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Kandace, 49

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About Me

I work hard as an ER nurse and night shift clinical coordinator. I love my job,but it is not my life.(it does make me realize how short life can be and to just enjoy every minute of it that you can) My family always comes first. My children are now young adults working and gong to school with my oldest out on her own. No matter how old they are they will always be a priority for me. They are adopted and of different races so if that's not for you pass me on.I am just staring the process of looking for a home to purchase. I really like NJ, well, probably wouldn't have any complaints if someone warmed my car up for me every cold winter morning:) I am patient,easy going,reliable,generous and responsible. Looking for the same in a partner. I'm shy at first,but warm up quickly I can have a slightly warped sense of humor.....blame it on years of ER nursing.I like staying in shape and staying active. I run outside regularly and belong to a gym. LOVE the beach,rainy nights.sleeping in once in a while, Early fall mornings with a good cup of coffee, Halloween,pumpkin picking,apple picking. I love scary movies!! The kind that make you not want to be home alone! I like dressing up and going out for dinner or a drink somewhere out of the way, not too crowded. A place where we can actually hear each other talk and I don't feel like I could be the parent to most of the patrons.Also love casual stay at home times too. I like most types of music and enjoy good local bands. Going to the city is fun on occasion too. I never mind getting a little messy as long as I'm having fun:) Really most things we do are fun in the right company.Also love vacations exotic or different not necessarily the popular all inclusive resorts that are so popular,like stay-cations too they give me a chance to catch up on those things so easily put off, finding new places to explore as well as going to old favorites. So that's pretty much me in a few paragraphs. If interested please have a recent photo..mine are all recentThanks:)DonaPS if you send me more than one *** remember you did and don't copy and paste your lengthy self absorbed intro *** more than once...Thanks:) A cup of coffee, a drink, good conversation that flows easily .... Keep it simple if things work we can have a longer second,third or 100th date:)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Albina

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Not a member yet, checking out the site for now. I don't know if I can reply.This isn't so easy for me, and I really have not dated, so I'll start by saying; If you're looking for glitz glam, look no further, I'm not for you. I'm pretty much a jeans, boots or sneakers kinda woman. That isn't to say I don't look hot in high heels and a mini. I do like to dress up.I'm very down to earth, creative and I love the outdoors. The mountains or the beach, whatever nature has to offer, including all animals. I am a giving and caring person, always willing to help.I'm the kind of woman who doesn't mind getting her hands dirty, I love fixing things. If I think I can do it, it's done, from electrical to plumbing, laying tile or whatever. I come complete with a wide selection of tools and a big heart I am willing to share. (and I love my tools) It would be nice to have a second pair of hands around….. (around me, and to complete me)I am very intelligent, funny, passionate, sensual, spontaneous, honest and loyal. Only one man for me.And if you are the ONE, I’ll just say I give a great massage.I am looking for a man who can’t wait to come home to me, wrap his arms around me and kiss my lips, neck, shoulder….. like there is no tomorrow. I love a man that is spontaneous, that is one thing a woman should never have to ask of her man. I want a family man; I want to be the doting wife and mother. I know it sounds corny and old fashioned but I tell it like it is, the way I had hoped it would be.My son needs a friend and a man he can look up to, like a dad, and if you have children, that is a huge plus. My son has asked on many occasions for a sister or brother, under the circumstances the best I could do was to get him a cat. It worked for awhile. I myself have always wanted more than one and if you should happen to have one or more children I would love them as my own. I am a great mother, homemaker and potential wife. I don't believe you would be sorry.I’d also like to mention, I’m a pretty good cook. You’d never know it is heart healthy. I try to stay fit so I managed to transform all that “bad for you” food into something you can enjoy without the guilt. I will admit, there are times when you just have to cheat a little bit. Wouldn't it be nice to whip up a dessert together?I like to exercise and having a partner to work out with would be nice and a lot more fun. So here I am, the end of my rope, online dating, hoping to meet the love of my life. I am not a big dater, so if I don’t get back to you please don’t be hurt. I just can’t date anybody, it’s not me. I am going to be very selective, after all, this will be the first day of the rest of my life, or Our life together.I can only add; for the right man there will be endless, spontaneous passion, filled with hugs and delicious kisses. PS - the pictures are all taken within the year. Don’t take it personal, but if there is no picture I probably won’t reply. I am not picky and I'm sure between the two of us we will come up with something we are both comfortable with.

  • Esme

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Sense of humor down to earth I like to garden go to movies I listen to basically any type of music.I love Football and Hockey.Car shows and Demolition Derbys.Walks or just sitting near the water.I love Thunderstorms and Bonfires with friends and beers .lol. I enjoy crafts and am very artistic.I'm looking for someone that's real down to earth with a sense of humor.Honest and Trustworthy who loves kids mine come with the package.Lifes A Dance You Learn As You Go.If You are 55 or older I am not interested Please do not message me as I will not reply.Also I'm very big on hygeine teeth body hair .Please don't tell me you have black hair and there's only one strand.I am a very Independant woman .I have raised two kids on my own provided a home for them .I don't play games nor do I have time for them .I'm attracted to men with Dark Hair and Dark eyes .But willing to take a peek. No I am not shallow I'm truthful.If there's no physical attraction why bother.I know what I like and I want what I like.Hey I'm not a prize either.I just had gastric bypass so I'm on the road to a better life.I Love my Cigerettes Don't tell me u can't handle the smoke the smell etc Then don't bother.Its the only vice I have leave me alone.I hope I haven't scared u off.But I'm not going to sugar coat it.so that we meet and look at each other and say Holy uck.Also please have your own Job and Car I'm not supporting u or Driving ur ass around .Those Days are over.lol I'm A Jeans and TShirt Girl Love my Hoodies .But will Dress up If needed I Just Know U will Love me Lol Coffee sit near water any place I can have a cig lol

  • Hellen

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Hoping to find the one that I can live the rest of my life with. I thought I had him but didnt. I know the one that God has in mind for me is out there somewhere. I just have to be patient and wait. I may not find him on here but its worth a try. I enjoy being with family and friends. My family means the world to me. I dont like games. I guess everyone says that on here but dont always mean it. I am honest and would like someone that can be honest back. I am very busy with work and family but want to have someone that I can spend the free time with . I love sunrises and sunsets. . It is very important to me to find someone that has similar qualities when it comes to family and believe in God. Send a note if any of this is of interest and I can tell you more.Well its been awhile since I have been on here. Thought I would try again. Well back again, I dont really know if the right one is out there for me but I pray that he is. My family is all grown up and although its fun hanging out with the grandbabies they dont keep you company all the time. My doctor told my recently that we are meant to share are live with someone special. So here I am following doctors order and starting the search over again.New entry. I entered gym and healthy eating into my interests. I have recently (about a month now) started gym and eating healthy. I am loving it and feeling great.I wont have to put a few extra pounds on profile someday soon. yeah:) I would probably like to meet at a coffee house or some type of cafe for a first date. Another fun thing to do would be to go bowling

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