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Abijah, 51

United States, New York, Lewiston

Offline, last seen Sat, 17 Oct 2026 17:55:04

About Me

I love being in love – the butterflies, the affection, the warmth, the feeling of your heart smiling and the security of being in a trusting partnership. Yes, I am a huge romantic and I believe there is someone special out there for everyone. I'm here to find that someone special for myself.My life right now is great – I enjoy my job, have a great home, love my family and friends, have many interests and still find time to volunteer when I can. I'm not in a place where I need anyone and I have little patience for people who are not straightforward – why waste time playing games? I don't like drama, I don't like people who lie or cheat. Yet while I am happy now, I know that I would be happier with the right person to enjoy life with. I get along well with fun-loving, outgoing and affectionate ladies who are informed and aware of the world around them. I want to meet someone who shares some of my interests. I like trying new things, I lead a fairly healthy lifestyle and I enjoy relaxing at my home with friends. While of course physical attraction and chemistry are important, I'm truly looking for a life companion and with that in mind, I want a woman who is intelligent, independent, outgoing, genuine and optimistic. I have a great deal of honor and integrity and I am chivalrous, so hopefully my match will appreciate that. I believe respect and honesty are two of the most important things in a relationship. Oh, and you value being on-time or 'fashionably late', but you are not chronically late for things. I am looking for a companion that can offer me as much as I can offer her – a partner who makes me as happy as I make her. If you are seeking the same and think we might hit it off, send me an *** me and I'll take it from there! Other things: I have two Bengal cats. They look like little leopards and are a lot of fun to have around. My cats are an important part of my life, so you need to understand that. A cat person does. If you have a small dog, that's probably alright. I don't really like large dogs, so if you have a large dog, I'm sure we won't be a match. And while children are an important part of anyone's life, I am no longer interested in raising children. So, I won't be bringing any more children into this world, nor am I interested in raising yours. I'm better suited for the woman who either does not have children and doesn't want them, or the woman who has children that are grown and out of the house. I enjoy target shooting, working out, baseball games, movies, grillin' and chillin', get-togethers, home improvement projects (there's almost nothing I can't do!), exploring, lounging in the pool, dining out, shooting pool, golfing, football, cooking and hanging out with friends. I have found that I enjoy the AZ desert and its unique beauty.My tastes in music vary quite a bit; rock, jazz, classical, electronic, chill, pretty much anything. Although... I have to admit that I am not a big fan of country or rap, but I can listen to it for a while. I think it's funny that the *** "First Date (optional)". So, since when is a first date optional? :) Ok, ok, I guess a first date should be something casual and easy going. Meet someplace where we can grab something to drink, snack, and talk. Going to someplace where it is noisy and crowded doesn't seem like a great place to get to know someone. Neither is sitting in a movie theater. First dates are sort of an audition, so let's not try to over reach right out of the box. I'm sure we will come up with something that we will both enjoy.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Indian Indonesian Portuguese Boxing Shooting Sports Outdoor Hobbies
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  • Jordan from Lewiston | Man | 53 years old | Pisces
    Jordan

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    Man. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 50-60

    I always thought I would never quit trying on here but I'm getting close. I've actually stopped sending e-mails so I have in effect taken a break. I'll just favorite you and if you like what you see about me and favorite me back, I'll write to you. It's about all I can think to do on here right now. For whatever reason I'm not feeling the love towards me on here lately. I don't get it, but it is what it is. I look much better in person, and am a very kind, sincere, and honest person, so if you think you want to take a chance on me, then why not. If I'm not mistaken, I think that's why we're here.I always get to the positive side of things so I"m taking this experience as a necessary thing for me. It has toughened me up which I see as a good thing cause I used to be way too sensitive. It has also made me realize that I'm not guaranteed another shot at love. I also know that if I get that next chance, I will cherish it like no one has ever before.It's really simple. I'm looking for a kind person. Kind ***gentle, considerate, and benevolent. Also, very important! I think it's better to be kind than right, hopefully you do too. The most important thing to me is to value "the relationship". If you are hurting, it doesn't matter why or who caused it. At that point it's just important that I'm there for you and I can make you see that we are in, whatever it is, together. I would also need this in return. Someone I once e-mailed with on here said to me, something very profound. I wish everyone could read this: the idea that chemistry just pops is, to me, ridiculous. I mean, sexual attraction can be there right away, but that has little to do with two individuals liking each other due to character! VERY IMPORTANT! Leaving out an important fact about yourself is lying by omission, which is LYING! I once had the pleasure of having someone I was growing to really like, inform me a few weeks into our budding relationship, that she was into swinging/polyamory. So, hopefully you're not into these types of omissions.If you're serious about finding a real relationship, and if communication is very important to you, we might very well be a good match.Borrowed from someone on this site ***"Love can't be found where it doesn't exist, and can't be lost where it does"...."Truth is, everyone is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for." Bob MarleyKeep forgetting to add this, partly cause I always think it doesn't exist anymore, but sadly, I've run in to a few bigots. If you do not have an equal love for all races, DON'T WASTE MY TIME. WE WERE ALL CREATED EQUALLY!!!! My apologies for the long profile. Been on this site so long. I just figure this is the only chance I get to show who I am to most people. Double points if you get the reference. I can't believe I'm still here. I mean, I can't believe I'm still here. And if you're still reading this, we may actually be soul-mates. You must get me. I'm actually proud of myself for sticking to my guns and not settling for someone that isn't "the one", just to end this loneliness, especially considering that the alternative means that I'm still here. However, I can't believe I'm still here. If you want to get an idea of how long, or compare yourself to how long others have been on here, click on your profile and look at the number in the URL. My number is 9 million something. They are now in the 62 millions. Of course, all those people aren't still here. Don't think I haven't noticed that many of you have quit and come back. One of you even seemed to get younger while you were away. I guess you've been working out. Did I mention, I can't believe I'm still here. What if my soul- Hopefully I have more than one. Please, somebody, get me outta here. I'm going crazy in here. Actually, I'm honestly, a bit depressed lately. Been on my own for a long time now. I'd actually quit here altogether but I think that would depress me even more. I know this honesty might turn some people away but I believe in being honest. Sorry in advance if I don't respond to your e-mail. I know I should but I just can't anymore.

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  • Thad from Lewiston | Man | 53 years old | Sagittarius
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    Man. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 50-60

    I am the one you and your family will approve of. I am a single parent of young ones and I am able to be around them and spend time with them, so that means whoever I am with will have my time as well. I own my own business and semiretired. I love the outdoors and being with my family, I also love to hug, kiss and cuddle. We are huggers and you will see maybe. I love all type of music and like going to outdoor music. I am easy going laid back and trustworthy sometimes to trusting. I am a free thinker and open minded. I am not jealous until you give me a reason to be, then I can be. I am a hopeless romantic and will surprise you with things you wouldn't believe. I am also the type that if things don't work I will always be friendly. Get with me and lets see what happens. PS I have young children and was hurt pretty bad by the ex so I'm not saying I won't ever get serious again it just might take some time to relax again. My children is my world and wouldn't mind finding someone who will take it easy and spend the time to get to know us. Thanks for reading this. Everyone is different so it depends on what kind of person you are as to what kind of date it would be. The most common is dinner and a movie which is okay nothing wrong with it, but I like to go to the park or the river and have a picnic or go to the winery, maybe the zoo. Who knows we will just have to wait and see what happens when we meet.

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  • Jdfitz5Iw from Lewiston | Man | 65 years old | Aries
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    Man. 65 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 42-60

    Hi! My name is Jdfitz5Iw. I am divorced catholic caucasian man with kids from Lewiston, New York, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

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