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Shanel, 48

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About Me

I have been on here a few times...and have listed as nothing serious...the casual dating has gotten old to me, and I'm moving more toward the one on one,...so I'm shifting gears, adjusting my attitude and cutting out the nonsense.I consider myself (not trying to sound arrogant) an amazing partner.% into the relationship, but my cooking isn't very creative, but I can follow a recipe. I'm very affectionate, sensual, and confident in my sexuality.I want a man that is confident, taller than me (I want to wear heels, dance and be able to lay my head on his shoulder without having to stoop) No offense, but just this time around, I know what I want and don't like to feel like an amazon next to my man. I want a man that is not afraid to hold my hand in public, to kiss me for no reason, to love my family, to want to spend time with me, to treat me like a Goddess. Believe me...if I get that...he will know he is loved. I love to take pictures, create memories, and bring joy to others lives, and a lot of times without them knowing who did it. Those Random Senseless Acts of Beauty....If you want to know more, please ask. But please don't ask me a question you don't want answered honestly. I've reached an age that sugar coating things is old, and I don't like drama.... Let's meet at a mutually agreed upon location and determine what best fits. But you can never go wrong with a cup of coffee and conversation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Margurite

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I have an out going personality, I am a friendly, fun-loving, confident smart woman. I consider myself to be a caring, kind, good and honest woman and would like to find the same in a man. I have learned a lot from past relationships about myself and each one has made me a better person. I am happy in life but ready to find someone to share it with. I love spending time with my friends and family. I have grown children that are the loves of my life and have busy lives of their own and live on their own. An ideal weekend would be spending time with that special someone. Some of my favorite things: the beach, dance, live bands, nature, cuddling during a thunderstorms. I am looking for someone who likes to have fun, try new things, and is not afraid of interesting deep conversations. Someone who is honest, respectful, caring, spontaneous, integrity with a lot of heart and soul. Not looking for a hook up or a one night stand or someone playing games..... If your into chatting on line and *** and forth then I am not for you. To get to know someone you must talk via phone and then meet...:)) I will be and I want someone who is my best friend to share our time and hearts with each other without losing ourselves as individuals! I can be a strong independent woman when necessary but still want to be treated like a lady. Lets start making memories together. Chivalry is not dead and flirting is not a lost art form. Good Luck to all in your search! Coffee, Tea or Me...lol.....Great conversation over coffee is fine!

  • Martin

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Hi! Looking for someone to get to know starting slow. Dating! What a concept! I am open to a relationship but that starts with getting to know someone... Here's me:"Woman. mid-40s (looks younger, thanks mom and dad). Wants to meet attractive, fit, tall-er than me - single man,somewhere between mid to late thirties, into late forties, early fifties? (is that range wide enough?lol). Funny, has his stuff together. Go out on a date, have a drink, see how things go. . I look for a visceral(and lets face it- visual) reaction to a persons profile- that's what I'm looking for-and I'm quite content to go a long time to wait for what I'm after. I have alot of interests and keep busy with them In addition to my job which has me travelling often. Im independent and ideally you are as well..I'm all about quality time vs quantity. Gym, interior design. Drawing and painting, and travel are all passions--loved it-. Lots of the world to see...a partner to do that with would be fantastic. If you're looking for a FWB, hookup or some such thing- That's not what I'm looking for. Intimacy is something I look forward to-with someone I have the intention of seeing again:)I SINCERELY wish the best to all but will only respond to those I see potential click with. also just a note -I use an iPhone to log in here -and it keeps you logged in all day so it may look like I'm online when I'm actually not! First date is something casual, drink, coffee, get to know one another. Skydiving and Poetry recital comes later.

  • Genevie

    Online

    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am a very positive outgoing person by nature. Finding reasons to smile and laugh come very easily for me. I am a nurturer by nature and put others before myself. I LOVE to be spontaneous, but also balance responsibilities very well.The tendency to act from my heart is a natural ***, Music is a huge passion of mine and normally prefer smaller venues, cafe's etc. My music interests cover a wide span. If I had to list my top choices they would be Country, R&B, Standards, some Classic Rock even, but I also like to venture out past those and explore varieties. One thing I would have to pass on is Rap.Taking a road trip anywhere - even just for a long drive is wonderful! I enjoy just as much, watching TV/movies, trying new recipes ( I've given up on grilling though - that is certainly not a talent of mine), being outdoors as much as possible. There are very few things I would prefer not to try - except skydive! I am a" why not" person. Many people ask why, and I will most always answer with why not? I really like sports, and football days - watch out - ha! I always make time for the person I am with - first and foremost. Don't be surprised if you find a single rose on your windshield! It's very important to know someones likes and dislikes. I do not like to argue, but rather talk things out - seriously! Another topic is I don't dwell in the past. Sure, I will talk about my past experiences, but they don't always have to be in a negative tone. I prefer to learn from them and just let it go when possible. I've noticed two things in writing my description. I haven't mentioned what I'm looking for. I believe it is the same as many on here. A good, honest, trustworthy, compassionate person with a big heart. My dislikes? I would have to say a full-time couch potato, cynical, argumentative, and negative attitude. My interests below? There's no way I could list them all. The phrase easy going is used so much, but I can't emphasize enough how truly easy it is to make me laugh. I know I haven't included everything in here, but hopefully this gives a general idea of who I am. If you have any questions I truly am an open book. I know this is very long, and thank you for taking the time to read this all the way through - Ha! Oh, one more. Has anyone had problems with their profile changing without your permission? For a first date I am comfortable in many settings, and I would want them to be as well. Whether it be a restaurant, cafe, coffeehouse, park, and many many more. Conversation is more important than the where for me. I do believe going to a movie initially is not the best of choice. An add on later in the evening can be fun though! For a first date I think two people should decide together on what is most comfortable and appealing for each. It should feel more like meeting a new friend, than an interview for applying for a job - just have fun!

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