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Dirk, 51
United States, New York, Garden City

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About Me

Hi. I am looking for a sweet, honest, intelligent, fit, attractive girl with values and character. Is that you???My hobbies include: music, cooking, landscaping and exercise. I am a Computer Consultant and musician. I like to eat healthy and stay in shape. Words that describe me: Mensch, sincere, sensitive, honest, passionate, responsible, conscientious, spiritual, go-getter. I make a lot of mistakes, but try my best to make the situation better. So far, no major mistakes to report.Family is very important to me. I look a bit younger than my age.I would rather be happy than be "right". I am a peaceful person and do as much as possible to avoid escalating or confrontation. At the same time, I am assertive when I need to be. I would rather "agree to disagree" and shake hands than hold a grudge or be angry.People tell me that I usually look like I just got out of the shower. I do not spend excessive time grooming myself ... I just like being clean and neat.I like many styles of music. As a part-time sub for wedding bands, I am expected to play everything - Sinatra, Big Band, Lady Gaga, classic rock, country, Earth Wind & Fire, jazz, and pop. It is fun and challenging to play so many genres in one performance. I have a pretty solid groove (for a white guy that only plays part-time).I like to dance.I do not currently own a dog, but my favorite show is Dog Whisperer. Dog psychology is obviously different from human psychology, but being "calm and assertive" and also "projecting positive energy" works in both worlds. Am I onto something here? Shhh!Deer feel safe in my yard. They actually lay down! A nice assortment of birds also visit daily.I do not have a sense of humor. Is that funny? : )What makes me unique?.. I try harder!My goal is to meet a great girl on Plenty of Fish. Relaxing atmosphere.

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  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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