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Jessamyn, 49
United States, Nebraska, York

Offline, last seen Thu, 19 Mar 2026 05:54:33

About Me

I am easy going and try not to sweat the small stuff. I am outgoing and fit into any social situation. I tend to think "outside of the box" and try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt and try not to be judgmental of others; you never know what they are going through. I love to have intelligent, interesting conversations but can also be as silly as the next guy. I am a devoted mom, I work full time and stay involved with my kids' school and community outreach (medical) events. I am very open to accepting someone else's children and know that "package deals" are the best! I am a Christian and I am looking for the same. I love animals and have passed that love on to my kids. A good sense of humor is a "must have". I would love to find that connection....the unspoken "I totally get you"...the one. If you are one of the guys on this site that find it necessary to have posted a picture you took of yourself shirtless in the bathroom with a reflection of you holding your camera/phone in the mirror, please do not contact me. The first date should be somewhere laid back and somewhat quiet where we can talk and get to know each other. The first date is when both of us can tell if there is a connection or not so much, so it is important to be somewhere we feel relaxed, under no pressure, and be able to hold a decent conversation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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