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Jordan, 53
United States, New York, Lewiston

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About Me

I always thought I would never quit trying on here but I'm getting close. I've actually stopped sending e-mails so I have in effect taken a break. I'll just favorite you and if you like what you see about me and favorite me back, I'll write to you. It's about all I can think to do on here right now. For whatever reason I'm not feeling the love towards me on here lately. I don't get it, but it is what it is. I look much better in person, and am a very kind, sincere, and honest person, so if you think you want to take a chance on me, then why not. If I'm not mistaken, I think that's why we're here.I always get to the positive side of things so I"m taking this experience as a necessary thing for me. It has toughened me up which I see as a good thing cause I used to be way too sensitive. It has also made me realize that I'm not guaranteed another shot at love. I also know that if I get that next chance, I will cherish it like no one has ever before.It's really simple. I'm looking for a kind person. Kind ***gentle, considerate, and benevolent. Also, very important! I think it's better to be kind than right, hopefully you do too. The most important thing to me is to value "the relationship". If you are hurting, it doesn't matter why or who caused it. At that point it's just important that I'm there for you and I can make you see that we are in, whatever it is, together. I would also need this in return. Someone I once e-mailed with on here said to me, something very profound. I wish everyone could read this: the idea that chemistry just pops is, to me, ridiculous. I mean, sexual attraction can be there right away, but that has little to do with two individuals liking each other due to character! VERY IMPORTANT! Leaving out an important fact about yourself is lying by omission, which is LYING! I once had the pleasure of having someone I was growing to really like, inform me a few weeks into our budding relationship, that she was into swinging/polyamory. So, hopefully you're not into these types of omissions.If you're serious about finding a real relationship, and if communication is very important to you, we might very well be a good match.Borrowed from someone on this site ***"Love can't be found where it doesn't exist, and can't be lost where it does"...."Truth is, everyone is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for." Bob MarleyKeep forgetting to add this, partly cause I always think it doesn't exist anymore, but sadly, I've run in to a few bigots. If you do not have an equal love for all races, DON'T WASTE MY TIME. WE WERE ALL CREATED EQUALLY!!!! My apologies for the long profile. Been on this site so long. I just figure this is the only chance I get to show who I am to most people. Double points if you get the reference. I can't believe I'm still here. I mean, I can't believe I'm still here. And if you're still reading this, we may actually be soul-mates. You must get me. I'm actually proud of myself for sticking to my guns and not settling for someone that isn't "the one", just to end this loneliness, especially considering that the alternative means that I'm still here. However, I can't believe I'm still here. If you want to get an idea of how long, or compare yourself to how long others have been on here, click on your profile and look at the number in the URL. My number is 9 million something. They are now in the 62 millions. Of course, all those people aren't still here. Don't think I haven't noticed that many of you have quit and come back. One of you even seemed to get younger while you were away. I guess you've been working out. Did I mention, I can't believe I'm still here. What if my soul- Hopefully I have more than one. Please, somebody, get me outta here. I'm going crazy in here. Actually, I'm honestly, a bit depressed lately. Been on my own for a long time now. I'd actually quit here altogether but I think that would depress me even more. I know this honesty might turn some people away but I believe in being honest. Sorry in advance if I don't respond to your e-mail. I know I should but I just can't anymore.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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