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Elayne, 49

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About Me

I am a very kind, fun, loving, and outgoing girl. I have a job I love so my days go by well, and very fast. I love a good laugh. I seek it . Finding humor and finding positive in everything is the way I am most of the time, even while working a long day. You can have both you know. I am already happy, so I will never be looking at you to do that for me. It comes from me first. Enjoying my life with a man would be just a bonus to add to a very good life. I enjoy spending time with people and helping others. I like to give back. My life is good so I wish and want the same for others. I have alot of compassion and am not quick to judge anyone. That is definitely something I would want in my partner as well. I want a man in my life to love, and have fun with......I like to try new things, maybe going for a drive somewhere different and even just a night home. I love dinner at home and snuggling up to a good movie.. I love music and once in awhile a little slow dance. I would like to meet someone interested in a eventual long term relationship. Honesty is very big to me.. It really is important for me to have someone who will have respect for me when I am with them, just as much as when I am not. I think you know what I mean. If you are online looking for just a date for the night, then I am not the one that you are looking for. Spending time together is so important, but also just as important to have time to yourself, time with friends. I have awesome children that would love to see there mom going out with a nice man that makes her happy and treats her like she deserves . I love kids and someone with children of there own is just a plus to me. Finding the right person is so hard and I never take that person for granted as it would be so AMAZING to have....When I care for someone , I show it, and I tell them because its important to. It's just the way I am built, and because I would want that from u as well. I guess I wouldn 't call it a first day yet. The first time I meet someone, I really rather go to a diner rather out somewhere the first time. We have to see if there is that spark, that feeling we are supposed to have first. We have to see if we are compatable. I would rather sit across from you, and look straight into your eyes first, and talk to you, and listen to you, and hopefully move alittle closer if we feel that connection. I am pretty simple, not extravagant. Be nice to me and make me smile and I am happy.:)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Trang

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Hello:Yes, I like to hunt, fish (year round), , quad, kayak, basically anything outdoors. Not scared to get dirty (cuz I wash off) but I also like to be treated like a princess. I enjoying the outside and all it has to offer. I like to stay home sometimes, watch a movie and cuddle on the couch....but I can also cuddle and watch the Red Wings. You must have a sense of humor, and make me laugh! I WILL not consider you if you do not have a job, and you must NOT be a smoker. I like to dance, walk, or bike ride. I do like to deer hunt in all three seasons for it, bow, firearm, muzzleloader. I guess the skinny is, if you like to do the same things I do, then ***, if you are into a hook up of sorts, then keep on looking, cuz I am NOT the girl for you. If you don't have a image, don't waste my time!!! No pic, no response!! Have a Happy Happy Day! Coffee, or Tea. Keep it simple.

  • Alfredia

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I am stable with a great job and own my house and car. I have two cats. I enjoy just about anything or will give it a shot. I have a teen son at home. I have a great personality and love to meet new people either for friends or more. I am a go getter, I am trying to better my self either on my job or with my life. I like to bowl, play darts, go to the movies, relax at home with a blockbuster movie. I do ski when I can, I roller blade and workout in the mornings. I have no baggage and in return don’t want any. I like all music, and anything but rap. I am a very healthy and eat that way. I am looking for something to spend quality time with. I am not looking for one night stands or a quiet roll in the hay.

  • Odette

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I am not complicated but I live each day with adventure that is tempered with reality. I believe happiness comes from within and in saying so...am happy each and every day no matter what..... Drama can be created or diffused...the choice is always ours!I am confident but very easy going, love to laugh and never sweat the small stuff!!I value family and friendship….my children mean the world to me and as they get older they just continue to amaze and inspire me!My friends’ say I am strong and can handle pretty much anything that gets thrown my way.....usually with seeing the "silver lining". ….when in need I am ALWAYS there for my friends…I think it is a privilege and magically it works both ways! …I am lucky!I am not one to wait for a plumber or electrician …..that being said …my insurance company loves me! J I never shy away from a challenge and try and push myself as much as possible. I love to try new things, hot yoga and learning how to ski are my latest passions……so far so good, no broken limbs and no yoga pose that I haven’t been able to get untangled from….still working on getting OFF the bunny hill!!’ cottage in the winter playing in the snow or being challenged on a crazy ski-doo ride….There is nothing more intoxicating than sitting outside under the gazebo during a rain storm. I love to be outside regardless of the season am not one to sit at home…….and then I simply breathe and bleed Blue!I am equally comfortable wearing the "little black dress" or jeans and a sweat top at the camp fire. People tell me I am very easy to talk to as I am not judgmental.I enjoy entertaining at my house and have worked hard to make it a warm, comfortable place to visit. My friends will often drop by unannounced and this works for me.I am looking for someone who is confident, comfortable in their own skin, who likes to laugh but also values the rewards of hard work. Someone who is not complicated and is able, on occasion, to laugh at himself….and probably more often at me!!I DO believe in taking what you dish out and have been known to be somewhat sarcastic….O.K. I AM sarcastic but never in a mean way……….I do not want or need drama in my life and am looking for someone who feels the same way. I have been on my own for a number of years and I feel that dating multiple people is best left for others….simply put is not my style.I would like to find someone that not only has my same values but also shares my same passion for life.It is important to me that one sees life as “glass half full” and wants to share in the adventures that each day brings.That being said I honestly feel that at this stage of our lives everyone has some type of “baggage” and it is in how we deal with it that determines our future happiness……I choose to be happy…and I hope to meet someone that feels the same way……..liking a Starbucks latte is simply a bonus

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