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Howell, 53
United States, New York, Islip

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About Me

Hello PersonThank you for taking the time to read my post. I hope that what you see & interpret rings a positive cord with you.…that's a reasonable test of one’s character, especially given that we’re brutally honest with each other. It would be that I’m a gentleman with a wild side. Caring & compassionate. Very much a social animal that enjoys people & I have a curious mind. They would also say that that I march to beat of a different drummer-yet very mainstream in the way that I fit into society.After a 27 yr marriage I’m on the market. I’m proud to say that my ex & I lived a very principled life together & accomplished many good things that I would do again. My version of the good life with a life partner is; a committed monogamous relationship that is mutually supportive, accepting, genuinely care for the other person, loving, playful, serious, planning our future, ect. All the emotions that make for a solid relationship.Religion: believer of all and follower of none. Spiritual.Politics: left of center…most of the time.Manners: chew with my mouth closed, elbows off the table (no hunching over one’s meal), use my silverware like they should be—no farm implements here. I tuck my shirts in, & say please and thank you.Family: this is where I really shine. I do love being a family man & a parent. It’s so rewarding to do these things as a couple. To me, to know that you’re a team for a common goal is most nourishing. The couple comes first; that’s the foundation. The focus is on the kids but mom & dad have to be a working unit to raise a family. I’m not so sure how this will play out as my kids are leaving….but you get the idea.Bad habits: I have ***A petite cigar & a brandy after dinner (as a considerate chap; I’ll be sure to be downwind of you***I chew cigars (don’t worry, my teeth & gums are well intact and presentable***Ask meIf this profile resonates with you pls do give me a shout.PS Cooking for me is cathartic & also like creating art that you can eat. Nourishing on many fronts. Happy to choose the venue, but we'll decide together.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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