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Rubie, 49
United States, Nebraska, York

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About Me

Hi, and thanks for checking out my profile.As a divorced mom with a grown child, I'm looking for a fun companion for traveling and romantic evenings. Here's my vision: we each live in our own homes, get together to check out restaurants, movies, go to the beach, travel, and anything else we like to do together. Marriage isn't a goal for me at this phase of my life, but spending time with a cool and fun guy definitely is. Could you be that guy? You don't have to worry about me being white trash gone wild or anything like that; what you see in my photos is what you get. I am really 49 years old and proud of my years, even though I'm often told I don't look my age (and sometimes I don't act it either). I'm a responsible girl with a good job and I'm not looking for a sugar daddy. I admit to having a preference for men on the taller side, and salt n' pepper hair is a big plus. I like a man who has his own interests and hobbies. If you like to take your Harley out for a ride, go for it. Hang out with the boys on Sundays for a Bucs game? Have at it! I think relationships are much better if people aren't stuck together like glue, and it makes the time spent together that much better. Be interesting, be fun, and be yourself. We're in our forties now, so we've moved past the emotional drama and 2.5 children requirement. Let's fill the blank spaces in our lives together. First date would be over a glass of wine in a quiet place where we could get to know each other. It will be a low-threat environment; if we don't click, we can say we've met a great person and move on.Best of luck to everyone out there, and remember not to take things personally. We're all trying to find that amazing person, and we don't always match up immediately. Be patient and keep trying!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Bluegrass Blues Korean Middle Eastern Action Adult Animation Horror Rodeo
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