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Abijah, 51

United States, New York, Lewiston

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About Me

I love being in love – the butterflies, the affection, the warmth, the feeling of your heart smiling and the security of being in a trusting partnership. Yes, I am a huge romantic and I believe there is someone special out there for everyone. I'm here to find that someone special for myself.My life right now is great – I enjoy my job, have a great home, love my family and friends, have many interests and still find time to volunteer when I can. I'm not in a place where I need anyone and I have little patience for people who are not straightforward – why waste time playing games? I don't like drama, I don't like people who lie or cheat. Yet while I am happy now, I know that I would be happier with the right person to enjoy life with. I get along well with fun-loving, outgoing and affectionate ladies who are informed and aware of the world around them. I want to meet someone who shares some of my interests. I like trying new things, I lead a fairly healthy lifestyle and I enjoy relaxing at my home with friends. While of course physical attraction and chemistry are important, I'm truly looking for a life companion and with that in mind, I want a woman who is intelligent, independent, outgoing, genuine and optimistic. I have a great deal of honor and integrity and I am chivalrous, so hopefully my match will appreciate that. I believe respect and honesty are two of the most important things in a relationship. Oh, and you value being on-time or 'fashionably late', but you are not chronically late for things. I am looking for a companion that can offer me as much as I can offer her – a partner who makes me as happy as I make her. If you are seeking the same and think we might hit it off, send me an *** me and I'll take it from there! Other things: I have two Bengal cats. They look like little leopards and are a lot of fun to have around. My cats are an important part of my life, so you need to understand that. A cat person does. If you have a small dog, that's probably alright. I don't really like large dogs, so if you have a large dog, I'm sure we won't be a match. And while children are an important part of anyone's life, I am no longer interested in raising children. So, I won't be bringing any more children into this world, nor am I interested in raising yours. I'm better suited for the woman who either does not have children and doesn't want them, or the woman who has children that are grown and out of the house. I enjoy target shooting, working out, baseball games, movies, grillin' and chillin', get-togethers, home improvement projects (there's almost nothing I can't do!), exploring, lounging in the pool, dining out, shooting pool, golfing, football, cooking and hanging out with friends. I have found that I enjoy the AZ desert and its unique beauty.My tastes in music vary quite a bit; rock, jazz, classical, electronic, chill, pretty much anything. Although... I have to admit that I am not a big fan of country or rap, but I can listen to it for a while. I think it's funny that the *** "First Date (optional)". So, since when is a first date optional? :) Ok, ok, I guess a first date should be something casual and easy going. Meet someplace where we can grab something to drink, snack, and talk. Going to someplace where it is noisy and crowded doesn't seem like a great place to get to know someone. Neither is sitting in a movie theater. First dates are sort of an audition, so let's not try to over reach right out of the box. I'm sure we will come up with something that we will both enjoy.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Indian Indonesian Portuguese Boxing Shooting Sports Outdoor Hobbies
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