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About Me

I am not a person to stand outside the fire. I am willing to jump in and risk being burned. Life is not what happens to you...it is what you make happen. A person is judged to be wealthy not by what he takes with him when he dies but by what he leaves behind. Love can not be found where you look. It does not hide where it can not be found. Love takes many forms but when you find it you must fight hard to keep it and learn from your tumbles. Pick fight over flight every time and it will happen. I enjoy many activities. I like to stay busy whether it is learning a new sport like snowboarding or working on some long forgotten project around the house. My biggest passion these days is photography. I can give you the web address so see some of my work should it be of interest to you. Always looking for someone or something to take pictures of. I also enjoy renovating my house and traveling. I can do these alone but it would be even better to enjoy them with someone and create life long memories. I have traveled all over the world and still have many places to explore. No one is like me and no one is like you. The pleasure of meeting someone not like yourself is finding new and exciting things to explore that they bring into your life. The 3 men I admire most are my father for his integrity and tireless strength of character, my brother for the fact he is completely opposite to me and always presents a balanced perspective on life, and my 12 year old son for his ability to see everyone as an equal and treat everyone he meets as a friend. Say hi. Who knows what may come of it!IMPORTANT BULLETIN: UNCOOL TO POST PICS WITH YOUR KIDS ON THIS SITE WHERE POTENTIAL PREDATORS MAY LURK. KIDS SHOULD NOT BE USED AS SALES TOOLS TO MARKET YOURSELF. PLEASE PETITION meetville TO CHANGE THEIR POLICY ON POSTINGS WITH CHILDREN TO AT LEAST MASK OUT THEIR FACES IF POSTED. FOR WIDER COVERAGE OF THIS MESSAGE, PLEASE COPY & PASTE INTO YOUR OWN PROFILE...THANKS.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Wainamoinen

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    Man. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 48-58

    I like the outdoors - things like short hikes in the mountains, smaller concert venues, walks, cooking out. I am in good shape; yet don't spend every evening in the gym. I like hiking and walking every day if I can but at least as often as possible. I enjoy cooking and would love to have someone who would like to give it a try together. I would try to sum up who I am looking for this way - someone who is practical, family oriented, someone who seeks a partner in life, likes to work together toward goals, be it vacations, that mountain retreat, or painting the living room, (that last one ought to real'm in:)A few things I like: the Mountains and the beach - who doesn't? Homemade apple butter, Blue skies and low humidity! What are the qualities of a good relationship? Here is some brainstorming on that one: There should be mutual attraction in a relationship - something that makes you anticipate, makes you happy, makes you content, makes you at peace, when you see each other. Honesty, integrity and respect, are a must. A sense of humor and conversation help a relationship immensely. I have three boys. Two are grown, number three will be all too soon, so more free time on my hands these days. They are all really good kids, don't know where we went right in that regard! If any of this sounds match worthy by all means e-mail me! After a meet and get acquainted, I would be game for most anything from dinner, lunch, movie, Alaskan cruise :)

  • Butch

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    Man. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 48-58

    Happy guy - who has learned many lessons so far.. It feels like chapter 3 of my life...Well.. I took a break from this site for a while but I thought I would try again. Why not.I happen to like it here - although I do like going back east to see the family. I also havea son here who is in college - time flies.I have always been a person who is artistic, creative and open. I love music.. as many peopledo - but for me its more about writing, playing guitar, recording and producing. I also like experimentmake art here and there. not against chcking out concerts or hitting an open mic or local live music.Nature is important to me. I love the ocean.. Alone or with someone... I like to communicate - have discussions on manysubjects.. not a very political person.. and not having grown up here.I love to cook.. it relaxes me - i like to go out as well.. but it has to be a good spot..rainy days.. lets check out a museum, a gallery, a movie, a quiet cafe.... and share some eye contact, good conversation and a laugh .... Not much of a partier, or a group person.. more one on one..dont smoke, one beer now and then.Seeking someone - low drama... high creativity and positive.. Some with decent self-esteem..I love a woman with her own style.. someone who is confident but not brash... not looking for amother, a shrink or a sister..lol. just a lover and a friend... go for a drink, see if there is any chemistry.

  • Atticus

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    Man. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 49-59

    I like to go out to dinner often, Enjoy concerts, the Beach ,Movies. I am a secure NO DRAMA GUY. WANT TO HAVE FUN, ROMANCE, AND ENJOY THE NEXT PHASE OF MY LIFE!!! Much more i can say about myself(have lived a very Full life.) but this is not the place. My pics are terrible all I have for now ,but it gives u an idea of what my face looks like. I love Classic Rock, Motown ,some country. Anyway like I said looking for FUN NO PRESSURE GOOD TIMES. If it leads to something deeper, Im okay with that to. I am looking forA lady that enjoys life. Someone who can make me laugh as well as challenge me intellectually. Someone that is secure in who they are. YADA YADA YADA Someone who can make me SMILE and LAUGH!!!

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