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JabariOnline
Man. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: woman. In age: 50-60
I have this Theory about Divorce....After years of being in the Hospitality Industry and watching people behave in Public and especially (a little bit) older people, I have made some fairly decent observations. I think.I can't tell you how many men I have served who have told me about their pending divorce and out of habit I always ask the same question; "As head of your family, are you sure you have done everything to put your marriage back together?" I *** a "yes" from these men and my most favorite response is; "I am ashamed to tell you this but my wide and I have not had sex in over 2 years!" In some case I go further and ask a few more questions such as; "is your wife going through menopause or pre-menopause?" or "have you or your wife lost there Mom and Dad in the last couple of years?" Each one of these questions denotes a critical cause and effect psychological condition that could be responsible for the marital issues at hand....and can be handily treated and resolved in most cases. These are just 2 common things people our age go through during a marriage if we are in our 40's and on.There is a problem that has creeped into the divorce cycle that is commonly mis- Unfortunately over the counter supplements are not FDA approved and therefore have an unknown factor with behavior modification.Now the question that most men will never answer is the following; "has your wife gained any weight or had any medical conditions?" Believe it or not most men have an extreme sense of loyalty to a soon to be ex-spouse, where these questions would be, in their mind disrespectful if discussed with a stranger or even a close friend. Only in therapy is is found out that a spouse has grown to where they feel un-attracted to their partner especially if they have gained weight or a medical condition has changed their appearance.Now for the kicker. If you are a man and you read through the profiles on meetville, probably over 75% have some mention of "honesty" or a reference to infidelity somewhere in the profile. It does not take a psychology degree to realize that these women have felt betrayed in their marriage and was the reason for their divorce. They also feel this will be the main priority on the next go round. It is a shame to say this, but infidelity is never the reason for the divorce as experts agree that that is a symptom of a divorce...in other words, it is the final straw that brings a marriage to a conclusion. Unfortunately, most people never come to terms for the failure of their divorce and often repeat that behavior as 2nd marriage end in failure 75% of the time.So how prevalent is mental disease or psychological and personalty disorders untreated and divorce? I think it is very significant...it deals with this very subject very well!And ladies, while you all are thinking that the men you meet on this forum are all "Players" perhaps that may be correct based on the fact that the men that date in 40's and 50's are in no rush towards marriage where the statistics are not favorable and they most certainly do not want to rush into a situation where they are telling their Bartender; "do you know how long it is been since I have sex with my 2nd wife?" Friendship is important! I am seeking the rare person who I would call a "kindered spirit..you know by just looking at their eyes, an old soul if you will...going to live music venues and things of interest such as Martini's at Fernbank.
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FarranOnline
Man. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: woman. In age: 49-59
one awesome woman to share the goodness that life has to offer..........imagine the possibilitiesa woman with giddy up and a zest for life....a bit of adventure.....great energyHAPPY.......WHAT A GREAT LIFEpositive cheerfulkarmaactiveemotionally fitfinancially fitgreat friendsconnected familyget's what is really important in lifeconfidentindependentbeing naughty in a very good waymasqueradeYOUNG AT HEART, PLAYFULthere is more ...much morebeing the best i can.......PREFER ... a active a woman who takes care of herself, body, mind and soul..NÃ..TODOS TEREMOS O MESMO DESTINO,INDEPENDENTEMENTE DA CONDIÇÃyoung at heart .....i just try to make the best of it all.....take your ups..... accept your lows INSPIRE and be INSPIREDlife is an adventure...create it...embrace it....share the love...we are blessed...live in the moment!!g r a t i t u d e
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JustinOnline
Man. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: woman. In age: 49-59
I have been lucky to have enjoyed life to the fullest and have great family,friends & health.I believe in respect & honesty and i treat people as i would want to be treated.(no i'm not a masochist :))Single by choice and having fun and no that doesn't mean i am sleeping with all the women i can:) and you never really find love when looking anyway, it finds you.Maybe find a soul mate at your next publix visit:) .IF you are full of yourself or consider yourself better then others,please read no further.If you don't take yourself or this site too serious and like meeting friends and having fun, please read on.I`I love boating, deep sea fishing, swimming, body surfing and the beach mostly and also enjoy travel,shooting pool, poker, bar-b-q`s and going out with my friends. Would say i'm honest,real,and easy to talk to . love the ocean and walk down to the beach most days and whether it`s rough or dead calm it always gives me a special feeling of tranquility.Sunsets and moon rises are great there too. My friends and family are very important to me.Most of my friends are younger then i but they still can't keep up.I enjoy dancing(some things change with age),not great at it but it feels good :) and most types of music with favorites being reggae, classic rock and top 40. I like meeting people as friends and if anything comes from it fine, if not you can never have too many friends.I`m very honest(sometimes to a fault), easy going, can laugh at myself and one of the happiest individuals i know.I never sweat the small stuff and almost always have a smile.I never really look for love as i have always found it finds you when you least expect it. Honestly i am not on here on a mission but if i found a friend first relationship where the first step is to just enjoy each others company,that would be great. I`ve always been in long relationships,was married once and have no children, although i do love children and get along with them extremely well.I guess it's because i act like a big kid.:)I`m currently enjoying my single time, traveling often and having my life be drama free. I can be a little shy at first(some friends would laugh at that) but it certainly does nott last and once comfortable can be very outgoing.I am extremely loyal and always do what i say i will do.I ALWAYS have fun. I never try to be someone i'm not. I wish all the best of luck in their search for whatever it is they are looking for. I do not care for people who are liars,phonies,conceited or rude. I like first dates to be casual like a lunch date or a meeting as friends for a drink.I think some people are more themselves without date pressure and it`s easier to truely get to know each other.