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Vester, 52
United States, New York, Inwood

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About Me

I can be outgoing or reserved, respected in my field, but love playing jacks (you know the old game with little metal things and a rubber ball) in the lunch room. I find humor in anything and laugh at my own idiocy all the time. Sports (it is all about the tailgating) to scuba diving are good with me. Exploring new out of the way places whether close to home or far away is my favorite. ha Ive to admit though that the days of sleeping on the ground under a cloth roof may be past me. Dang,am I getting soft? I enjoy dress up for dinner and a show but prefer a picnic basket, bottle of wine and an outdoor concert or theater in the park. A quiet night at home in sweats on the couch is always good especially after a day working on house projects or in the yard. I enjoy my workshop and tools. Believing that there is nothing I cannot fix, or break in a less destructive manner, has produced some interesting Saturday afternoons (nights?); thankfully more successes than failures. Hmm.. the little header thing says “goals and prespiration” so since I am not a soccer fan but do like hockey I guess I prefer action and achievement over running around. Most of my life has not followed a plan; more making the most of the opportunities presented,working hard, and treating people fairly has gotten me to where I am. I enjoy the company of energetic people that have a variety of interests, (introduce me to something new?) and are happy with life. Now,to steal from Pink Floyd, is there anybody out there?Olny 55% of pepole can raed tihs. I cdn'uolt blveiee taht I cluod aulaclty uesdnatnrd waht I was rdanieg. The pheonmneal pweor of the hmuan mnid, aoccdrnig to a rseearch at Cmabrigde Uinervtisy, it dseno't mtaetr in waht oerdr the ltteres in a wrod are, the olny iproamtnt tihng is taht the frsit and lsat ltteer be in the rghit pclae. The rset can be a taotl mses and you can sitll raed it whotuit a pboerlm. Tihs is bcuseae the huamn mnid deos not raed ervey lteter by istlef, but the wrod as a wlohe. Azanmig huh? Yaeh and I was awlyas tghuat slpeling was ipmorantt! First date? Hell I don't know. Generally a first date should not include a lot of distractions or solitary staring. Happy hour for a drink with the option of dinner is better than a movie. An art walk or gallery is better than a play. On outdoor concert (Thursday night live?) is better than a sit down concert. A few rounds of 8-ball or bowling over opera (actually almost anything over opera).

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Reggae Dance American Greek Turkish American Football Tennis
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