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Sanford, 53
United States, New York, Glen Cove

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About Me

This is the story of me. My story??? I was born a poor black child....If you get this line and know the movie, you score points!Have you ever seen a couple who was so into each other, so happy together, so glad to be in each others' company, and wished that you could be one of those couples that people envied for their closeness and happiness? That is what I wish for.It's hard to capture who I am since like many I have many likes and dislikes that sound cliche and repeated on here a million times. So hopefully you will be intrigued enough to say hello and learn about me through your own eyes and ears. Some things about me: passionate about music, singing, playing and DANCING! Also LOVE the outdoors and being active. I don't act my age physically so if you're a homebody or couch potato, probably not a good match.As for the lady I want to spoil, the first and most important feature is her face. Have come to realize that much can be learned about a person from their face, their smile, their mannerisms. Passion and passionate kissing are high on my list for the lady I seek.A beautiful woman is one who feels comfortable with herself. One thing I can’t see enough of on a woman is a smile. So one of my goals in life is to make my partner smile and laugh as much as possible. Sometimes at me, sometimes with me. I'm the one who will spoil your lipstick, not your mascara.Turn offs are: hair covering a beautiful face, excessive tattoos, multiple body piercings(I have none), and no sense of humor.Have a personal goal to get in shape and attain my goal weight by summer. Someone posted this on *** in shape means you look good in clothes. Being fit means you look good without clothes. For me, I am in between the two.Have chatted with a few women on here and have found that they have encountered a lot of creeps who have one thing in mind. While I can't change the over-testosterone masses, I can only speak for myself and hopefully the other guys who actually have class and integrity. Neither of which can be bought or are a result of having large sums of cash. I'm here to meet that special someone who I can't wait to see at the end of the day, can't wait to fall asleep with, can't wait to wake up to and don't want to leave at the beginning of the day.I respond to all those who contact me and hope to get the same courtesy. Driving is not an issue for me. Distance is a temporary obstacle when it comes to finding THE one. How far would you go for your soul mate?Update: intend to relocate to wherever life takes me...For those who have no pic, don't expect a reply.Best of luck in your search!Great quotes I believe in... Find a guy who calls you beautiful *** hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who wants to protect you and feels protective of you, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep… wait for the man who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you’re just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have you…. The one who turns to his friends and says, " that’s her! ""Real men never stop trying to show a girl how much she means to him, even after he's got her.""You can easily judge a man by how he treats those who can do nothing for him"."If a man expects his woman to be an angel in his life, then he should first create a heaven for her." First date should always be somewhere public where conversation can be had with least amount of noise and nothing more than coffee/drink for no more than an hour unless it's going so well that the time flies! If coffee/drink goes well, move on to a walk or light dinner. Hopefully end with a respectful hug or kiss on the hand or cheek.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Electro Hardcore Jazz Rap Watching TV British Greek Adult Western Volleyball
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  • Trafford from Glen Cove | Man | 55 years old | Taurus
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    Man. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 52-62

    Ten things I know about you1. you're curious so you clicked me2. we're not exactly the same age, and you wonder if it will make much of a difference3. you miss having someone special in your life but wonder if it will ever happen again3. you've had a few unsuccessful relationships and question if there is a man out there for you5. you never noticed that i used the number 3 twice6. you went back to look7. you're smiling8. you're thinking that you might want to know more about me but you'll only send a quick answer in case I'm a bot and not a realman9. you're wondering if you'll ever hear from me10. you start to think how nice it would be to meet someone who is normal and shares many of your same valuesHi. I'm back after a little "vacation" from here. I'm pretty easy going for the most part. I have a great sense of humor and can take a joke. I have my moments but I've never met somebody who didn't. I have 3 children (one lives with me) and 4 grandchildren. I have a good job. Some people say I work hard but I don't think that I do. I'm not a mass murderer though I've killed my share of flies and mosquitoes. (You should be safe with me) I know that I haven't touched all the bases on this profile.If you want to know more, just ask.

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  • Rory from Glen Cove | Man | 54 years old | Gemini
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    Man. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 51-61

    Someone I can spend the rest of my life with. Out to dinner and a movie.

