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Whitaker, 53
United States, New York, Fishkill

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About Me

I LIVE A GREAT LIFE, ALTHOUGH I HAVE A MISSING LINK, I am also non conventional: Please read the deal breakers before reading the profile.I AM LOOKING FOR AN UPBEAT WOMAN. I'm an excellent communicator and believe that communication is what builds trust and understanding in a relationship( That means I LISTEN well) Im an upbeat gentleman that likes quality time. I am very social and get along well with others. I enjoy my work and have a good work ethic. My hard look is a callus exterior build from years of trial and error, beneth it is a gentle boy (man). I enjoy going out on the boat, the beaches, a motor cycle ride and just laugh with a fun woman that is secure and looking to compliment us both. I am by no means a biker, its just a toy to me. I am open minded and love anything to do with the water and boating. I am a licensed captain with the U.S.C.G. and love the summer. Wave runners that i love to play with in the ocean. I have a bit of a edge to me, Love to stay home and entertain, yes i cook & i even wear an apron when i cook, Watch quality TV while the fireplace is blaring, cuddle and relax. Sit in the hot tub in the winter and use the pool in the summer. I have no drama in my life now , i am thankful for that, Also i don't want any drama, Just so you know i would not date a woman that smokes or uses any drugs, Im naturally high on life . I enjoy cooking and making a meal with a glass of wine. You will never see me in front of a TV screaming at it with a can of beer in my hand. I have much bigger fish to fry. I am a perfect gentleman with an edge to me , that means I'm not boring. I own my own home. I share it with my 2 little dogs & cat i keep my home clean and yes i have a car and a good job. I love doing this & sharing the knowledge with them. Winters are nice but i prefer the warm climate. Winters are when i ride my quad and enjoy the holidays( Thanksgiving & Christmas) So ladies, if you like what you read and have similar interests say hello to me and maybe we will meet and connect. I am not in a rush to jump into anything but my eyes are open wide. I often wonder if there is a combination of Pretty and normal( Thats what chemistry means) I usually will find a pretty nut or a normal homely woman. Are there any pretty normal ones out there. I do need chemistry with a woman as you would a man. Ladies,please excuse the sunglasses, i have very sensitive eyes in the summer. Does that scare you, LOLIF YOU ARE ONE OF THESE ITS A DEAL BREAKERS: Gold diggers, smoker,angry person, liars & cheater, drunk & druggies, drama queens,pretentious, Cocaine user,pot smoker, GO AWAY! I don't want to hear about your ex, your son that was arrested, your daughter that is 16 and pregnant and its not the kids fault. It only means you are WHACKED! This is after speaking on the phone.I am looking for a fun woman who is Confident with herself, if this is you let's talk.Having fun, looking to laugh and be my self. A nice boat ride out to Fire Island would be nice or to just take a bike ride in the Fall or spring. A dinner date or even to cook at my house. Please understand that i would NOT date a smoker or someone who uses any drugs. I am a very positive person and im proud to say i have NO DRAMA in my life.At some point we all carry drama however im lucky not to have any now. In turn i am not looking for any(DRAMA) rather id like to meet a emotional health person that loves to laugh ,have fun and compliment my life and share in it with me. Someone who has something to bring to the table as i do. I am not a follower more a leader. Well ladies if this interests you id like to hear back from you .

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Indonesian Japanese Korean Comedy Fantasy Music
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