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Abidah, 54
United States, New York, Holbrook

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About Me

Well, back again after a year and a half. Gonna give it another try and see what happens, so sit back, grab your favorite beverage and relax. I'm 53, widowed for almost 3 years and have been married 3 times. 5'6" and plan on growing some more as soon as I reach puberty. I guess I can be considered an average to just a" bit more" build depending on your particular standards. My sense of humor might be considered a bit warped, love to laugh and make others laugh. :-). Spent 10 years in the Army where I got my nsg. license. Went to Desert Storm and got sand in my butt. Married three times and my last wife passed away almost three years ago. I have 3 grown children, one living with me and a grandson. One chihuahua, 2 dachshunds, great Pyrenees, lab mutt (all rescues) some goats and soon some chickens. Just a warning, the small dogs sleep in the bed. I have a greenhouse that I like to grow bonsai and other various stuff. Pretty large garden this year. :-). Kinda shy when i first meet someone, but that will go away soon enough. I have a little issue with something called hsv. Mostly just an occasional skin rash and generally not an issue, but drug companies have to make their money, so it has become a rather big stigma for them. Since about 20%-25% are carrying it, you're probably safer with someone that knows, than someone that has it and doesn't know, or won't tell ya. :-) I would probably be a bit more inclined to make contact first except for this little issue, so if ya see anything here that interests you, give me a hollerSo, if you're still reading, Hi. I would like to take our time, and get to know each other, but ultimately looking for a permanent relationship. Looking for someone that is rather laid back and easy going. Between, oh 40ish to mid 50ish? Type A personalities just wouldn't work. I guess it's gonna be a given that you're gonna have to like animals. lol. Ultimately, I would like to find one person that I can wake up with in the morning, go to sleep with at night, we can smile at each other and I will know that it is me that can make you smile like that. I'm sure I will add more as I think of it, but I guess this is a start. I'll stick a picture in here, but as soon as I can find someone to take a decent one or two, hopefully you will be a bit better impressed. :-) If you're still here reading, we just had it. haha. Second one I want to know about you. I was wondering....is there anyone that doesn't like "long walks on the beach?" lol

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Blues Country American Indian Middle Eastern Drama Martial Arts Music Thriller War Boxing
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