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Shallum, 53
United States, New York, Islip

Offline, last seen Wed, 18 Feb 2026 01:38:14

About Me

LONG VERSION: To start with my age is 58 and not 53, a stat I tried to correct after realizing the mistake but it couldn't be changed. If the 5 year disparity hasn't sent you scurrying and you're still reading... I'm gainfully employed, own a car and a home, often get told I look (and definitely act) younger than my age, am in good but not hard- I'm hoping to connect with a confident, intelligent, attractive, light-hearted woman with a great sense of humour who is also sensual, loves to kiss, has an adventurous spirit, and yearns for a liked-minded partner-in-crime not to complete her, but to complement her already rich life. By the way, if you read that last sentence and are wondering whether my quest involves... ummm... a desire to fish in the shallow waters rather than explore the deeper oceans? Definitely not. Beauty and physical chemistry may be the first things to attract my attention, but it's qualities like sincerity, integrity, generosity, and compassion that secure it. Point being: Valuing meaningful core values and having a healthy libido are not necessarily mutually exclusive concepts. Hopefully you embrace a similar philosophy. Figuratively and literally. :)SHORT VERSION:A bright, genuine, sensual, easygoing woman who loves to laugh and is comfortable in her own skin. Hopefully next to mine too when the time is right.Feel free to say hi if I've piqued your curiosity.P.S. Since the question comes up occasionally, my pics were all taken within the past year. Seuss aficionados please hold your applause. Everyone else...) Real answer: Anything that gives us an opportunity to explore eye contact, face-to-face communication, and mutual attraction. What and where will depend on how much we've communicated before meeting.Little time = a short and sweet first rendezvous maybe over a coffee or drink.More time chatting before might warrant a longer rendezvous.We'll figure it out together. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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