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Kandace, 49

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About Me

I work hard as an ER nurse and night shift clinical coordinator. I love my job,but it is not my life.(it does make me realize how short life can be and to just enjoy every minute of it that you can) My family always comes first. My children are now young adults working and gong to school with my oldest out on her own. No matter how old they are they will always be a priority for me. They are adopted and of different races so if that's not for you pass me on.I am just staring the process of looking for a home to purchase. I really like NJ, well, probably wouldn't have any complaints if someone warmed my car up for me every cold winter morning:) I am patient,easy going,reliable,generous and responsible. Looking for the same in a partner. I'm shy at first,but warm up quickly I can have a slightly warped sense of humor.....blame it on years of ER nursing.I like staying in shape and staying active. I run outside regularly and belong to a gym. LOVE the beach,rainy nights.sleeping in once in a while, Early fall mornings with a good cup of coffee, Halloween,pumpkin picking,apple picking. I love scary movies!! The kind that make you not want to be home alone! I like dressing up and going out for dinner or a drink somewhere out of the way, not too crowded. A place where we can actually hear each other talk and I don't feel like I could be the parent to most of the patrons.Also love casual stay at home times too. I like most types of music and enjoy good local bands. Going to the city is fun on occasion too. I never mind getting a little messy as long as I'm having fun:) Really most things we do are fun in the right company.Also love vacations exotic or different not necessarily the popular all inclusive resorts that are so popular,like stay-cations too they give me a chance to catch up on those things so easily put off, finding new places to explore as well as going to old favorites. So that's pretty much me in a few paragraphs. If interested please have a recent photo..mine are all recentThanks:)DonaPS if you send me more than one *** remember you did and don't copy and paste your lengthy self absorbed intro *** more than once...Thanks:) A cup of coffee, a drink, good conversation that flows easily .... Keep it simple if things work we can have a longer second,third or 100th date:)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Marcene

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Thanks for stopping,I'm a kind,caring,outgoing,hard working girl.who is spontaneous,affectionate.compassionate and honest.my interests are the beach,dining in or out ,bowling,tennis, sports,holding hands,movies,concerts,wk end get away's, drives to know where,and like to try new things and.being outside.I do have children and they mean the world to me I love spending time with them when ever I can.now that they are all grown its time for me.I'm having fun and enjoying the simple pleasures in life and all it has to offer.. nothing to crazy drinks,coffee,a walk,dinner,soda pop,your choice,our choice.. lets discuss it..

  • Esme

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Sense of humor down to earth I like to garden go to movies I listen to basically any type of music.I love Football and Hockey.Car shows and Demolition Derbys.Walks or just sitting near the water.I love Thunderstorms and Bonfires with friends and beers .lol. I enjoy crafts and am very artistic.I'm looking for someone that's real down to earth with a sense of humor.Honest and Trustworthy who loves kids mine come with the package.Lifes A Dance You Learn As You Go.If You are 55 or older I am not interested Please do not message me as I will not reply.Also I'm very big on hygeine teeth body hair .Please don't tell me you have black hair and there's only one strand.I am a very Independant woman .I have raised two kids on my own provided a home for them .I don't play games nor do I have time for them .I'm attracted to men with Dark Hair and Dark eyes .But willing to take a peek. No I am not shallow I'm truthful.If there's no physical attraction why bother.I know what I like and I want what I like.Hey I'm not a prize either.I just had gastric bypass so I'm on the road to a better life.I Love my Cigerettes Don't tell me u can't handle the smoke the smell etc Then don't bother.Its the only vice I have leave me alone.I hope I haven't scared u off.But I'm not going to sugar coat it.so that we meet and look at each other and say Holy uck.Also please have your own Job and Car I'm not supporting u or Driving ur ass around .Those Days are over.lol I'm A Jeans and TShirt Girl Love my Hoodies .But will Dress up If needed I Just Know U will Love me Lol Coffee sit near water any place I can have a cig lol

  • Jennette

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am a positive upbeat person who is looking for someone who can hold a conversation, but not dominate it or just grunt his way through it. Must have an sense of adventure and direction in life. I am direct and to the point but will never hurt someone with my honesty. I do not people who and mean or makes a person feel small. I dont mind a social drinker but if you have to have a drink in your hand all the time I am not interested. Looking for someone who can show me around and be adventurous to areas unknown to him. You must be comfortable in a social environment (and not picking up other women while with me) but can also sit comfortably at home watching tv. I am a good listener and like someone who returns the favor.I like cuddling on the sofa watching my favorite shows, Big Bang Theory, NCIS, Criminal Minds, History Channel, old movies and something that will make me laugh. I like a nice night out on the town but just as happy holding hands on the beach or on the sofa.Newly started exploring a healthier life style with food and exercise.If you are a man who has children with several woman and NOT a responsible father dont contact me. If you are shallow and all about you then we have nothing in common. You must have a legitimate job! I am a business woman who owns 3 business and currently looking for a job so I appreciate a good work ethic. I like a man who takes pride in his work regardless of what it is. I appreciate a man who knows how to dress appropriately. If you dont understand your that the waistband of your pants belongs around your waist and not below your butt then we have nothing in common.I like music in the park, a good movie, eating out but also cooking for someone (one of my businesses is in the culinary field)... he also needs to know his way around a kitchen. Must be comfortable around my friends. I will not give them up because I met someone. I am easy going but do not tolerate drama. Life is too short to stress every minute. Love to laugh, love a good conversation, love learning new things.Game playing does not work for me. If you cant be honest about yourself and your life I will figure it out quickly and will not mix words about what I think! First meeting must be casual over coffee or a walk with a minimal investment. Important to know we have something in common before anything else.

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