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  • Mauricio from Glen Cove | Man | 54 years old | Sagittarius
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    Man. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 51-61

    I enjoy hiking and backpacking, road trips, new movies accompanied by huge buckets of decadently buttered popcorn, going to concerts by bigshot entertainers (mostly any variety of rock, but I'm open to many musical genres), live comedy and even the occasional theater experience. I'm also down for cozying up in front of the TV to watch shows we both enjoy. I'm witty with a bit of an off-kilter sense of humor, I'm halfway intelligent, fun and easy-going, and I'm a little bit on the quirky side. I am most definitely a glass-half-full kind of guy -- and why not? I travel and hike and take pretty pictures for a living, for cryin' out loud! One of the reasons I'm on this site is because I do and see many interesting things in the course of doing what I do for both work and fun, and so many times I catch myself wishing I had someone special in my life to share these moments with. I have owned my own business for over 20 years, and while it hasn't made me rich, it's something I really enjoy – which is, come to think of it, a type of wealth all its own.I'm not a suit-and-tie kind of guy. Let's just say I'm casual. I can dress up when needed, so don't worry about me embarrassing you at the company Christmas party. (Not due to my attire anyways -- you might want to hide the lamp shades.)If you're my S.O., I'll do just about anything for you. I'm not a crazy jealous type, preferring *** start from a position of trust. Keeping your meetville profile active and public six months into our relationship might have me second-guessing that strategy, but unless I have any reason not to, I much prefer to trust that special someone in my life. I love Broncos football and never miss watching a game. If you're a Raiders fan, sorry I used so many big words. Next time I'll be sure to type slower so you can keep up.I don't drink, but that's only because I never acquired a taste for alcohol. (Believe me, in my younger days, I tried!) My non-drinking has no bearing on whether or not you enjoy knocking back a few. After a few drinks in you, I'm much better looking. Funnier, too!I'm a creative person who loves to write and photograph, the latter of which I do for a living. I'd love to spend my time with someone with similar traits. That would be a dream come true. At the very least, I need to be with someone who understands that a creative/artistic person needs to let that side shine through on a regular basis. It is the essence of who I am.What am I looking for in a woman? Intelligence is very appealing to me. I want to be around someone who I can learn from. I'd like to have interesting conversations about subjects that inspire or provoke us. I'd love to meet someone with a great sense of humor, and perhaps a bit of a mischievous side. I like being kept on my toes! Also, as I mentioned above, if you're someone with creative tendencies, in whatever medium, that's very attractive to me. I want to be inspired by the woman in my life, and that can come in many forms, from her creativity, her compassion for others, her wit and wisdom...I also want to have someone in my life with whom I have things in common, from movies and music to the ways we see the world in general.At this stage of life I also think men and women should have a network of friends and family that can be folded into a relationship, kind of a "yours, mine and ours" type of thing. Eventually I want to meet and become friends with your friends and family, and I want you to do the same with mine. But I also think it's important for both parties in a relationship to be able to do things with friends beyond the confines of couple-dom. Do you occasionally go for drinks after work with the girls, or a movie or concert with a longtime friend? No problem! As long as you don't do those types of things to the exclusion or detriment of our relationship, I'm all for you having a life beyond "us." I need that, too. I'm confident enough in my ability to make you happy that the time we spend together will be your favorite time, and the time you want the most of.I'm not a cheater. Never have been, never will be. I'm a naturally gregarious person who loves to talk to people of all stripes. I need someone who doesn't think that the mere act of me being nice to a waitress means I'll be meeting her in the backseat of my car behind the restaurant when her shift is done. (That back seat is reserved for you! See? Who says romance is dead?) Naturally, I expect the same from you.I also like signs of affection whether we're out and about or just sitting around the house watching a movie. The slightest gesture, a hand on my knee, a glance, resting your head on my lap, whatever -- those things mean a lot to me. You can expect the same in return.So, are you that happy, healthy, confident, playful spirit I'm waiting for? Drop me a note, let's find out! Because, really, if you've read all the way down to this part of my profile, you've already invested so much time that it would be a waste for you not to contact me. For a first date I'd keep it simple and casual, maybe lunch at a local hangout. But depending on whether or not there's any spark, I'd be completely open to extending it well into the night, maybe catch a flick, go for a walk in Garden of the Gods, whatever my date was comfortable doing. If we click, the sky's the limit!

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