :) ** Okay, so I have taken out my little mini-novel; this is the "short" version of my profile LOL. :)When I first put my profile out here quite some time ago, I had no idea what I was getting myself into. I wrote that I must be completely bananas and that I hoped that this place would be “a peeling” in one way or another. After a short while, I reached an epiphany. That is, maybe I shouldn’t be looking at what I can “take” from this place. Perhaps I should also be looking at what I can contribute. (Think JFK’s speech but apply it to cyberspace. ) Isn't that just totally bananas? So yes, I decided to make lemons out of lemonade. Where is that “lemon” icon???? I know some of you will think this is cheesy and maybe even ridiculous, but here are some of the things I have been doing lately:- answering every single *** me regardless of my “interest”- writing to people who seem down for the “soul” purpose of lifting them up- being a friend to those who request it and offering whatever wisdom I might have.Do I have tons of free time on my hands? Believe it or not, I don’t. I just believe that the way we behave in cyberspace should parallel the way we behave in the “real world.” Am I the only one out here who believes that "character" is really important in an individual? For what it's worth, here is some free advice that is hopefully worth at least a few cents more than what you paid for it! If you ladies find yourself attracted to a certain guy, I encourage you to guard your heart intitially and look as deeply as you can at that individual. When all the “props” are removed, what is left? Can you really trust that person? Will he really care about you in the good times and not so good times? Will he stick around in the long-run? Character, character, character. It's not what the man drives, but what drives the man. A few more details about me:My Objective for Being Out Here: Although it's nice to log in once in a while to a mailbox full of messages, that's not the reason I'm here. For me, it’s really not about filling up the boat with fish. It’s about making quality connections. Quality is better than quantity any day. And when I say quality, it doesn't mean that you have to be perfect. Nobody is. (Well, I'm just about there, LOL. ) In fact, from my point of view, it doesn't matter where you have been or what you have done, if you are in the process of constantly striving to become a better person, then I'm very impressed.Paying it Forward Online: The Golden Rule. Awesome, isn't it? I think it applies to online communication as well as face to face communication. I would encourage everyone to behave as if the person who wrote to you were sitting right next to you. Maybe that person is not your type. In fact, odds are, that person is not your type. He or she could be too heavy, too thin, too tall, too short, too far away, too close, too old, too young, too, too, too something. And that's okay. But if our kind words and/or behavior online can lift up someone's day, why not pay it forward? Just my 2 cents worth. Philippians 2:3: "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves."Honesty: I will always be honest with you, even with the minor issues. Isn't it better to go through life with the truth, even if it sometimes stings?On Being Myself: I agree with what I once heard someone say, "I would rather be hated for who I am than loved for who I am not."Age: I notice that this site allows you to exclude people from writing to you for certain reasons. One of these is age. All are free to contact me. Marital Status: I have never been married and have no children. Anything wrong with me? Yes, actually I look like a monkey and am addicted to organic bananas. Well, that's only partly true. ** BTW My preference is someone who has never been married before, and who has no children. There are of course, exceptions. :) **Religion: I am a Christian and try to live my life by Christian principles. I am a work in progress. I will always be a work in progress! Hopefully, each day, I can improve my life in some way, and in some way make the world a better place. I don't consider myself to be "religious" if that makes any sense.Health: I am somewhere around the 5'8" area and around average weight. I am also a vegetarian - almost vegan. It is important to me to try to live a healthy lifestyle because I believe that our physical, psychological, and emotional components are very much interconnected. Also, I am a vegetarian for more than health reasons. There is enough cruelty in the world without me adding to it. Of course, this does not mean that you have to be a veggie too. . . .;I never let my schooling interfere with my education." :) I will just say I have a lot of potential "interference." :) However, I realize that there are those with very little education who are "smarter" and wiser than even the most highly educated. I believe that our education never ends. We are all fish in the "school" of life. My Photos: Since this site seems to be sea- :)Answering *** know it sometimes takes courage for people to send *** here. In the past, I have answered all of my *** now, I will do the best the I can. :)A Couple of Questions for You: 1) How old would you be if you didn't know how old you were?2) What is one thing you've done in your life that you are really proud of?"Describe what would you do for a first date. (optional) "I'm not sure what I would do. It's really not about the "doing" or about the "location" but about the person. With the right person, I could have a picnic next to a dumpster.

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